Decoding The Mystery Behind Your Ex Boyfriend FaceBook Posts
November 7, 2010 by admin
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Decoding the mystery behind your guy’s FaceBook posts is something we women love to do! Have you ever read or seen something on your guy’s FaceBook profile and tried to decode what that would mean in a relation to you? Yep, I hear you. I get lots of emails from women asking me to decode what this and that means. In today’s article I want to address a question I received recently from a subscriber.
She writes:
Hi Elaine,
I love your newsletters and articles. I thought I would ask you a question that has to do with my ex.
We broke up almost a year ago. Before that we had an off and on relationship for two years. We could never work it out so our relationship just fell apart slowly but surely. We still talk on the phone as friends. I have been dating other guys, which he knows about. To my knowledge he is still single.
I had kicked him out of my FaceBook friends, but recently I got a suggestion to add him as a friend so I sent him a friend request and he approved.
Today I saw his comments in my feed when I logged onto FaceBook and I went on his profile to check them out. I noticed that he had some new pictures posted.
I went to browse his new albums and saw that just about a month ago he added some pictures to his FaceBook. Most of the new pictures were from the countries he recently visited, but one of the pictures was my head shot (that was his favorite picture of me I had sent him when were we still together).
I thought he’d uploaded it by accident when he was uploading other pictures, so out of curiosity I called him to ask about it. He answered the phone and said he had just landed and that he was in South America and would call me when he returns (next week). So, I said, hey just a quick question; are you aware that there is my picture on your FaceBook profile? He said, yeah, I’ll call you when I get home. Then he texted me that he will be back in a week (he travels constantly for work).
So, Elaine, what does it mean when your ex puts your picture up on his FaceBook wall? It looks like it was uploaded on his FaceBook wall and that’s how it got to that album.
My first assumption was that it was an accident but he responded affirmatively when I asked whether he knew that picture was on his profile.
Any thoughts?
Thanks,
Beth
Hi Beth,
Here are a few points I want to make:
- Your ex still keeps a picture of you, which shows that he thinks of you. He has kept it on his computer for a year after your break up. This shows that he still has tender memories even if the break up was a mutual decision. It can’t be that bad if he keeps a picture of you and knows the location of the image file on his computer.
- The fact that he uploaded this picture on his FaceBook is kinda strange. I don’t know what kind of a statement he was trying to make especially since you were not even on his friends list and could not see when he uploaded it. I could understand if it was a picture of both of you, but uploading a head shot of his ex girlfriend on his profile is not something a guy would normally do unless: a. He wants to show off (maybe to his friends or co-workers who have not met you before); b. He just wants to keep it there for himself so that he can look at it from time to time.
- It is apparent that the memories of you are pleasant. If they weren’t, he clearly would not have put your picture up there (we usually get rid of bad memories and reminders, and certainly do not reinforce them)
- Another thing that is worth mentioning is that he uploaded this picture just recently. This tells me that the anger and the negative feelings that are unavoidable in every relationship break up have subsided and he only has tender memories of you right now.
This would be a good time to reconcile if that is what you want, and the fact that you’ve asked me about what this means suggests that you still care about him as well.
If you want to get him back this is the time. In my book Get Your Man Back System I recommend waiting for at least two months before attempting to get back together. You’ve been broken up for almost a year, but this doesn’t mean that you can’t get him back. It seems to me that now is the good time because it wasn’t until now that he demonstrated by uploading your picture that he is over whatever the negativity he felt in the breakup.
It is important that you take the right steps if you want to get back together with your ex. It is best if he is the one contacting you on FaceBook first! To learn step-by-step how to get your man to contact you through FaceBook, Read This Page!
Share on FacebookWhy Men Suffer More In a Breakup
November 1, 2010 by admin
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We used to think that women being the emotional creatures suffer more than men when a breakup occurs. However a recent study conducted on over 1,000 unmarried individuals by Wake Forest Professor of Sociology Robin Simon challenges this assumption.
His article co-authored by Anne Barrett, an associate professor of sociology at Florida State University and published in the June issue of the Journal of Health and Social Behavior suggests that according to the conducted studies men are much more emotionally impacted in a break up than women.
Although the logical assumption is that men who are less emotional and generally tougher than women should not be affected by the breakup as much his break-through research showed otherwise.
If you and your boyfriend have recently broke up you may be thinking that the breakup has not affected your ex as much as it has affected you. But if we presume that the above study has produced accurate results it is safe to say that your man is impacted by the breakup more so than you are, and that he is suffering due to your breakup more so than you.
