How To Meet Beautiful Women On Match
March 19, 2010 by admin
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If you are a guy, physical attraction and chemistry is paramount to you. If there is no chemistry, nothing else will work. And I feel for you – browsing pages and pages of dating sites clicking on pictures that look attractive from far, but not so much when you take a closer look is frustrating. Luckily for you, match.com now has added a new category in which you will have a much higher percentage of highly attractive women.
Just click on this link – 20% Discount off The Popular Match.com ( it will open up in a separate window, so you can keep reading this page), set up a quick profile and go to ‘search’. In the ‘search’ category, put your usual desired match requirements but I want you to pay close attention to the ‘profession’ category.
See, most guys say they don’t care about the woman’s profession, but do that… just open that drop down menu (it’s located in the ‘lifestyle’ parent menu) and you will see a bunch of choices.
Find the one that says ‘fashion / model / beauty’. It’s a brand new category that match.com has just added. Put a check mark there and un-check everything else. You are now good to go! You will see in your search much better than average looking women and depending on your location will find models, stylists, and other women in the fashion business, which means they place much more importance on how they look, and generally take really good care of themselves.
So, do this and I hope you will find out that your search results have much higher density of beautiful women. Good luck!
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February 23, 2010 by admin
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So, you have browsed a dating site and found a few ‘potential matches’ that look good on paper so far. Now you need to get in contact with them.
One of the easiest ways to get a guy notice you is to view his profile and hope that he will see you in his ‘who’s viewed me’ queue. If he checks who’s viewed him and sees your profile, he may just e-mail you on the spot especially if you have a great profile and flattering pictures.
But what if he doesn’t check who’s been looking at him? In this case, you may want to go to the next step and add him to your favorites. Most likely he will see that you’ve added him to your favorites and this will give him a green light to contact you.
If he still hasn’t looked at your profile, or has looked at your profile but has not initiated contact, wait for a couple of days. Give him some time. He may have not checked your profile yet, or has checked it but has not gotten around to writing to you.
If after a couple of days you notice that he still has not looked at your profile, you may then send him a wink (almost sure-fire way to get him to look at your profile), or even send him an e-mail.
Note that if he has looked at your profile and has not initiated contact in any form, this most likely means that he never will. At this point it is clear that he is not interested, and I suggest moving onto the next one. No need to spend time trying to entice a guy who is fence-sitting or is not interested, especially since there is no shortage of men on a dating site.
But if it turns out that he is so busy that he doesn’t have the time to check who’s adding him to favorites, you may want to initiate contact yourself.
E-mail is a preferred method of contact. Everyone likes to get something more personal than a wink. Guys and women alike want to feel special, and sending an e-mail shows that you’ve taken the time to actually write a couple of paragraphs.
When you contact a man remember to address something in his profile. You want him to see you as someone different and you want to show a little bit of personality.
Don’t say ‘I like your smile’ because everyone says that, and this is not original. You also don’t want to describe yourself and what you like in your e-mail; this is what your profile is for.
When you write to a guy you want to specifically address something in his profile, but something that is unique in his profile, not something that everyone else is addressing. Everyone likes pretty much the same things, but you want to find something in his profile that makes him stand out, something that makes him different from everyone else, and address that particular part of his profile.
You may also want to say something about his pictures. Obviously if you are contacting him, that means that you like his pictures. Again, don’t say, ‘you have beautiful eyes’, or ‘you have a cute smile’ because these are the things everyone else is saying. Find something unique. Again, you will stand out from the crowd almost immediately.
Don’t write your whole life story in the first e-mail. You don’t need this at this point; when you get to know each other better and in person, you will be sharing a lot about each other, but telling your whole life story in an e-mail to a perfect stranger is wasted time. At this point all you want to do is gauge whether there is any interest to begin with.
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Share on FacebookWhat Do Men Want In A Woman
February 13, 2010 by admin
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Do you want to know what do men want from a woman? Whether you are single, dating, in a relationship or have recently become single after a long term relationship or even divorce, you may want to know what men want from a woman and what men value in a woman. If you are like most women, you want to know what attracts a man in a woman and rightfully so. You want to build a loving and fulfilling relationship with a new man in your life. This article explains some very important things about what men want from a woman and what kind of women men love, so read it carefully and learn from it.
When you first meet a man he may seem mysterious. You may be guessing what it is that he is looking for in a woman. However, men are simpler than you think and most men want the same things in a woman they date and seek the same traits.
Men want a woman who is positive and is easy to please. This is a very important trait that all men want from a woman. If she is easy-going and not judgmental, a man can relax around such woman. A woman who doesn’t constantly nag him or criticize him, and a woman who understands a man is a real keeper.
