Don’t Make Him Your Priority If He Does THIS

This morning I received an email from one of my subscribers.

She writes:

Hi Elaine,

I really like your advice articles and emails and I wanted to ask you a relationship question.

I and my boyfriend have been dating for four months. We have a good relationship overall except he has recently been a bit distant.

Don’t get me wrong; when we are together, everything is going great. But when we are apart he often forgets to call me when he says he will, and he doesn’t seem to want to see me often.

For instance, yesterday I called him twice without an answer. He called me back several hours later. He said he was relaxing at home and not really doing anything. When I asked him if he wanted to come over he sounded hesitant, said he’d have to think about it, and then he said he’d forgotten he was supposed to dog-sit for his neighbor who’d dropped off the dog at his house.

When I asked why he had to be at home to watch the dog he thought about it for a moment, and then said that he was actually also thinking about cleaning his house and working in the yard.

He went on a long explanation about why he had to work in the yard, and that he had to wait till later to do the yard work because he didn’t want to work in the heat.

I said he didn’t have to explain and that if he didn’t want to come over that was fine with me.

He called me again last night to say he was on the way home from a party at a friend’s house. He sounded like he’d had a few drinks. He told me he’d had fun at the party and reconnected with lots of old friends who happened to be there.

Here is my question; clearly, my boyfriend isn’t making me his priority. What should I do?

Thanks a lot for reading this! I look forward to hearing from you!

Jeannette

My response to Jeannette:

Dear Jeannette,

You are right about one thing; your boyfriend isn’t making you his priority.

It’s not a horrible offence to go hang out with the boys. Each person in a relationship should have their own life and separate interests.

What alarms me though is that when you asked to see him he didn’t tell you that he just didn’t feel like it; rather he came up with a number of lame excuses that ranged from dog sitting to cleaning and working in the yard. Really? He didn’t work in the yard and didn’t clean his house up until the moment he talked to you, and decided to do all that only after you asked him to come over? Also, those aren’t the things that can’t wait. Those aren’t time sensitive issues. If it was that important to him, he could have done it sooner. And if he hadn’t, he could do those things and then see you after, but he didn’t. He simply brushed you off without offering an alternative.

However, when an opportunity to do something truly exciting to him came up, he immediately forgot about the dog that desperately needed sitting, the yard work and the house cleaning.

So, if hanging out with you sounded as exciting to him, trust me, he would have dropped everything and came to see you, but he didn’t.

Sounds like you are making him your priority, while he is putting you on the back burner of his priorities.

What should you do?

I am not suggesting that you dump your boyfriend. But you can’t convince a man that he should make you his priority if he doesn’t want to. You can’t talk to him and apply logic that would make him want to take you and your relationship more seriously.

What you can do is to stop making a man your priority when he doesn’t make you his priority, and see how it goes.

Men don’t respond well to words, nagging and convincing. What they respond to is FEELINGS.

A man either feels it, or he doesn’t. When a man feels strongly about a woman, he doesn’t know why he feels this way. He just feels it, and there is nothing he can do to stop feeling a certain way.

Similarly, when a man doesn’t feel a powerful urge to be with you, he cannot change how he feels, but YOU can!

It’s within your power to change how a man FEELS about you!

Once he feels powerful urge to be with you as much as possible, he will drop everything to be with you every moment that he can.

To learn how to make him feel this way Read This Page >>>

You will learn powerful hypnotic techniques to make a man feel powerful feelings of love toward you he won’t be able to resist – Read This Page Now!

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Your New Relationship Will Last If…

Have you ever wondered if your new relationship is going to last? Have you ever felt insecure in a new relationship not knowing whether the guy is serious about you, what he wants from you, whether he wants the same things with you, and whether your relationship will become something lasting and special?

