10 Signs He Is Serious About You

December 3, 2012 by  
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Have you ever wondered whether your man is serious about you and wants to spend his life with you? If you are not sure whether he is serious about you, I have a list of 10 signs that will help you determine whether your man is serious about you. Go over this list and answer TRUE or FALSE next to each of these in respect with your relationship. If you have more TRUE’s than FALSE’s then you can say with all assurance that you are in a relationship. If you get more FALSE’s than TRUE’s, then you are just dating.

When a man is your boyfriend you have a certainty because his actions demonstrate clearly that he is your boyfriend. Here is a checklist of items for your perusal:

1. He tells everyone including his friends, family, co-workers etc. that he has a girlfriend, and that it’s YOU
2. You two are listed on FaceBook as in a relationship with each other
3. He shows active interest in your life
4. He wants to help you achieve your goals or at the very least supports them
5. You have a key to his house
6. He lets you drive his car and use it as your own
7. He lets you rearrange his furniture, bring your “girly” throw pillows, stuffed animals, flowers, etc. and considers your opinion when you suggest remodeling his home
8. He adds you to his medical insurance policy or his car insurance
9. You puts your name down on his Emergency Contact form at the doctor’s office or HR Department at work
10. He gives you a ring and asks you to marry him
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Serious Talk In 5 Steps

November 12, 2012 by  
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Have you ever wondered if there was the right way to have a serious talk?

One of my clients called me today to let me know her boyfriend had just proposed.

She has been in private coaching with me for six months, since before she met him. They have been together for about four months. Today was the day he asked her to marry him!

You may be thinking it’s too fast, but the reality is that there is no right and wrong length of a relationship that can predict with a hundred percent accuracy the success of a marriage. I have known a couple who have been now married for twelve years and are very happy in their marriage. He proposed to his now wife only after knowing her for three weeks; they were engaged for six months after she accepted his proposal, and have now been married for years.

On the other hand, I have known couples who knew each other for years before getting married and are now going through a divorce.
The key here is how well you know each other before you accept a marriage proposal. Some people know each other on the surface for a long time, and fail to get to know each other intimately. Others get to know the most intimate details and share the deepest feelings and emotions early on. Granted, it takes a special person to make another open up to the extent that the person becomes comfortable with sharing their most intimate details and feelings. I teach you how to become that person a man can truly bond with on a deep emotional level on This Page>>>

So, is there the right way to have a serious talk? There certainly is.

In this article I have outlined the steps to have a serious talk:

1 Step – Make Sure Your Man Is The One Initiating The Serious Talk

Men want to feel that they are the ones making the decision to take your relationship to the next level of commitment. You may have hinted about marriage before, and have made him comfortable by letting him know that you think he is The One, and if marriage proposal came from him, you would surely accept it. Now that he has this information he should be the one starting The Talk.

2 Step – Be Sure He Is Serious About It

Many couples in relationships talk about their relationships and even marriage tongue and cheek. But when it comes to discussing his upcoming proposal, it is important that both of you understand the seriousness of the moment. Don’t turn it into a joke and act as if you are just having fun, as your man might lose interest in discussing the topic. When he is being serious, he wants to make sure you are in the same frame of mind.

3 Step – Be Completely Honest

Most men want to know what they would be getting themselves into if they were to marry. When your man asks you about your plans for the future, your debt and your financial situation, be honest. If you plan on quitting your job to start a family, tell him about your desires honestly. There is nothing worse than getting married and then discovering that your spouse suddenly decides to quit their job. Dishonestly and lack of complete disclosure prior to marriage can quickly lead to huge resentments and quick divorce.

If you have a huge credit card debt, your husband will know about it after you two get married anyway, so it’s better to let him know.

If you don’t disclose information he is entitled to know prior to marrying you that can substantially impact his finances, he will resent you for the rest of the marriage (which will probably not last). This isn’t about the money at this point. This is about honesty, integrity and reassuring your partner in your honest intentions. It is more likely that if one of you has financial problems, the other will be willing to help solve them if you are honest and upfront about them.

4 Step – Assist Your Man When He Asks For Assistance

Many men are clueless when it comes to the clothing size their women wear. Getting the right size ring can be even more complicated.

If your man asks you to go to a jewelry store with him to get your ring size, simply do so without expectations. Don’t expect him to get a ring on the spot. He may just be sizing it up. Perhaps he has a different ring style in mind, a different store, or the ring of your choice can be just out of his budged. Let him get your ring size without pressure, and if he asks for your opinions on what kind of rings you like, the kind of stone and metal, help him out, but be patient.