Some other things that men want from a woman are loyalty (this is a big one!), nice disposition, and forgiveness. Being forgiving is very important in a relationship. Of course there are clear boundaries that should not be crossed but if your guy has simply messed up, for instance forgot about your birthday, holding a grudge against him for weeks is not going to do any good to your relationship.
Now, listen carefully!
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Share on FacebookFlirting Body Language
February 13, 2010 by admin
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Flirting body language is a great way to attract men, get their attention and get men to approach you. While flirting is a fantastic tool you can have in your body language arsenal it is important to know what is perfectly acceptable when flirting and what is crossing the line. Attraction is a fragile thing and if you don’t want to ruin your chances with the man you like you must know how to use your body language in a way that is alluring to men but not intimidating. This article explains the rules to flirting you absolutely must know if you want to be successful with men.
First and probably the biggest language of flirting is a smile. A genuine smile and what’s called open body language make the man feel welcome to approach you. Even if he is shy a smile will work wonders. When you casually look at a man you are attracted to and catch him looking at you, all you need to really do to start flirting with him is give him a big smile.
This should be enough for him to approach you and it is very likely that he will respond with a smile as well. Once you’ve established that both of you are welcoming conversation or perhaps just a simple exchange or hello, you can go from there.
The next thing that will tell him that you like him is if you during your conversation listen attentively. Listening shows interest in the other person, thus letting him know that you may be interested in learning more about him.
Flirting without being too obvious is the first step in meeting and attracting the man of your dreams.
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Share on FacebookHow To Tell If A Guy Likes You
February 13, 2010 by admin
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How to tell if a guy likes you is a very common question. When you are attracted to a guy but unsure if you should talk to him you want to know if he likes you to determine your next step in letting him know you would be open to his approach. If you don’t know for sure whether he likes you or not, you may be cautious to talk to him first, so read this article that will explain some sure-fire telltale signs that he is attracted to you.
Do you catch him looking at you when he thinks you are not noticing? This is a very good indicator that he is attracted to you. Does he shy away when you suddenly look at him? When we are attracted to someone we tend to be shy around that person. Even the most confident men will be shy around the women they like.
Does he try to talk to you for no apparent reason just to strike a conversation? If so this may very well mean that he likes you.
Another way to tell if he is attracted to you is if he tries to seem cool and confident in your presence making it obvious that he is trying to hard. When a man likes you he feels intimidated in your presence. However, he will try very hard to hide his feelings for you.
Knowing whether a guy likes you can set a positive stage in starting a relationship. However, this is not enough to ensure that the relationship will last more than just a few weeks or months.
Share on FacebookHow To Find A Man To Marry
February 13, 2010 by admin
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Finding a man to marry may seem like a daunting task. But in reality it is not as difficult as you think. If you want to find your Mr. Right, there are things you absolutely must know in order to successfully accomplish this task. This article explains critical things you need to understand if you want to attract the right man who will marry you.
First thing you must realize is that a woman’s inability to find a man to marry and the lack of options lies within her fear that no man wants to get married. If you think that all a man wants is to play, you need to ditch this attitude immediately. By having negative thoughts and self-talk and convincing yourself that there aren’t any good men left you are unwittingly sabotaging your relationships with men you meet.
Granted some men are not looking for commitment and yet, when the right woman comes along they will jump in with both feet and propose. They will be the ones to ask her to marry.
Open up your mind to the opportunities that come your way and don’t turn down men that approach you because you may assume that they don’t want a serious relationship and marriage.
Too many times I hear this from women of all walks of life, this guy is such a great catch that I am sure he’s got a lot of women chasing him. If you are finding yourself labeling men and creating preconceived notions about men, you are ruining your chances of getting to know a man whom you could have ended up building a perfect relationship with.
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Share on FacebookHow To Tell If A Man Is In Love With You
February 13, 2010 by admin
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You are falling in love with the man you are dating and you want to know how to tell if a man is in love with you. Are there any sure-fire ways to tell if he is in love with you? While you don’t know for certain if he feels the same way about you, there are some telltale signs you must pay attention to if you want to know how to tell if he is in love with you. This article gives you some great tips you can use to tell how he really feels about you.
A man who is truly in love with you will want to introduce you to his world. If he constantly asks you to join him in the activities he likes and if he wants to share his hobbies with you and perhaps have you pick up on some of them, he is definitely thinking about you long term. If he is introducing you to the things he loves, he wants to know if the two of you would share those things in the future.
Another way to tell if a man is in love with you is to pay close attention to how much he really wants to know about your life. If he wants to know about the things you love and learn about them, this is another sign that he is getting serious about you.
When a man is in love with you or is falling in love with you, he will want to bond and share as much of his world as he can with you.