We’ve all had those doubts and moments of anxiety. And although no one can predict with one hundred percent accuracy what is going to happen with a particular relationship in the future, just like no one can predict the future itself, here are some sure signs to determine whether the man you are starting to date has the same intentions as you:

Read This Page to find out the sure signs he is serious about you == > Click Here

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How To Get Through To Him When He Is Hurting You

Do you ever say to yourself, My boyfriend isn’t treating me the way I want to be treated? Do you ever wonder why your man isn’t stepping up to the plate to give you what you truly want and deserve in a relationship?

If so, this article is for you, because I am going to give you a sneak peak preview of how you can start changing your relationship today to make it everything you’ve ever wanted in a relationship and in a partner.

The first step to improving your relationship is to evaluate your own expectations of your partner.

Do you know exactly what you want from him?

If you think you do, make a list of what you want your partner do to and write it down.

Once you are done writing these things down, look at every one of them and ask yourself, what was it in the very beginning of the relationship that made me think that my partner would meet this particular expectation?

Was it something you and your partner discussed? Was it something he told you he wanted to have with you? Was it something he said that made you assume he would be able to meet this particular set of expectations? Or was it simply something you’ve always wanted in a relationship and never discussed with your partner?

If this was something you and he have discussed, it is a reasonable expectation on your part, and you can point out in your next conversation that you expect your partner to follow through.

If, on the other hand, this is something you and he have never talked about before, it may be worth looking deeper into the reasons of the problem.

Were his expectations different from yours? Did he deceive you in any way or was he up-front from the start?

This may require taking a deeper look into the problem, and a little more investigation.

Once you identify clearly the reasons of your resentments toward your partner, discuss the issue in a constructive manner. Stay away from accusations and blaming. Focus on how YOU feel, rather than attacking your partner.

Ask for what you want, and you will most likely receive a candid answer. Unless you ask for what you want, you may never get what you want.

Learn how to communicate with your partner in a way that will give you the results that you want, and instead of pushing him away will bring him closer to you – Read This Page>>>

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He’ll Realize What He’s Lost and Come Back To You

Have you ever had a guy walk away from you and you didn’t know why? Have you ever wanted back those wonderful moments when you were together and felt so connected?

Now you can!

Don’t give up on a potentially great relationship just because a guy you had a wonderful date with never called again, a man you dated for a few weeks suddenly disappeared or a boyfriend broke up with you!

When he realizes what he’s lost he’ll come back to you begging you to give him another chance, and in this article I am going to reveal the truth how to get a man want you with renewed desire even if for some reason he stopped calling you or wanted a break up!

Here is a story of my client who successfully got the guy she wanted after he stopped calling her:

Rachel met Ben on a dating site.

Their first date was unconventional – she invited Ben to her place for their first date. After exchanging a couple of emails she texted Ben at the number he’d given her asking him to call her.

Ben called a half an hour after she sent him a text. Rachel asked if he was busy to which Ben said it was his day off and he didn’t have any plans.

She invited him to meet her in the parking lot of her complex. Ben showed up a half an hour later.

Rachel was instantly attracted to Ben and invited him to her condo which was being remodeled.

When they went in Ben discovered that Rachel had been working on fixing up the place. After about an hour Ben offered his help and they had a good time talking while working on her place at the same time.

They had a great conversation, they decided that they work well together, they had lots of laugh and Ben convinced Rachel that he was having a good time. They planned on him coming back a day later when he was off again.

Later that same day Ben invited Rachel out to dinner and suggested that they get a takeout and bring it back to her place so that they could continue working on her place.

They went to a nice restaurant and decided to eat in. After dinner they went window shopping and later Rachel decided to go to Ben’s place. Ben said he had roommates at home and asked if they could get a hotel room. He said “I promise next time we’ll go to my place but just not this time. I have to talk to my roommates to see how they feel about me bringing somebody home.” They got a hotel room at an expensive hotel for which Ben paid. Rachel was pleasantly surprised that Ben didn’t cringe at the price of the hotel room even though he doesn’t have a highly paying job.

They had amazing sex and Ben asked if Rachel wanted him to take her home or if she wanted to stay at the hotel. She said she didn’t have a preference and Ben suggested they’d stay.