5 Step – Discuss Your Future

Before a man becomes completely convinced that it’s time to pop the question, he will want to know your views on the future. He’ll want to know where you would like to live in your future, what you want to do about your career, whether you want children, etc. Discuss as many topics as you can come up with. The more you clear the air, the more your man will be convinced you are the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with when he sees your goals for the future are aligned with his.

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How to Create an Emotional Attraction With Your Man

September 30, 2012 by  
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We’ve all seen the commercials for those dating services that promise helping find someone who we are emotionally attracted to and have that relationship that is destined to last. The trouble is those commercials never really explain what they mean by emotional attraction and what makes a man emotionally attracted to a woman? Is emotional attraction as important as physical attraction? What exactly are the components to emotional attraction?

There’s no denying that there has to be some type of physical attraction for a relationship to develop. There needs to be some sort of spark or chemistry. You have to be excited to see him and he needs to feel the same way about you. For a relationship to last, however, and not be a short-term affair, your relationship much be based on emotional attraction.

Sounds difficult, right? Or at the very least a little mysterious and tough to figure out? But in truth, the answer is much simpler than you would think. Emotional attraction is based on shared interests, acceptance, respect, trust, and living in the moment.

First, shared interests. It’s not that you both have to like the exact same things, have the same hobbies, and spend every waking moment together. But you must have some shared interests in common. Don’t be closed off to the things that make him happy. Try them on for size and you may find an activity that you never knew you were interested in. At the very least, you will make him very happy for loving everything about him and wanting to spend more time with him doing the things that he loves to do. Don’t try to make him change all of his habits to match your own. Be willing to explore new adventures and interests with him.

Next, there needs to be acceptance for a relationship to be successful. Accepting him means that you love him for who he is and you don’t try to change him. One of the worst things that you can do to kill a relationship before it really has a chance to thrive is to be overly judgmental of your boyfriend. If he senses that you don’t approve of his career, think that his job or lifestyle isn’t good enough for you, or you try to change the things that make him who he is, those actions will derail your relationship.

Part of accepting him means that you need to support him and his decisions. He needs to know that he has your respect. The best way to do this is to actively show him. Be sure to tell him how proud you are of him, support him in his goals and dreams, and don’t be the one to throw cold water on his hopes. He needs to know that you are his number one fan and that you love him for all the things he is and aren’t focused on what some may see as his negative traits.

Without trust, there can be no real and lasting relationship. He needs to know that you trust him fully. This means that you trust him to be faithful to you and your relationship. Jealousy is one of the traits that will turn a guy off almost immediately. It is one thing to be wary of a woman who seems overly interested in your boyfriend. It is another to show your boyfriend by your actions and your words that you do not trust him to be true to you in the face of such temptation.

You also need to trust his decisions. You should never make him think that you are second guessing his choices. When he has confidence in your faith in him, he will open up more to you than you ever thought possible. He won’t feel as free to be frank with you if he thinks you always doubt his abilities to make good decisions.

Finally, one of the things that you can do that will increase your chances of creating a lasting emotional attraction is to live in the moment. Men are turned off by women who are always thinking, “what’s next?” You know, the women who are already planning their wedding receptions by the end of the first date. It’s not just the men who have a fear of commitment who run from these wedding planners. Men want women who are really there in the present moment, enjoying what life has to offer and not concerned with how things will end up a year from now.

Try to stay in the moment when you’re with your boyfriend. Enjoy and cherish the time that you share together. Don’t rush ahead or worry constantly about where your relationship is going. If you spend all your time anxious about the state of your relationship, you will unintentionally drive him to think you are overly fixated on marriage or that you are too clingy and needy. Rather, if you can stay in the moment without thinking so far ahead, you’ll find that his attraction for you will grow.

You’ll also find that you enjoy your relationship more and that you aren’t agonizing over what you don’t have but appreciating what you do. Oftentimes, when your boyfriend sees that you’re not thinking 20 steps down the road that is when he will actually be the one to start looking ahead to the next stage in your relationship. This way he won’t feel that he’s being trapped into something but rather that your relationship is progressing naturally and that the next step isn’t scary at all. In fact, he’ll be as willing to take that next step as you are.

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How to Tell He Wants a Relationship

August 23, 2012 by  
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Men always say that women are a mystery but if we’re a mystery, then they are an outright enigma. The most puzzling thing about men by far is how men almost never talk about their feelings. It seems impossible to figure out what they actually think or feel about something. Guessing doesn’t work but asking them doesn’t get you much more.

