I do not know if I am in …
May 19, 2013 by Elaine AmDee
Filed under Dating Tips For Women
Comment posted Men Can Fake Whole Relationships by Sasha.
I do not know if I am in he ame situation but I have a boyfiend who mentioned the m word but a year later he has not yet proposed to me at all. When I mention this fact, his excuses are lame!
Also he is always broke does not hav money. I take out my money all the time.
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Things like this are so easy to see looking from an outsider perspective. One of my closest girlfriends has been in this type of “relationship” for 1 1/2 years. The only time they see each other is when he stops by during his lunch time to “hang out”. She doesn’t know where he lives and only hears from him by text in between visits. I sincerely believe he is married but of course she is living in her ivory tower and thinks what they have is special.
I wish I had some advice but for those in these types of relationships they have painted a very unrealistic view of what they have without being able to see the truth. I think because the times they are together they are made to feel desired and put up with the disconnect in hopes a full real relationship will unfold for their payment for being so patient.
Yeah u can tell there’s signs all around that. If my man didn’t let me meet his family and friends or kids I’d think they was something wrong there. I’d find me somebody worth my time if I was ur friend times to short to be playing games!!
Well I met a guy today and he told me that he met his wife January 12 2012 on Match.com and 159 days they were married. Now granted that is a tad quick but it also tells me that if a guy really wants you HE WANTS YOU NOW! Not later!
It also tells me that I was in denial in a relationship too when I saw a man for a year same way, at my house, none of his friends, or family. I was a happy camper until one day last July he said I found somebody new and I want to see where it goes. Never fool yourself that you are “the one” in that kind of situation you are just a FWB. If you are saying yes to everything he asks of you he has lost value in you because you have lost value in yourself. You may as well be a dog after a bone. He has you on a leash and when he says come you run towards him. If you answer all of his texts right away, return all phone calls within minutes you are on his leash he justs tugs and you run towards him. He has already won you over he doesn’t have to work for it anymore. You are his at his beck and call. Why should he buy the cow when the milk is free. Men like a challenge they want to know that they have won the prize not the booby prize.
Why would you wait, when the one might be around the corner looking for you appreciating you. You can lose years of time just “waiting” for him to finally realize you are the one. But at this rate he will never see it. One possible chance is to stop everything, be busy, don’t answer back right away. If he can’t take you out somewhere don’t go to him. You are doing all the work time for him to work for you.
I do not know if I am in he ame situation but I have a boyfiend who mentioned the m word but a year later he has not yet proposed to me at all. When I mention this fact, his excuses are lame!
Also he is always broke does not hav money. I take out my money all the time.
Dated a dude for almost a whole year who was scared to say I was his GF
So I said forget this and told him I was interested in dating other dudes;)
All of a sudden I became important but it was too late I told him. It’s been about 6
months now I’m still looking for a new guy, but actively dating;) if I held on to him I realized
I would have missed oppertunites and would never been happy being in limbo:))
i do completely agree…
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You can tell if a man really like you by how he acts around u and if he calls or text u every day and tells u how much he misses seeing u and how he wish u was there with him and comes see u everyday more than once a day. But these are the signs my bf gives and shows me so I was just sharing them.
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I was with a guy for four months. The first two months we didn’t sleep together. After we slept together he still wants to see me but the relationship talk stopped. He tells me we should just take it slow and see where it goes.
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