He woke her up in the morning saying that he had to get going as he had to be at work early. He dropped her off at her place, kissed her on the lips and said he’d call her after work.

He texted her later in the afternoon asking her how her day was and saying he was still tired as he didn’t get enough sleep. She brushed him off saying she was busy running errands and ended the conversation.

That was the last time she heard from him before she contacted me.

The following day he was supposed to have a day off again which was the day he said he’d see her again. But he didn’t call.

She had been subscribing to my emails and contacted me to set up a private coaching session via Skype.

Since that was the first day that she didn’t hear from Ben I suggested that she send a simple text message letting Ben know how much she appreciated his help with her remodeling project. She sent him that text while she was on the Skype session with me. He responded right away saying that it was his pleasure.

We don’t realize how little appreciation and admiration men get in their daily lives. Sending a man a text message in which you tell him how much you appreciate what he’s done for you can work wonders at getting a guy back.

But that wasn’t the end of the battle. Rachel thought that somehow she screwed up because Ben didn’t call her after work as he said he would. On top of that he didn’t call her the day he said he’d come help her except for responding to the text message she initiated with my help.

I needed more information in order to determine what she did wrong. Once you know what you did wrong it is easy to fix it.

We had a long conversation consisting of my questions and Rachel’s answers. The picture became clearer to me and I suggested that the reason Ben wasn’t eager to follow up was the same reason I describe on page 71 of 101 Reasons Why Men Stop Calling & What You Must Do About It. In Rachel’s case it was reason No.80 in my book.

I suggested that she adjusts her behavior accordingly but strongly recommended that she wait.

I told her that text she sent to Ben would make him feel good, and that after a while he would contact her again because the last memory of her would be associated with that positive message he received.

Sure enough, three days later Ben texted Rachel and they went out on a real date.

She continued to follow my advice, and I recently got an email from her saying they were still together and things were going very well.

So, if you’ve ever given up on a man who stopped calling, don’t despair! There is a SOLUTION!

Share this article on FaceBook if you liked it, and if you know anyone who’s had a man suddenly disappear without an explanation, whether he was a boyfriend or a guy who stopped calling after a great day, forward this article to them to let them know IT CAN BE FIXED! Don’t lose hope!

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How to Make Him Talk About His Feelings For You

Are you baffled because your man won’t talk about his feelings for you?

To learn how to communicate with your man in a way that will make him open up and confess his true feelings for you – Read This Page >>>

If you have been trying to talk to your man about his feelings, you may have encountered what seems to be a wall he’s built around himself.

Men aren’t as in touch with their feelings and emotions as women. And because of this fact it is always harder for a man to communicate his true feelings.

He may be feelings something, but he won’t always verbalize it.

The truth about men is that they want to appear strong and silent, and silence, when it comes to their feelings and emotions, is a sign of strength.

Another reason men don’t like to open up and talk about their feelings is because they fear rejection. They fear what’s going to happen if their feelings aren’t reciprocated. They want to avoid rejection, so they build a façade around their hearts to appear unaffected when they start to feel vulnerable.

You may have been with a man for a while, and you are starting to develop strong feelings for him. You can bet that he feels the same way about you because when you are together it just feels wonderful, and you two are feeding off of each other’s passion and desire.

But unfortunately you can’t get your man to put his feelings into words, and you can’t help but wonder whether he truly feels the same way about you as you feel about him.

The secret to making a man communicate his feelings toward you is in making him feel safe to open up to you, and to steer him in the right direction.

To learn how to do so, Read This Page >>>

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Emotional Attraction and How To Create Emotional Attraction With a Man

No matter how long you have been in your relationship, how much chemistry and passion you have, how much you two have in common and how right you may be for each other, there is one thing you absolutely must have in your relationship to keep the relationship alive and growing, and to take it to the next step of commitment.

This critical component of a relationship is EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION.

If you don’t have it, your man may still like to spend time with you, date you, and even have a relationship with you.