So if men are so awful at talking about their feelings how can a women figure out if a guy wants a relationship? Short of having him hypnotized or finding a truth serum, is there a way? Well, first it’s easier to talk about the ways to know when he definitely does not want a relationship.  If you’ve been dating for a while and you haven’t met any of his friends or his family, he’s not ready for you to be a real part of his life.

If he doesn’t want to stop seeing other women or yammers on about not wanting to label what you have got going on here, he is not ready for a relationship. If he waits until the last minute to make plans, cancels dates frequently, or acts slightly annoyed when you attempt any public display of affection, he doesn’t want a relationship.

I know that’s all well and good but it doesn’t quite help you figure out if a man wants a relationship. It’s not as easy as taking the signs of a man not ready for a relationship and reversing them. Just because he doesn’t cancel dates, is okay with a little PDA, or make plans more than a day in advance doesn’t mean he wants a serious relationship. So how do you know?

Keep in mind that this isn’t scientific; it’s just my observations from a lifetime of dating coaching. So in no particular order, here are some of the signs I’ve observed. Just as every human being is different, your particular man might not show all of these signs, I think you need to see more than just one of them.

Relationship signpost A: He wants to see you and make plans to be together twice or more per week for at least a month. That first week or two, it’s normal for things to be hot and heavy. You may talk every other day and go out more than once a week, but if that lasts beyond the initial two weeks, this is a potential signpost.

Relationship signpost B: He introduces you to his parents. Now I know I said above that just because he introduces you to his friends or family it doesn’t mean that he wants a relationship. However, parents—particularly mothers—are different. If he takes you home to meet the parents, he wants a relationship. You get even bigger points if he brings you along for an important family function.

Relationship signpost C: Listen to how he introduces you to people, be it family, coworkers, or friends. Does he take the time to actually introduce you or does he let you do it yourself? If he actually calls you his girlfriend, that’s a no-brainer but if you’re at a party and he doesn’t introduce you to anyone and just leaves you on your own, then he’s not at the relationship stage yet. And if you don’t even go to any events together, and he keeps you in the closet so to speak, then you know you aren’t anywhere near even starting a relationship.

Relationship signpost D: He plans and goes on a trip with you that is more than just a quick weekend out of town. It’s an even better sign if the travel involves airfare, is planned a month or more in advance, or is somewhere that you expressed interest in going and then he took the initiative and arranged the whole trip.

Relationship signpost E: He takes care of you when you’re sick. I am definitely not suggesting that you find someone with a cold and try to get their germs, but if you happen to get some type of cold, flu, virus, whatever when you guys have been dating and he actually takes care of you, he definitely wants a relationship. This has to involve more than just calling to see if you need anything. He needs to bring you something, fix you soup, hold back your hair, pick up a prescription or take you to see the doctor.

Relationship signpost F: He cooks for you more than once AND does the dishes. Any guy can take a girl out to a restaurant, but a guy that actually takes the time and effort to prepare something and doesn’t ask you to help in any capacity is ready or nearly ready for a relationship. The crucial element is that this meal preparation has to happen more than once. Many men will try to whip up something once in order to impress, but if he follows it up another time then that is a much better sign.

Relationship signpost G: He gives up something he wants to do for something that you want to do. I’m not talking about him just buying you something when he could have spent money on himself. Time is way more precious than money. If he voluntarily, and with no wheedling or pleading from you, chooses to do something that you want to do rather than something he wants to do, then you are likely in or nearly in a relationship.

Probably the most important advice I can give though is to not spend all your time waiting for these things or any magical signs that he wants to have a relationship. You’ll drive yourself nuts and overanalyze everything he says and does. Plus if you consistently freak out about trying to figure out if he’s ready, odds are you will turn him off and make yourself miserable in the meantime. Get to know him, have fun, and see what happens. If he shows those positive signs and you’re having fun, you have got yourself a keeper.

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Is He Ready To Commit?

August 21, 2012 by  
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If you’ve been with a man for some time but he doesn’t seem to want to move the relationship to the next level of commitment, let alone pop the question, you may start experiencing all kind of anxiety and even fears.

You’ve probably been there before with a guy or two, if not more, and you know from first-hand experience how frustrating it could be to waste months, even years on a relationship that’s never going to go anywhere. At least, not to the place you want it to go.

If you are experiencing anxiety from not knowing if your guy is seeing you as the one for him, the one he wants to marry some day, you are not alone. Women across the globe get frustrated with men seemingly not wanting to settle down and commit to a serious relationship.

At this point, you will start to wonder, is he ever going to commit? Is he serious about me or is he just using me?

Am I the one for him, or am I one of many?