So, if that was true, you may ask, how come he is not making a move to get back together? This could be for variety of reasons.
One reason and the most common is that he still is affected by the negative emotions due to which the breakup occurred in the first place. He may still be hurt by the harsh words exchanged in the breakup or the words or actions that led to the breakup itself.
If you still love your ex chances are that he loves you too. And if you want him back there is a good chance that he wants the same.
The difficult part about getting back together is that often people make deadly mistakes when they try to patch up a broken relationship. These mistakes cause the gap between the two of you to widen, and make it even more difficult if not impossible to get back together.
One of the most critical mistake partners make is to jump into dating straight away. Although finding a replacement may seem like a logical thing to do it is hard to find a suitable partner when you are not emotionally healthy yourself. While dating immediately after a breakup can more often result in a rebound relationship rather than a healthy lasting relationship, the fact that you are dating someone else will surely be known to your ex which will lead to more difficulties should you try to get him back.
Another critical mistake people make after a breakup is trying to convince your ex to give you another chance. This never works because if your ex is still mad at you he won’t be receptive to your arguments and attempts to convince him to reconsider his decision. Let the anger and frustration subside and try your attempts of reconciliation at a later time. I will show you exactly step-by-step how to go about getting back with your ex boyfriend – Read This Page!
Share on FacebookTop Ten Reasons Why Men Leave Women They Love
October 31, 2010 by admin
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If your man is pulling away and you are on the brink of a break up you may want to find out why men leave women.
In this short article I want to summarize what I have learned from men over the years of coaching women dating and relationship skills.
One of the most frequently asked questions I hear from women is why did he leave me? We were so much in love and all of a sudden he tells me he doesn’t know what he wants and doesn’t think it’s going to work.
In this article I will summarize the men’s responses and what I learned by interviewing men from all walks of life.
First, I wanted to know and asked men this question, would you ever leave a woman you love more than anything? Their first reaction was, No way!
Then I asked them to think about it and come up with a well thought of answer. I asked again, what would make you leave a woman you LOVE?
Here are the answers:
1. Cheating
No matter how much a man loves a woman, in most cases he will leave his woman if he finds out she has cheated on him. The reason for that is not so much jealously. Cheating is a slap on a man’s ego. A man wants to be with a woman who confirms and boosts his ego. He certainly does not want to be with a woman who makes him humiliated. Knowing about a woman’s affair makes a man humiliated in his own eyes as well as in the eyes of other men he knows.
Fear that other men will find out that his woman is sleeping with somebody else and the humiliation that comes with it, as well as the put-downs he expects from other men make him feel less of a man.
If you have been cheating on your man beware! There is very little you can do to save your relationship. Counseling is recommended for both you and your man in order to save your relationship.
2. Dishonesty
Closely following cheating is dishonesty. If you have been hiding something from your man out of fear that if he finds out he will leave you, you might as well fear that he will leave you when he finds out you were dishonest with him.
Examples of such dishonesty include embellishing your age (which happens a lot with online dating), being dishonest about your past (even if it’s nothing to be particularly proud of, like drug issues or problems with the law, it is better to be honest with your partner).
If you want true partnership he should enter your relationship knowing who he is dealing with. If you have remorse about something in your past it is better to admit the negative issues in your past and accept responsibility than to make a man enter a relationship not knowing something he needs to know about.
You may be thinking, why should I disclose something I am ashamed of? This is because entering a relationship with the ultimate goal of getting married you should make your partner aware of the things that will matter in the marriage.
For instance, if a woman used to have serious drug or alcohol problems he needs to know about it before he commits. I know men who divorced their wives because they found out about drugs after they got married. I also know men who dumped their girlfriends when they found out about their true age.
The thing is, he has to feel in the position to make an informative decision when he enters a serious relationship. If you are ten years older than you say you are, your actual age will not matter nearly as much to a man as the fact you lied about it.
A man thinks, if a woman cannot be trusted and relied upon regarding the little things, there isn’t trust in a relationship. And without trust frankly not many people will stay in a long term relationship.
3. Consistent attempts to make him jealous
Consistent attempts to make your man jealous will create uncertainty about the relationship. A man doesn’t think of you as more desirable because you are constantly flirting with other men. A man thinks you are desirable because he chose you, not because you’ve chosen to flirt with other men.