BUT

Truth is that every man wants to be with a woman who he is insanely attracted to on a deep emotional level!

And every man deep down is hoping to find that woman who makes him feel this emotion.

Emotional attraction is hard to find. But once your man is attracted to you on deep emotional level, he won’t easily let go of you.

When there is no emotional attraction in a relationship, your relationship is in danger. This is especially true when your man crosses his path with a woman who CAN create that emotional attraction and CONNECT with your man on a deep emotional level!

When this happens, all reasoning goes out of the window!

A man will be under her spell once this emotional attraction and connection is established.

Although it is true that many things in a relationship may change over time, there is one thing that every couple would want to keep alive – EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION!

Surveys have revealed, however, that while couples want this is their relationship, very few actually manage to get it let alone maintain it in a relationship. In fact, more than 80% of relationships rate their emotional attraction as being less than what they would like.

This is a very sad statistic and there are a number of reasons why this is the case. One of the main causes is that we are simply not taught how to create, maintain and develop emotional attraction. It’s not a part of our school system, so most people learn their relationship skills from observing their parents’ relationship or – even worse – from talking to their friends and peers.

There are certain key things to creating deep emotional attraction, and to learn how to create it, Read This Page >>>

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Justin Bieber Baby Mama Allegations – Do You Believe Her?

Justin Bieber Baby Mama Allegations – Do You Believe Her?

If you are a fan of Justin Bieber, you’ve probably heard about the allegations of paternity made by a California woman named Mariah Yeater.

Several sources accuse Yeater of being a gold-digger and a con artist. Just wondering what you think about this story? Check out the videos below and share your opinion in the comment section below! What do you think of this?

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When To Sleep With Him For The First Time

Do you ever wonder when to sleep with a man for the first time? Do you tend to wait until a certain number of dates or do you sleep with a man on a third date because that’s what most men expect?

Knowing when to sleep with a man, when it is too soon to sleep with him, and when it is too late because he’s moved one is very important if you want to date successfully and move your relationship forward toward commitment.

Do it too soon – and he is gone with the wind. Don’t do it soon enough – and you have the same result.

So, what is the magic formula that can give the answers to these burning questions and resolve all your doubts once and for all?

If you think that waiting two months to sleep with him is a safe way to go about dating, read the shocking story I share below:

A male friend told me a story that had happened to one of his female co-workers.

She met a guy on a dating site. For two months he courted her, took her out to fancy restaurants, wined and dined her, and treated like a princess. Long story short, they finally they had sex (after two months of dating).

After they had sex he pulled a disappearing act, never called her again, and never even returned her phone calls.

Keep reading! You are in for a shocking discovery!

As heartbroken as she was she went back on the dating site and shortly after she met another man.

On their third date she invited him to her house for dinner (being naive again) and whatever was to happen afterwards.

Now, check this out! During their date (at her place) she intimated to him about the first guy (another awful mistake).

As soon as her date heard the story, she exclaimed “Oh my God! I know who this was!”

He then pulled his cell phone out of his pocket and dialed his buddy. When the person he was calling answered the phone, he exclaimed in excitement “Guess who I am with right now? I am about to get the sloppy seconds!”

As you have guessed, the two guys knew each other. Not only that, but they were good friends who bragged to each other about their conquests.

Do you think he got the “sloppy seconds”? Not really. He got kicked out of the girl’s house before he finished his phone call!

But the point I am making in telling you this story is that there are no guarantees as to how many dates a guy takes you out on, how long you have known him, and how long you have been dating him!

There are however, other rules you need to follow to know exactly when to sleep with him for the first time, and I am about to share with you:

> Exactly WHEN it’s ok to sleep with a man for the first time

> When it is too soon or not soon enough

> What happens if you sleep with him too soon

> Why Men Lose Interest After You Sleep With Them

> What to do if he loses interest if you don’t sleep with him soon enough

> What to do if you slept with him too soon and you want to know how to rectify it

> The SIMPLE but SECRET STRATEGY you can count on in sleeping with him to make sure he falls in love with you and gives you security and an official relationship

And much more will be revealed to you in my special report “When It Is Safe To Sleep With Him” – How Soon Is Too Soon and What To Do If You’ve Already Done It available for INSTANT DOWNLOAD on your computer 24/7!