These are all legitimate questions, and it’s fair for you to know the answers to them so you can make an informative decision as to how you want to proceed, whether you will stick around and wait until he is ready to commit or move on and find somebody else.

Before you take the plunge to do something completely irrational, let me tell you one little secret about men and commitment. But first, I want to tell you a brief story and see if you can recall a story from your own experience that you can relate to.

When I was 10 years old, I was terrified of diving into a pool. You could have told me that if I got up on that diving board and successfully dove in that I would get my very own pony and I still wouldn’t have done it. My swim teacher pleaded, my brother threatened to throw me in, I was told over and over how much fun it was, but I refused to budge.

That all changed the following year and for the life of me I can’t tell you why I was suddenly ready. It’s like I woke up one day and knew that I wouldn’t be happy until I tried to dive all on my own. I just hauled myself up there and dove head first in short order. After that first day, you couldn’t keep me off the board. I was a diving diva.

Can you remember a time when you just felt you weren’t ready for something and no amount of convincing or threatening, or even bribing made you change your mind? But then you were suddenly ready and off you went on your new journey to something totally new and exciting.

Can you remember how happy you were when you finally crossed that threshold of fear and un-readiness, and how much you enjoyed your newfound experience?

This is how men are too when it comes to commitment and marriage. One minute they are not ready, and then suddenly they are all into that as if they never resisted it in the first place.

You may have seen it happen. You may have even experienced being a relationship with a guy who you thought was a confirmed bachelor only to walk away and to witness him get married six months later to someone he’d just met.

If you wonder why this happens, you are in for a shocking discovery!

It may be incredibly trite but it is almost a universally accepted fact that men are afraid of commitment. But something that is not usually talked about is that if your particular man is at the stage in his life where he is not comfortable with where he is at in his life, he is not comfortable making commitment to anyone, and no amount of begging, threats, or ultimatums will make him change his mind… unless… YOU CAN HELP HIM BECOME READY to COMMIT TO YOU if you know how to do it right!

What you can do, as a woman who is determined to help him overcome his resistance to commit, is to encourage him and support him in his aspirations which make him ready to commit.

So before you start in with discussing the C word, make sure that take the right steps to prepare your guy to making a commitment to you.

When your guy is ready, he will commit to you without you saying a word!

In my Guide to Commitment I am going to show you exactly how to help your man ready to commit to you and only you!

When you know step by step exactly what to do and say to make your man ready to commit, you won’t have to ask him, because you will enjoy the certainty from knowing that your man is truly committed and devoted to you!

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Does He Think You are The One? How to Tell

August 17, 2012 by  
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The guy you’ve been seeing is great. He is everything you’ve always wanted in a guy. He is smart and funny. He makes you laugh. He is attractive. He’s got a good job. What else could you possibly ask for? He is perfect. And not only that, but you think he is perfect for you.

Now you just need to make sure HE knows you are the perfect woman for him, and happily ever after is going to kick in the moment he confesses his undying love for you.

But thus far, although you’ve been enjoying your time together, those magic words have not come out of his mouth. What gives?

Does he feel the same way about you or is he just enjoying your company in the moment?

Does he see future with you? Does he see you as his future wife or is it something passing?

Reading the mind of a man in a dating relationship could be often very confusing for a woman. We are here to help you read his mind and find out what he thinks about you and how he feels about you. You won’t even have to ask him because these subtle signs will tell you the truth.

Pay Attention To His Actions; Now His Words

Who cares about what he says? A man can say whatever he wants or whatever gets him into your pants.

It’s when you pay attention to his actions; it becomes evident how he truly feels about you!

Does he call you every day, or does he at the very least make an effort to do so? Or does he just call you on occasion and typically late at night after the club closes?

If your man calls you at a decent hour to make plans to do something together, and plans ahead, you know he is into you. If he enjoys your company outside of the bedroom, he might just be a keeper.

If he calls you on a regular basis just to hear your voice, just to check in and to find out how you are, you know he cares about you. He wants to know how your day is going, and he wants to know the details of your life.

Otherwise, why would he be calling you just to know how your day is going? Why would he want to hear your voice if he didn’t enjoy the sound of it?

Men don’t do things out of obligation. If he wants to see you; if he wants to hang out with you; if he wants to spend time in your company on a regular basis; you know he is into you.

He Makes Plans and Actually Follows Through

Making plans and talking about the future could be great indicators that a man has a potential. But if he doesn’t actually follow through, you know his words aren’t worth a dime.