When his girlfriend constantly tries to draw attention of other men what it tells a man is that he isn’t good enough that she has to publically humiliate him. A man will not want to be with a woman who humiliates him (see reason No.1)
When a woman tries to make a man jealous the only really reason she does that is because of her own insecurities. But a man doesn’t see it that way. He looks at it like this – am I proud to be seen with this woman or do I want to hide away? If she makes him want to hide away, she is deflating his ego, and no man wants to be with a woman with whom his ego gets deflated.
4. Acting indifferent as if she doesn’t care
When a man approaches a woman; when a man dates a woman, and when a man enters a serious relationship with a woman he wants to see her approval. No man will proceed further and move the relationship to the next level when he doesn’t think a woman approves of him.
A man will not ask you out if he doesn’t think you will say YES. A man will not ask you to marry him if he thinks you will say NO.
A man has a sensitive ego. He doesn’t want to get his ego shattered by getting a NO.
5. Acting insecure
When a woman acts insecure this is a big turn off for a man. Acting out of insecurities can take many forms, from seeking approval to fear of abandonment. These are the things that subconsciously tell a man that a woman is not secure enough to know that he loves her and needs constant validation. Only a man who has severe insecurities himself will welcome this behavior. Such man will see his woman’s insecurities as validation to his own. But unless you are with a man who is insecure, acting out of insecurities will drive a man away.
6. Negative disposition
Have you ever met a woman who is always negative? The weather always sucks; if it rains it’s bad, but if the sun shines it’s also bad because now she is getting sunburn. She speaks badly about everybody (behind their backs). She comes home from work to unload her issues onto anyone who will listen. Do you know anyone like that? How does it feel being around that person for thirty minutes?
No man wants to be around a woman who is negative. We are attracted to people who draw us in with positive energy. If you have tendencies to dump your load onto someone the best advice is to hire a shrink and keep your negativity out of your personal and dating life. Or you can sign up for boxing and get your negative energy out that way – very effective, seriously.
7. Emotional draining and nagging
Do you know these women who just nag and nag about something? She’s said it once, and yet she continues to bring it up over and over. At some point it starts to sound like background noise. Yep, the more a woman nags the more the man ignores it.
‘Take out the garbage. Take out the garbage. Take out the garbage. Blah, blah, blah.’
Instead of nagging, find a solution. What’s the problem here? The garbage. How can you have this problem solved without nagging? There are many ways to solve each and every problem. It doesn’t have to be him who takes out the garbage. And not even you. The garbage needs to be taken out. How can this be solved?
Restructure your way of thinking from ‘I want him to do this and that’ to ‘what can I do to have such and such result?’
8. She changed
Have you ever heard this saying ‘a woman marries a man hoping he’ll change but he never does; a man marries a woman hoping she’ll never change but she always does’. If your man is falling out of love in order to get him to feel the love he felt for you before become the woman he fell in love with in the first place.
9. She was unappreciative
She never says ‘please’ and ‘thank you’. She takes for granted everything he does for her.
When a man feels he cannot make a woman happy he’ll stop trying. When he doesn’t hear words of encouragement and the words of appreciation he will not try harder. A man is like a dog – he sits, he gets a treat. Stop giving a dog treats and he’ll misbehave.
Reward good behavior and show appreciation.
10. She stopped taking care of herself
She was the homecoming queen when they fell in love. Ten years and two kids later she is fifty pounds overweight wearing an old robe and slippers around the house. Her hair hasn’t seen a touch of a comb since yesterday and her brows have not been waxed in two years.
He loves her but that sexy new secretary in makes his heart race when he comes to the office in the morning. Should he leave his wife he loves but doesn’t feel sexually attracted to or should he have a secret affair?
That’s the choice a man should make.
These are the tops ten reasons according to men why they would leave the woman they love.
If you have been guilty of any of the things above, once you change way you relate to your man, you will see significant boost in how he relates to you! But if you are still puzzled and confused as to why he is pulling away even though you haven’t done anything wrong, the reason is that sometimes men get too comfortable in a relationship and start taking you for granted not appreciating you as much as they do in the beginning.
It doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you anymore. It simply means that he doesn’t feel it anymore. He can’t tell you why because he doesn’t know the reasons; it’s just that you need a plan of actions to make him realize just how important you are to him.
If you are waiting patiently for a man to change his ways you may be missing out on the relationship of your dreams in which you are deeply adored and appreciated.
If your man stopped appreciating you, if he stopped admiring you and loving you the way he used to, there is a plan of action you can start implementing right away to make him fall in love with you again the way it used to be.