I am going to give you the straight answers to all your biggest questions about when to sleep with a man for the first time.

This Special Report is 29 Pages long, and is well over 3,000 words of pure content!

Don’t worry! You are NOT going to hear the same old adages that you should not sleep with a man on a first date, blah, blah, blah.

What I am going to share with you in this report will transform the way men perceive you from now on – the secrets you will learn from this report are not available anywhere else – it is NOT some “politically correct” BS you here and read everywhere else – THIS INFORMATION WORKS!

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Why Men Hide Their Feelings

If you’ve ever wondered why men don’t like showing their feelings and emotions, read this article.

There are two main reasons men hide their feelings. These reasons are discussed in this article, so get ready for an exciting adventure inside your guy’s mind!

Reason #1

Men are biologically preprogrammed to hide their emotions and deal with them alone.

Back in the day of the caveman, men were the hunters; women were the gatherers.

They quietly hid in the bushes or behind the rock in order to successfully trap and kill an animal. When the tribe went on a hunt, the men hid and kept quiet. They knew that the survival of the tribe depended on how quiet they were while waiting for their prey to show up.

Women, on the other hand, had to talk while doing the gathering. They kept the conversation flowing to ensure they knew if one of them suddenly got in trouble, was attacked by a wild animal or needed help.

Nowadays men still work silently most of the time, unless they are in a meeting where they need to discuss some specific issues or projects. Once a man gets assigned a project he will work silently unless he needs to communicate with other men in the course of his assignment.

Working on a job assignment equates to solving a problem. Similarly, when a man has a problem he will shut down, go to his hiding place and think about the possible solutions.

When he shuts down, the best thing you can do is to give him his space. Once the problem is solved, he’ll come out of his hiding place and everything will be back to normal.

Reason #2

Men are raised since their early childhood that to be a real man one has to face his issues silently. They want to be the strong, silent type; not a cry baby.

Talking about his emotions is considered weak and pathetic.

The only time a man feels it is save to open up and share his emotions is when he is alone with his woman whom he trusts.

If you and your man share deep intimacy, you two are at the point in your relationships where he can share his deepest feelings and emotions with you. If you haven’t reached that point yet, read This Page to learn how to make him open up, get emotionally close to you, and share what’s inside without fear – Click Here To Continue Reading>>>

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Why Men Act the Way They Do

Have you ever found yourself wondering about why your man does certain things that make absolutely no sense to you? If so, read this article, because I want to share with you some scientific data that will explain why men act the way they do which completely confuses any woman a man is with.

See, the reason men act the way they do, and differently from the way most women would act in the same situations is that men are biologically different from women. Not only their bodies are different, but their chemical reactions are also different. Let me explain.

Men and women have fundamentally different hormonal make-up, which determines their respective gender. Therefore, men and women react differently in the same situations. For instance, the things that trigger stress in a woman can be a calming factor for men, and vice versa.

Let’s take an example with a man’s testosterone levels. When a man is stressed, he will try and look for activities which increase his testosterone levels more. This could be watching an action movies, fixing up the house, or increasing his work load in the office. Anything that makes his brain get into the “problem solving” mode will do the trick.

After a man has built up his testosterone levels high, his stress levels will go down and he’ll feel much better and much more relaxed.

Women however, will stress out even more when their testosterone level rises.

Another example of great confusion by the men behavior is noted when a man starts withdrawing from a relationship. He might have been very affectionate in the beginning and now he is barely calling you.

What happened here? Why is the sudden change in behavior?

If women could only understand men better, most of their confusion would be easily solved. We could easily interpret the men behavior at any given point and know exactly how to deal with the situation in hand.

To elaborate on why men act the way they do I put together This Page>>>

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