An experienced pickup artist knows what to say to make a woman dream about being with him. He doesn’t want to put much effort into DOING things. Talk is cheap, but it is also very promising. What woman wouldn’t want to do all those wonderful things together with a man who is pursuing her?

In the hopes to have a wonderful relationship filled with excitement she dives right in only to find herself drowning later when she is left lonely and heartbroken.

Solution: don’t invest your hopes into a man’s potential. Do invest them into the reality you are living in right now.

He Gives You a Ring

This is the most wonderful moment we’ve all been waiting for. Your man gets down on his knee and asks you to be his wife!

What a touchy moment that is.

The ring is on your finger, and you start making wedding plans!

Now you can be rest assured, he definitely sees you as the one for him!

But what if none of that has yet happened to you? Should you give up on him and move onto someone else?

Not so fast!

Men need to take time to make a decision about the women they are with. They want to make sure you are the one before they make a long term commitment.

Some of the things they are looking for in a girlfriend and a future wife are the attributes you may not even suspect, and if you ask a man what he wants in the woman he wants to call his wife, he won’t be able to tell you.

Men aren’t very good at getting in touch with their feelings. But when you know what every man wants on a subconscious level, you will surely get and keep any man.

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What Makes a Man Stay In Love

July 12, 2012 by  
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This article is for women who want to know what makes a man stay in love.

This article is for you if:

– You want to know why men act like they are in love (and you can truly FEEL the intensity of his feelings) and then leave you out in the cold without an explanation

– You want to know why a man can be completely taken by you and then never follow up with you

– You want to know why a man will confess his undying love and devotion, talk about marriage, and then act like it never happened

– You want to know why a man can be with you for years never asking you to marry him and then turn around and marry another woman who is completely wrong for him

– You want to understand men better and learn how to use their NATURAL INSTINCTS to get a man and KEEP HIM!

After years of research, gathering and processing data, and backing it up by science I have come to the conclusion that what makes a man stay in love with a woman endlessly is his natural instincts.

I am not talking about the basic instincts such as food, shelter, procreation, and such. It turns out that every man has a specific set of instincts that are embedded into his brain. Those are instincts that make a man on a subconscious level want to stay with woman (or not).

This set of instincts is what triggers the feeling of love in the first place. And they are also his evolutionary triggers that make a man pull away from the relationship, resist love and withdraw completely.

Those are the triggers that cause men to go hot and cold, and to create a so-called bungee cord effect, which is what happens in a lot of relationships when a man acts like he likes you and then pulls away, when he says he loves you and then disappears!

Women have a natural ability to trigger those instincts unwittingly. They don’t actually do anything at all to trigger those instincts in a man. The important thing to realize here is that depending on which of his natural instincts you trigger will determine the outcome of your relationship! When you trigger all the wrong ones, the outcome will be a break up, or your relationship will go on and on forever in an endless cycle never progressing toward commitment!

At the same time, there are natural instincts that make a man fall in love with a certain type of woman, and make him want to stay with that woman forever!

Some women have this unique ability to trigger the right ones. Those are the women who end up in happy marriages that last a life time. On the other hand, many women have absolutely no idea how to trigger those hot psychological buttons that make a man attracted to a woman, make him fall in love with her, and make him want to stay with her forever and commit to her.

In fact, if you have been reading popular women’s magazines that teach you how to be a great catch and followed their advice, I have to tell you that the reason you are experiencing challenges catching and keeping a man for good is because you have followed this kind of harmful advice.

Let me ask you this,

– Have you ever heard that the best way to catch and keep a man is to be independent?

– Have you ever learned that a woman should have a full and complete life in order to attract a man?

– Have you ever learned that a woman should be incredibly good looking in order to keep a man’s attention or attract someone new?

– Have you ever followed the latest fashion because you thought it could help you catch a man?

I can continue this list ad nauseum. And if you have read these kind of dating tips and are still not happy about the way your love life is going right now, you know it doesn’t work! Sure, it’s nice to dress up and do your nails when you go out on a date, but will it help you keep a man?

If anything, it will help you get the attention of any straight single man, but how long can you keep it? That’s the question.

You can also try to impress your man by telling him all about your wonderful, full and exciting life and bore him to death with its amazing details.

Who cares?

And if you are now wondering how come a man doesn’t call you after you’ve told him all about your latest promotion on the job, made him gourmet dinner, gave him a massage after a night of passion, impressed him with your knowledge of the arts and your fashion sense, then I need to tell you that none of those things truly matter when it comes to getting a keeping a man in love!

What it really comes down to is whether you know how to trigger his natural instincts deeply embedded into his brain cortex.