Read on to find out how to make him fall in love with you again – Read This Page Now!
Share on FacebookWe Broke Up Because He Did Not Want Commitment What Can You Do To Get Him Back
October 27, 2010 by admin
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If you are in a casual dating relationship and you want to take your casual relationship to committed I have great news for you – YOU CAN take your casual relationship to commitment effortlessly when you know the secrets to going from a casual dating to commitment. I get a lot of emails from women who ask me how to make a man take a relationship to the next level of commitment. Read this email below and my response to it and you will learn something new about men and commitment that you probably did not know before!
Hi Elaine,
I am wondering if you give me some advice.
I want your opinion as to what i should do in my situation, as I made some big mistakes when we first broke up.
We were together for a year, but it was rocky. We were on/off, and I felt him pulling away from me/distancing himself at times. He has a lot going on in his life – work, a child to his ex, gym etc… this made finding time together difficult, but when we were together, things were great. I love this man, dearly. Towards the 12mth mark, i started asking him about the future and further commitment (we were exclusive, but I wanted to move in together, or at least discusss it) and he backed away completely. I didn’t handle it well at all, freaked out and we had massive arguments. Tears, anger, frustration.. the works. Then he ended it, saying that he “can’t be in a relationship” right now, and can’t give me what I want. I was devastated, and still am. I stupidly tried to get him to reconsider, but he is adamant that he needs time for himself, and could not commit to anyone at all, and doesn’t want to let me down.
Is there no hope in this situation, since i basically begged him to stay with me?! I don’t know how to proceed. I considered writing to him in a couple of weeks and saying ‘thanks for taking the courage to end it, I appreciate the time to myself as well”, so that there isn’t such a power inbalance between us, but I don’t know whether to do that, or just cut all contact. He has texted me a couple of times since the break up (just a week ago) asking if I am ok, checking in etc, but I haven’t responded.
Is there anything else I should be doing to get him back and make him commit to me??
Thank you so much,
Jane
Dear Jane,
Truth is, when a man wants to be with a woman he will do anything to keep her around. It appears that your ex was in for a good time, but when you started talking commitment he became withdrawn and broke up with you.
Can you get him back? That’s a question you are asking yourself.
The reason you broke up in the first place is because your goals for the future did not match up. You wanted commitment; he did not.
If you want a secure committed relationship you should be with a man who can give you commitment. If a man cannot give you commitment you have two choices to make; You can either move on and find a commitment-oriented man, or you can encourage your man to want to commit to you.
Encouraging a man to commit has nothing to do with begging, pleading and convincing. Just because you are exclusive with a man this does not mean you are in a committed relationship.
In order to encourage a man to commit, you have to understand how a commitment process works for a man.
In my book Guide To Commitment I show you how to go from a casual dating relationship to a secure committed relationship and marriage. You will also discover the one most important thing that must be present in your relationship for a man to want to commit to you.
When this one thing is present, he will want to make you his wife. You will be the only one he wants to be with and the one he wants to keep forever.
If you want to learn what that one thing is, and how to take your relationship from a casual dating relationship to commitment and marriage I encourage you to read Guide To Commitment!
Share on FacebookCan I Make Him Fall In Love With Me Again Before A Breakup
October 15, 2010 by admin
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If you and your guy seem to be heading for a breakup, he just doesn’t seem to be that in to you anymore, you may find yourself asking: can I make him fall in love with me again? I hear this question more times than I can count, it’s a very common problem. The answer, though, might just surprise you.
The first thing I always ask someone when they ask this question is what makes you so sure that he doesn’t still love you? Relationships can be confusing. We are never as vulnerable as we are when we let another person in. That person than has the ability to really hurt us. Sometimes we accidentally sabotage our own relationships just because we are so afraid of getting hurt we unconsciously decide we should end it before it goes any further.
Even if that’s not what is going on with you, I repeat, what makes you think he doesn’t still love you? It’s easy to mis interpret the signs especially if your guy suddenly seems a little cool or distant. Sure, this could be a sign that he’s ready to bolt, but it could also be a sign that you are sending out some signals of your own and he is responding to them. Confusing, I know. But either one of you can be picking up on the ‘vibes’ of the other, it happens all the time.
So, let’s say, that you were having a rough time about something, it doesn’t really matter what, and you weren’t as happy as you usually are. Your guy will have picked up on those vibes. If you were unable, or unwilling, to let him know what was going on with you, he might have interpreted it as you weren’t in love with him anymore. What you are witnessing from him might just be a ‘reflection’ of what he picked up from you.
