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Comment on Why Men Go Hot and Cold 3 Reasons Why Men Go Hot and Cold by Carla

Carla — Wed, 03 Apr 2013 11:57:47 +0000

Great article, spot on! Wish I had seen it sooner.
I’ve been left completely puzzled. I met a guy, we got on really well within a week he introduces me to his friends and family, spend the day shopping with his mother, we get on really well, he continues to pursue me then goes all quiet on me…then a photo appears on his fb of him and a girl all cosy, i ask whats going on and he says we are friends nothing further, i’m unstable and then tells me to p*** off! He then not only deletes me but blocks me from fb. A week later…i bump into his mum and the following day he is texting me again as if nothing has happened. I get a message from him saying he loves me but finds it hard to talk…ive only known him a short amount of time. Then he invites me over for the weekend and introduces me to his 10yr old son from a previous relationship, his mum invites me for dinner and to stay the night with him. We get to the bedroom and he doesnt come anywhere near me. The whole weekend he was distant, not even holding hands on the beach, when its time to leave he just pecks me on the cheek, no hug and just says bye. I later ask what the text meant as i was confused and he just replys he was drunk and in the dumps and that we are just great friends. Im sorry but do friends spend the night in your bed? Do you introduce all your friends to your mother and child? I’ve asked him if everything is alright and if he wants to talk and he refuses and says everythings fine. Im so confused and frustrated by his actions and mixed messages. I try and give him space but then it starts up all over again the flirty messages, i hit a brick wall. Why couldnt of his words and actions matched, now just found out he has a date next weekend…i pitty the girl.

Comment on Is He Giving Her Mixed Signals? Guys Giving Women Mixed Signals by Jamie

Jamie — Fri, 22 Mar 2013 11:13:13 +0000

I can’t stand men who give mixed signals. I think a man who does this is not sure what he wants. I would encourage u ladies to circular date when these men start behaving like asses.

Comment on Signs He Is Afraid To Fall For You – He Pulls Away After Getting Close by tara

tara — Sun, 10 Mar 2013 23:18:44 +0000

i am 56 been dating this guy off an on for at least two years. I am white and he is african american. he is 59, went thru a bad divorce. we get close I help him financially he backs away then a cpl weeks later is starts calling again. i care alot about him but tired of the off and on. we go thru spells when it is great and when it gets great he backs off. any solutions, i am so tired of playing his game

Comment on Why Men Go Hot and Cold 3 Reasons Why Men Go Hot and Cold by Sadie

Sadie — Sat, 19 Jan 2013 03:24:57 +0000

Ok, Confused to the max I met back up with my ex about 2 years ago. Him and I have a child together, He had not been in his life for many years. He wanted me to do something financial for him and I told him he need to meet his son if I did.
We met, he wanted to sleep with me and I told him no he had a girlfriend, When he returned home a couple weeks later the girlfriend left.
Now we have been seeing each other every couple months along with his child and his other child. He lives in a long distance. Does not call all the time and sometimes ignores email and texts.
He told me after he breakup with his girlfriend he did not want a girlfriend. I too at the time did not want one either I had just lost my boyfriend of 16 years who raised his son. He thinks its a friends with benefit thing, I told him that is not what I want. So we spent a couple months seeing each other every day he stayed with us. Now when we see each other hes great while we are there and after we leave, he goes cold after we spend a couple days together. I back off and he comes forward. Is he just using me and keeping me as a option till he finds someone. I decided i should move on but now he has reunighted with his child. Feel stuck and disrespected. I either want a real commitment not marriage but exclusive or just move on.