Those are the instincts a man carries throughout his life often not knowing that they exist, and yet, they affect his life decisions, and how he feels about things that come into his life, including women, and specifically YOU!

See, a human brain is divided into several different parts. There are four main parts of the brain – the Reptile Brain, the Mammal Brain, the Primal Brain, and the Human Brain. It is also very well known that a man’s and a woman’s brain parts are very different in function and even the structure. They are even different in that the emotional part of the woman’s brain is much more developed, and not only that, it receives eight times more the blood flow that that same part of the man’s brain.

When you look at it that way, the differences between men and women start to become more clear.

At the same time, if you think about the reasons why men are more goal oriented than women, this is because in the hunter-gatherer society men had a clearly defined goal – which was to kill the pray and get the food on the table to feed the tribe. So, when a man is trying to help his woman solve her problem, he is acting based on his natural instinct rather than on his human part of the brain. Thus his actions are mainly determined by his natural instincts. Men have a multitude of instincts that make them want certain things and pull away from other things.

The bad this is that they can’t control how they respond to certain things, whether they feel drawn toward them on a subconscious level or run away from them.

The GOOD thing, however, is that when you understand those instincts, how they work, and what each one of them does, YOU can guide YOUR MAN to do what you want him to do, and the best of all is that he will be convinced that it is HIS IDEA!

And if you want to learn how to affect those natural instinctive triggers in a man’s brain listen closely here, because what I reveal to you here is going to change your whole perspective on love and relationships.

The great thing about learning about men’s natural instincts is that not only will you UNDERSTAND MEN, you will also know EXACTLY how to guide your man’s natural instincts to inspire and encourage him to give you the love you desire, the commitment and devotion you want so bad!

We are going to start with one of the very basic instinct which I call the R-Instinct.

There are a lot more, and the knowledge I am going to give you is far more advanced that this, but for starters, let’s look at what knowing about the R-Instinct can do for you!

The R-Instinct is a natural instinct that all men have. Some men have a very developed and prominent R-Instinct. Others have it developed to a smaller degree. However, all men have it!

And this is just one of the instincts that you can start using today to turn the tables around on him and to literally start getting what you want in your relationship whether it is attracting a man you like, getting your man show signs of progression toward something more serious, making your boyfriend want to commit to marriage, making your man step up to the plate and give you a REAL RELATIONSHIP, which is committed, publicly acknowledged, devoted couple-hood!

Here is what R-Instinct alone can do for you:

– It can make a man FALL IN LOVE with a woman

– It can make your ex want you again

– It can make a man feel differently around you, and unlike he’s ever felt before with any other woman!

I will show you how to use a set of man’s R-Instinct and his other natural instincts that are already programmed into his subconsciousness to show him that you are the one for him!

He will subconsciously FEEL and know that you are the one woman he’s been looking for!

If you:

– Want to get your man to take your relationship to the next level

– Want to make a man fall desperately in love with you

– Want your man to commit to you and think it’s his idea

– Want to rekindle the love a man once had for you

– Want to get back together with your ex no matter how long you’ve been broken up

– Want to make your man step up to the plate and act like a REAL BOYFRIEND

– Want to REGAIN CONTROL of your love life and PUT TO REST ALL YOUR WORRIES in a relationship

I have a step-by-step course that will teach you:

How to use a man’s R-Instinct

– How a man’s S-Instinct Prevents Him From Making a Commitment to a Woman and How to Use It to Make Him COMMIT TO YOU (this instinct has NOTHING TO DO WITH SEX and no part of woman’s sexuality is involved here!)

– How to use men’s other natural instincts to guide his to the relationship of your dreams!

– How to STOP GOING IN CIRCLES and FINALLY achieve LASTING LOVE!

– How to MAKE HIM DO ANYTHING YOU WANT and make him think it’s all HIS IDEA!

And much more… I have it for you right here in the brand new course, and you can try this course RIGHT NOW for ONLY $1! NO RISK! NO OBLIGATION!

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A Complete Course on How To Use a Man’s Natural Instincts to Make Him Feel and Do What YOU Want

Let me tell you about what you are going to learn in this course:

– One text message BASED ON THE CONCEPT OF THE R-INSTINCT that my client sent to her ex boyfriend that IMMEDIATELY GOT HIS ATTENTION and made him call her and text her like crazy, and how she went from that single text message to GETTING HIM BACK (they are still together)

– The in-depth explanation of what the R-INSTINCT is and why all the common sense relationship advice you read in women’s magazines is mostly completely wrong

– The natural instincts and bio-chemical processes of the brain that make a man act as if he is in love when he actually isn’t, and how to tell if he really is in love or is faking in

– Why men don’t seem to be interested in a long term relationships on instinctual level & How to Use Men’s Natural Instincts To Inspire a Man To Be a Better Boyfriend

– Which One The Men’s Basic Natural Instincts Gets Triggered When You Start Asking a Man Where This Relationship Is Going

and

– How to Reverse and Use This Same Instinct to Make Him Want a Serious Relationship, and not only that, but also to Make Him Attach That Desire For a Serious Relationship To You so that he won’t even think about being in a relationship with any other woman!