I hope that makes sense. It’s a tough concept to convey in an article. One of the best ways you can find out if this is the case is to sit down, calmly, and talk to him. Ask him if there is anything wrong (you could start out by explaining what’s been going on with you, assuming there has been something going on with you).
If you don’t think that is the problem, is it possible that the two of you have just grown apart and have started to take each other for granted? Are the two of you so busy and stressed with your lives that you have ‘forgotten’ to show the other that you love them?
You know, showing your guy that you love him can be as simple as giving his back a rub when you pass by him in the kitchen. Most of us, men or women, love these little signs of affection. In many cases they can mean as much, or more, than the big grandiose displays of flowers, candy and lingerie. Such a simple act, done almost without thinking about it, lets your guy know that you care about him and that can go a long way to calming any fears he may be having about the relationship.
So, before you go around asking: can I make him fall in love with me again, you may just want to make sure that he really has fallen out of love with you. You may be pleasantly surprised at what you find out.
Share on FacebookWhat To Say To Get Him Back 3 Magic Words To Get Your Ex Back
September 23, 2010 by admin
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Are you broken up and don’t know how to get your ex back? Read this page == > Get Him Back
I get a lot of e-mails in which women ask me, are there any specific words to say to a man to make him realize how much I mean to him and to get him back?
There sure are specific words you can say to a man to make him fall in love with you again, and in my program Get Your Man Back System I teach you step-by-step what to do and say to get your boyfriend back and make him fall in love with you again!
Read more on this page == > How To Get Him Back
Of course your situation may be different, and the type of words you say when you see your ex again is critical at getting him back.
The most difficult situation is when you and your ex broke up because you cheated on him and he found out. When your ex breaks up with you because you were not loyal to him, it is the hardest to get him back.
Read the magic words I taught my client that made her boyfriend want her back. They are still together, so the magic words definitely worked.
Cindy found herself on the brink of a break up when her boyfriend John found out that she had a secret affair with a co-worker. Cindy loved John but his work made him travel a lot, and at times he went away on business for weeks and even months at a time.
That’s when she found herself attracted to a cute co-worker (who was actually married). Her married co-worker came on very strong and at one point after an office party when she was pretty intoxicated her co-worker gave her a ride home, and that’s how it all started.
He asked to come upstairs and they had an intercourse.
After that incident, they had a few secret encounters.
John found out about Cindy’s affair and was devastated. For three months he did not talk to Cindy, refused to take her phone calls, and did not respond to e-mails.
I told Cindy that the only chance she had at getting him back was to fully embrace the magnitude of her loss and let him know that she deeply regrets cheating on him and wants to try to patch up their relationship.
Because John did not answer the phone and did not respond to her e-a mails Cindy did something different. One day she wrote on a piece of paper:
“I am sorry. I didn’t mean to hurt you. Our break up made me realize how important our relationship is to me, and I’d like another chance with you. Call me!”
She drove by his house late in the evening and put the note on John’s windshield.
He got the note in the morning when he was leaving for work. Two days went by without a call from him.
Cindy almost gave up. She was watching television at home in her pajamas when she heard the doorbell. It was John.
We all make mistakes, and Cindy made a huge mistake by cheating on her boyfriend, but she was able to admit her fault and being away from her boyfriend made her realize how important her relationship was to her.
We often take our loved ones for granted. Losing the one you love makes you realize how much you love that person and how much he means to you. Sometimes we need to say the three magic words I am sorry to make the other person realize that he still loves you and wants you back.
If you are going through a break up right now and want to learn how to get your ex back, read this page == > Get Him Back
Share on FacebookHow To Get Your Ex Back In 7 Steps
August 29, 2010 by admin
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Do you want to get your ex boyfriend back? Watch this video that shows you how to get your ex boyfriend back in seven steps!
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How To Get Your Ex Back Video
August 23, 2010 by admin
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If you are looking for free video tips on how to get your ex boyfriend back, watch this video. It describes seven steps to getting your boyfriend back that you need to take in order to get him back. If you already know these things great; if you don’t watch this video and learn. In any case, I hope you enjoy this free video and the cover music provided by youtube! If you like it, leave a comment here or on the youtube video itself! or share it on FaceBook!
Share on FacebookHow To Fix Your Relationship
August 4, 2010 by admin
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If you want to fix your relationship, you need to ask the right question. Relationship repair can be tricky in the best of times, which is why you need to know the right questions, relationship questions, to get the information you need to repair what has been broken.