Share on FacebookRead Body Language To Tell If He Likes You
February 13, 2010 by admin
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If you want to know whether the guy likes you, one way to tell is by reading a man’s body language. It is easier said then done, but reading a man’s body language can give you a great insight into the man’s mind. This article tells you how to decode men’s body language so you don’t have to guess any longer.
When a man first meets a woman you can tell by looking into his eyes whether he is instantly attracted to you. When we see something esthetically pleasing our eyebrows rise for a second and our eye pupils dilate. It is a natural reaction of the body that we can’t control, thus giving away our true attraction to someone.
The problem with this is that you have to pay close attention to notice such changes. But there are more sure-fire ways to tell if a guy is attracted to you by noticing whether he has an open body language or closed body language.
Open body language means that he is opening up to you with his body. When this happens a man will typically turn his body toward you while standing or sitting. He may lean toward you and when you lean forward he will lean forward as well.
If he is good at reading body language he will notice whether you are open to his body language. In this case if you lean back and away from him, he will do the same thus giving you the required space.
Initial attraction is a great thing, and when you meet someone you feel truly in tune with, it’s a wonderful thing. But what is more important is will you be able to sustain this attraction and turn it into a lasting connection.
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February 13, 2010 by admin
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Do you want to find your soul mate? Do you know how to tell if a man is looking to get married? If you really want to find your Mr. Right this article will tell you how and where to look for a man who is ready to get married and have a family.
It can be frustrating dating guys who are just out to play, so here is how to tell if a guy you meet is looking for commitment.
First of all, when a guy is thinking about marriage he will stop hanging out at clubs and bars as much as he used to. He will probably still go to sports bar to watch the game and hang out with his buddies, but he most likely won’t frequent clubs and pubs trying to meet women. When he is thinking about meeting a great gal to make his wife and introduce to his mother, he will start looking at places where good girls hang out.
He may meet you accidentally at a grocery isle. As cheesy as it sounds, the produce section is still considered a great place to meet women by most single men. Another way a good man will meet a good woman he wants to marry is church. If you are the kind of person that likes to go to church, pay attention to men you meet there. You may very well find your future husband at a ceremony.
There are many other places you can meet a good men. The most difficult thing about them is many good men feel intimidated about approaching women. The Internet has made it easier for all – the men don’t feel as intimidated approaching women online.
Now, listen carefully!
The next page will tell you exactly how to meet a great man online, how to tell if he wants to get married and weed out men who are just out to play and how to make him commit.
Share on FacebookUsing the Law of Attraction to Attract Your Ideal Partner
January 28, 2010 by admin
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By Wendy Tomlinson
If you’ve heard anything about the law of attraction, you’ll probably have heard things like “thoughts become things,” “Whatever you focus your attention on you attract into your life”. These are typical law of attraction statements.
It is essential that we choose our thoughts carefully and focus our attention on those things we want instead of complaining about what we don’t have.
Attracting your ideal partner is a great way to put the law of attraction to work for you. First you need to get really clear about what your ideal partner is like.
• What do they look like?
• How do they treat you?
• What do they say to you?
• What are their characteristics?
• What are their values?
You need to know your ideal partner almost as well as you know yourself.
You need to be specific. I have a female friend who simply focused on a tall, blonde haired man with a great build. She found a picture of a guy that matched her image and pinned in on her wall beside her bed and really focused on having this man in her life. In quite a short period of time she’d attracted a tall, blonde guy in great physical shape. After her second date she called me and complained her ideal guy was indeed a nightmare to be around. He was vain; self obsessed and cared little for my friends feelings. I politely pointed out to her that she needed to get clear about all areas of her ideal partner and not just what he looks like.
Here are my top tips for attracting your ideal partner using the Law of Attraction.
• Get really clear about what you want and be specific.
• Visualize your ideal partner as already real. Set a place at your table for him and enjoy a romantic meal.
• If you have a double bed, sleep on your side of the bed, leaving space for your ideal partner.
• When you put on that new dress and visualize your ideal partner telling you how amazing you look.
• Buy yourself flowers.
• If you want your ideal partner to stay home with you, cuddled up on the sofa watching films. Do that now, leaving a space for your partner. Choose films suitable for you both.
• Write out your own story – Write a journal as if you have just met your ideal partner, been on your ideal date, living together, being an old happily married couple. Whatever it is you want. Write as if it has already happened.
The law of attraction responds to our thoughts, more importantly though it responds to our feelings. Feel as if you are loved and in a happy loving relationship and know it’s exactly what you deserve and trust that your ideal partner is already on his/her way.
Wendy Tomlinson is a Life skills coach and Law of Attraction coach. You can find out more about her online coaching practice at http://www.loaliving.com or http://loa4llife.blogspot.com
Wendy is available for Email Coaching, Telephone Coaching and group workshops.
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