Why men pull away in the early stages of a relationship, and how a man uses his natural biological instincts to determine if you are the one HE WANTS TO KEEP

– How to encourage a man to be COMPLETELY HONEST WITH YOU at all times, and to tell you HOW HE FEELS about anything including you and your relationship with him

– How to use a set of men’s NATURAL INCTINCTS to KEEP A MAN FOREVER

– How to use a man’s natural instincts to make him see YOU as THE ONE for HIM!

– How to use his natural instincts to guide him to BECOME YOUR BOYFRIEND OR A HUSBAND

And much more!

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3 Tips To Make a Man Want a Serious Relationship – Agree or Disagree

June 28, 2012 by  
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Have you ever paid attention to the advice people are giving to women on how to make a guy commit to a serious relationship? Some of my female friends often get into heated discussions which typically revolve around the men they date, their boyfriends, and even their ex’s. It seems that as long as their discussions don’t involve them directly or even indirectly, they are pretty insightful about giving advice to their women friends, but as soon as the topic of the conversation turns toward their own situations with men they become helpless. So why is it so easy to give dating and relationship advice when you are the one standing on the outside looking in, and so hard when you are trying to make a decision concerning your own relationship with your man? It’s hard to see the picture when you are in the frame!

So let’s take a quick look at some of those proposed methods for making a man commit to a serious relationship and list them here is order. Then I will share my opinion with you and state whether I agree or disagree, and you are invited to comment on each one of those points and add more of your own.

If you want to make a man commit don’t have sex with him until you know you are in a serious relationshipDisagree.

woman pushing man awayYou don’t have to wait for marriage to become sexually intimate with a guy, but if you want to make sure that the man you are sleeping with is your boyfriend, wait till he becomes your boyfriend and then only after that you can start having sex with him. This will guarantee that you are sleeping with a man who you are in a serious relationship with, and will give you peace of mind. This is done not because you are trying to make a man commit to a serious relationship. You are only doing it for yourself so that you will have a peace of mind.

If you however want to take chances and sleep with him without commitment, you have to be prepared for things to not go your way. If you are cool with that, go ahead and sleep with him when you want to. The fact of having sex with a guy without commitment will not automatically make him run in the other direction. If everything else works out well, he might commit to a serious relationship with you after the fact, or he might not. You just have to be prepared. I strongly advise for your own security is that you wait till he declares that he wants to be your boyfriend.

You have to be an independent woman if you want to make a man commitAgree.

Being an independent woman doesn’t mean that you don’t need a man. This merely means that you have your own independent from him interests and your own life. Not one wants to be solely responsible for making you happy, but you also need to show a man that you enjoy having him in your life.

You have to play hard to get if you want to make a man commitDisagree.

Playing hard to get, unavailable, and uninterested only makes an unavailable man chase you. He is not after a relationship with you; he is only after the chase. Once the chase is over he loses interest. This is not because you stop playing hard to get; this is simply because a man who is attracted to the thrill of the chase is not interested in a serious relationship to begin with. He is merely after the chase itself disregarding the woman who initiates the chase. This man is immature, and the woman who feels the need to play hard to get is immature as well. Water finds its own level. If you are playing hard to get you will attract the kind of men who are after the challenge. If you want to get a man who is looking for a serious relationship, you should be honest with him and not play games. When you want a guy to be honest with you, give him honesty and if he reciprocates in kind you know he is a keeper. Granted, honesty is scary, and only a truly confident woman can handle the amount of pressure honesty requires. Insecurity, on the other hand, is the trait that we don’t often recognize in ourselves. It is insecurities that drive women to play hard to get.

So, these are the most common things people advise when someone is trying to make a man commit to a serious relationship. Does anything else come to mind? Leave a comment, question, or response in the comment section below!

Do you agree or disagree?

Would love to hear from you all!


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Should You Tell Him You Love Him

June 21, 2012 by  
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We often wonder whether we should tell a man about our feelings. If the thought of telling your man you love him has crossed your mind often, and yet, you haven’t uttered those magic words, you may be feeling fearful of telling him you love him.