This is not necessarily an easy thing to do. Most of us won’t want to ask these questions, relationship problems or not. This is because the natural human reaction to things is to try and avoid the problem as much as possible.
But relationship problems will not fix themselves. You need to make the effort to fix them, not wait for your ex to magically come around. You are the one who has realized there is a problem, and this means that you have to be the one to do the work to fix it. Whether you like it or not, it’s become your responsibility.
Which brings us to the questions. Relationship questions are not easy to ask, but the answers will be worthwhile. This is the information you need to do the work that will bring you back to having a healthy relationship with your partner.
Question One: What Do You Want?
This is a question you need to ask yourself and your partner. You need to ask yourself because you need to be able to know and articulate what it is you want from your relationship. You need to ask him so that you know that the things you want from the relationship are, if not the same, then at least compatible.
Question Two: What Were Our Best Times?
This is another question designed to get you looking at how the two of you view your relationship. If you both view different times in your relationship as the best times, this will give you a very strong indication of where things went wrong, which is the point of these questions. Relationship is based on knowing what these questions will tell you.
Question Three: What Don’t You Like?
Again, this is a question both of you need to ask. This is an area where it is crucial that you don’t assign blame or allow your emotions to be hurt. You need to take a full inventory of where you stand and knowing what it bothering both of you is essential.
Question Four: Where are we Heading?
The point of this is question is to see where you both think the relationship should and where it will go. Without knowing this, you won’t know how bad the relationship is. If your partner thinks that the relationship is doomed to failure, this is information you need to know.
The point of doing all this is to find the true answers to these questions. Relationship rescue will be much easier when you have this information, because it will give a roadmap of the problems you need to resolve to have a stronger relationship. This is only the beginning, and you should seek out and find the information that will allow you to overcome these problems.
Share on FacebookCan I Get Him Back Quiz
April 13, 2010 by admin
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One of the confusing parts about the break up is to know if you can actually get your ex back or if it’s over. I get overwhelming number of e-mails in which women ask me all the time, ‘Will Get Your Man Back System work for me to get my guy back?’
So, to determine if your situation is salvageable I have put together this test. Answer these questions and you will know for sure if you can get him back or if you should move on. Pick only one answer to each question:
1. How long have you been dating?
a. We just went out once or twice
b. We met on a dating site and communicated for sometime before we met in person; after we met in person all communication stopped
c. We were on several casual dates
d. We were dating consistently for at least two months but I am not sure if he was ever serious about me
e. We were in exclusive or committed relationship and have known each other for more than two months
2. Why did you break up?
a. I am not sure; he just disappeared on me suddenly
b. Everything was going great but he suddenly pulled away, became busy and drifted away
c. We had a lot of arguments and fights
d. We broke up as a result of a big argument or a fight
3. Did you ever have a conversation about what was not working in your relationship?
a. No, we never had a conversation about our relationship
b. We talked about what we both want from a relationship
c. I brought up once or more times a conversation about our relationship
d. We both expressed what we did not like about each other on one or more occasions
4. Have you spoken since you broke up?
a. No, I have not heard from him at all
b. Yes, we have spoken since the break up, but I was always the one to initiate contact with him
c. Yes, we both initiate contact and speak from time to time
d. Yes, we are regularly keeping in touch
Now, write down your score and sum it up:
1. a – 0; b – 1; c – 2; d – 3; e – 4
2. a – 2; b – 3; c – 4; d – 5
3. a – 0; b – 2; c – 0; d – 5
4. a – 0; b – 0; c – 3; d – 5
Your score is between 0 and 4:
Since it sounds like you were never in a relationship and have barely known each other, Get Your Man Back System is not the right choice of book for you because it is geared toward couples who broke up. Try my other book Make Him Call You which is more suitable for your situation.
Your score is between 5 and 8:
Your chances for getting back with him are 50/50, but you certainly have a second chance with him. If you play your cards right, you can not only bring him back but to also strengthen your relationship and deepen the bond with him. Get Your Man Back System tells you exactly what to do in your situation step-by-step.
Your score is 9 or more:
Your situation is temporary and you don’t really have to make any effort to get him back. Just enjoy your singlehood while you can because it won’t last much longer, and wait for him to come crawling back to you! The most important thing you should do right now is not to make damage to the favorable situation you are in for reconciliation. If you don’t know how to avoid messing up, I still recommend that you check out Get Your Man Back System
Good luck!