Comment on Signs He Is Afraid To Fall For You – He Pulls Away After Getting Close by liz

liz — Sat, 29 Dec 2012 21:06:27 +0000

I met this guy about three months ago. He gave me his number and told me I was cute. I texted him right away cuz I felt the same and then we continued talking and texting for weeks. He had asked me out and so naturally I started thinking that we were on the same page, and would progress from being friends to bf & gf. We never went out, just hung out and every time he and I would get closer, I would ask where our relationship was heading. He, I guess, got upset that I was asking and so told me via text that we were just friends and leave it at that. So after that day, we started a clean slate as friends and continued calling each other and hanging out and texting. Even we declared ourselves friends, he would say that through text, that I was cute and he would marry me. But in person, he would go out of his way to wait for me, but hardly would look at me, yet would be “grooming himself” fixing his shirt, pants, belt, whatever he had on. Even socks one time. I also noticed that if I looked different or had a different pair of earrings, he would sort of glance and look away. The final text came last week when I texted him something that I knew wasn’t true to see if he would respond. He didn’t and kind of told me to leave him alone,I did but four days later, when I returned to work, he still went out of his way to see if he saw me. And again this time he would talk to me as though shy and would be fixing his sweater and touching his face alot, but also ignoring me and looking at me through window glasses as though I didn’t know he was doing so. I got upset that he was kind of ignoring me a bit, that I said bye and left. And then sent him an emotional email. I know I was probably pushy, needy, clingy, but Idk what to think and am not going to text or call him until he does. Is that a good idea?

Comment on He’ll Realize What He’s Lost and Come Back To You by Paula

Paula — Wed, 19 Dec 2012 20:01:50 +0000

After several relationships with unhappy endings – a year ago I started dating the most wonderful man. We knew each other vaguely through work but suddenly our paths crossed and we fell in love.
This man was the most compatible of anyone. I have never ever felt so happy in a relationship.
I am not saying it was easy – we both work crazy jobs, he is raising 2 teenage girls and we live 2 hours apart.
I had got on very well with his girls but did wish we could have some time alone together- we were always with them. Then one of the girls became quite resentful of me- I let it ride knowing teenage angst was there! After 2 months I had to say something – I said it to him not her. I also said I would really appreciate one weekend a month where perhaps we could spend some time alone.
Unfortunately it all went pear shaped – he said he could not compromise his daughters come first. I respect that and I also know he did put effort into us too.

We had talked about moving in together ( in the middle) and were looking at places. He had made it clear that I was his one, his true love …. And I felt the same. Many people that knew us thought we were the done deal!!!

But now he has gone. He claims he has moved forward and is getting on with life.

I miss him so much although I am trying to move on myself. I think I have lost my true love.

Comment on 10 Signs He Is Serious About You by jenny

jenny — Sat, 08 Dec 2012 09:31:38 +0000

if a man does all these things, who wonders for hiw serious feelings? its obvious. there are other signs, from the very begining that show his intentions…

Comment on Four Breakup Mistakes Women Make by Jamie

Jamie — Tue, 04 Dec 2012 13:12:56 +0000

Well, at least if your partner initiates a breakup conversation, at least he let’s u know what is happening instead of disappearing which is what my partner did. He just disappeared without a trace four months now and has since reappeared by calling my sister and wishing me happy birthday on my facebook page. I have not responded to him personally. Instead I thanked everyone on my page for their birthday sentiments and clicked like at everyone’s comments except his. The method of contact when a man does something like that got to be a phone call with an apology.

Comment on He’ll Realize What He’s Lost and Come Back To You by georgina

georgina — Thu, 29 Nov 2012 18:53:08 +0000

sorry he has txt me back afer iv txt him he was meant to come saturday but couldnt and was full of apoligisies par ells me he just chased me for sex but if he calls that sex defo not for me lol all jokes aside am quite hurt

Comment on He’ll Realize What He’s Lost and Come Back To You by georgina

georgina — Thu, 29 Nov 2012 18:50:48 +0000

hi can someone help me pls am 32 steven 25 i me him last week he was ringin txtin non stop and tuesday slept with him not fully as i said i wont o wait its to soon he has x me back when iv txt him saying hes sick in bed so confused as he was realy interested am just thinkin would he txt back if thas all he wanted x