Hey, there isn’t anything wrong with admitting your fear of rejection, and frankly no one if exempt from those feelings. You would be surprised to find out that your man is just as fearful of saying those words to you are you are.

But can you really develop a relationship based on mutual understanding, honesty and deep emotional connection if you don’t communicate about your feelings? Truthfully, you both need to know where you stand in a relationship, and each of you has to have the reassurance that the relationship is moving forward.

Without honest, clear and direct communication neither one of you will have the security of a committed relationship.

Often, couples who are afraid to discuss their feelings struggle from not knowing just how secure their relationships are, what to expect from their partners in a relationship, what the responsibilities of a relationship are, and what obligations they have.

Additionally, talking about your true innermost feelings with your partner will draw him closer to you, and make him drop down his guard and defenses, and pave the path to a deeper emotional connection.

Intimacy is not all about what you get in bed. In fact, the real intimacy is emotional. It is that feelings of closeness that we get only with someone special. This is what separates casual relationships from committed. This is what separates the men from the boys, and the women from the girls, for that matter.

But how do you share your feelings with a partner when you are afraid of rejection?

First, you need to understand, that your fear doesn’t come from the fact that you love your man. Your fear is of your own making. It is all a product of the ego, and nothing else.

You are afraid that you may face rejection if you tell your guy you love him.

But truth is that if you don’t tell him how you feel about him, he won’t be able to open up to you and let his feelings for you develop.

The key to communicating your feelings is to thine own self be true! How do YOU really feel about your man? Do you love him? Do you admire him?

If so, express your feelings. Verbalize them in a non-threatening way, without expectations.

Be frank with him, but don’t expect neither positive nor negative outcome. Speak from your heart because that is the only way to establish intimacy and deep emotional connection. A woman who is confident enough to show her feelings is a real turn on for a man. A woman who is assertive, who doesn’t care what the world thinks of her, and who stays true to her feelings regardless of a possible outcome is a rare find, and men know that on a subconscious level.

The only time when you probably should avoid telling him you love him is when he’s never said it to you before. Wait for him to tell you he loves you first, and once you have the green light, open up about your own feelings.

A man who truly loves you will be turned on by your expression of love. The one who doesn’t love you, or the one who’s sitting on a fence can respond with a simple Thank You. If your man says that, then you know, he isn’t as into you as you are into him. But what do you have to lose?

It’s better to know the truth, and to know exactly where you stand in your relationship, than experience never-ending anxiety from not knowing how he truly feels about you and about your relationship. You won’t need to ask him where you stand in a relationship. All you need is to pay attention to what he says and what he does.

If you aren’t sure whether he loves you or not, and he hasn’t said he does, Read This Page to find out how to get the man you want and make him fall in love with you!


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How Men Decide You Are The One

May 15, 2012 by  
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If you have ever wondered how a man decides whether you are the one for him, read this article!

Perhaps you are dating a guy casually, but what you really want is to become his girlfriend. Or maybe you are already in a relationship but aren’t sure whether it’s headed towards commitment. This article will help you understand how men decide whether to take your relationship to the next level.

A man decides whether to have a serious relationship with a woman, and whether to commit to a particular woman for life logically. For that reason, he may be feeling very deeply in love with a woman, and still not be sure whether he wants to commit to her.

The way a man’s brain operates is very different from a woman’s brain, and when it comes to relationship decisions, it gets even more complicated.

But to make it easy to understand, imagine that a man’s is like a filing cabinet. When you first meet him, that filing cabinet is empty.

But the longer you date, the more events there are to log into that filing cabinet. Some of the events create positive experiences, some create negative experiences, and some create neutral experiences.

When you do something that a man feels good about, he associates these good feelings with you, thus a positive experience is logged into his filing cabinet.

When, on the other hand, there is a negative experience, that negative impression is logged into his filing cabinet as well.

Your man will most likely not tell you anything about the negative experience, and how he feels about it, but he will surely log it into his filing cabinet.

After dating for a while, he takes an inventory. He looks at the positive versus negative. And at that moment he decides whether he wants to move the relationship forward.

This process happens at every stage of the relationship – from the first date, till the wedding.

If a man feels good on a first date, he will ask you out for a second date. When a man feels good and positive about dating you, he will proceed to become your boyfriend. When the relationship feels good to him at all times, he will start thinking about committing to you for life.

Now, of course, that process has something to do with love and affection. But it also has to do a lot with compatibility.

When all three criteria – love, affection, and compatibility are present, this is when a man starts to feel you are the one for him!

But how do you create all three of these components?

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