Dating Unavailable Man Are You Dating Mr Unavailable
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Are you sitting at home alone on a Sunday night eating dinner, watching DVD, reminiscing about your weekend without him and wondering why the heck he didn’t call and ask to see you this weekend?
He knew you’d be available waiting for him to call you and ask you out. And you know he didn’t have any exciting plans. No family coming over from out of town; no baseball games to attend with his buddies. Why the heck didn’t he call?
You know he’s not seeing anyone else. You are pretty sure of that.
He was online on a dating site on which you met Saturday night apparently having nothing better to do. You know he didn’t have a date; and you know he didn’t hook up with anyone else.
And you have a great time together; only WHEN you are together. But you were not – not this particular weekend. And you wonder why.
But he still calls you and texts you. Not every day, but he is on the horizon.
What’s going on? Why would he choose to be at home this weekend with not much excitement when he could have been with you? Why did he prefer the company of his laptop and TV over an exciting romantic dinner, movies and cuddling by the fireplace with you?
Or perhaps you both share a passion for walking on the beach. It’s very romantic indeed. This is something you totally envision yourself doing with someone you are falling in love with. You’ve told him you would be excited to do this sometime; but this weekend (you found out from a mutual friend, or from his Twitter for that matter) he went to the ocean (to walk on the beach) BY HIMSELF!
You probably have a lot of questions, and I am going to answer them right here in this article.
When a man acts the way I’ve just described herein, this is what it means – he likes to keep you hanging, but he wants to keep your expectations low.
This does not mean he is a commitment phobic. But he senses (and men know it when women start to have higher expectations) that you want more than what he is offering you right now.
And after spending a great weekend together; when your time together is filled with exciting activities, lots of passion and kissing, he suddenly turns ambivalent and mysterious, which makes you wonder why he changed!
Being a wise woman you decide that perhaps he’s changed his mind about you and start moving on. You don’t call him and confront him, because you know better. You pressure yourself to move on with your life. And just as you start to move on he re-appears as if nothing had happened.
The reason he is re-appearing is because he doesn’t want to lose you in a capacity in which he has you!
He doesn’t want to lose you completely because obviously he is getting lots of perks from your relationship.
He may be telling you he’s busy but wants to see you as soon as his schedule clears up. He calls you and texts you to stay in contact, but he’s got too much drama in his life, or is very busy with work and other commitments.
But you wait patiently because you believe that he likes you. And you are right on the money here – he does.
Perhaps he can’t see you more often because he is busy and has other priorities in life; or he lives too far away to drive to see you often; you he’s made commitments to his family, his buddies, his fishing and hunting friends, his neighbor, his kids, his kid’s mother, WHATEVER…
And you, being a wise woman again, know that in order to develop a healthy relationship with a man you should give him the freedom to do the things he enjoys. You don’t want to take anything away from him because you know that as soon as you start taking things away from a guy he will resent you.
So, you are waiting patiently until he finally gets around to his last priority – YOU.
But the truth is; HEAR ME OUT! – when a man is falling in love with a woman he will MAKE YOU HIS PRIORITY!
But don’t worry, because I am about to tell you how to turn your relationship around, and finally become HIS FIRST PRIORITY!
You may be saying, ‘but he’s got kids’ that he is responsible for’… ‘but he is playing poker with his buddies’ and that’s what he’s been doing for years…. Etc.
Listen! When I dated a man who raced a Ferrari, he didn’t have to chose between racing and me… He invited me with him to a race…
When a dated a man who was into playing baseball with his buddies (and this is something he’s been doing for 20 years), he invited me to the game!
When a man is truly falling for you he will want to be with you every waking moment. He will want to merge your lives together; and he will want to introduce you to his life and the things he loves. He will want you to be with him at his house when his family comes over; he will want you to get to know his kids!
Asking a man why he didn’t call you this weekend will only add aggravation… The answer you are looking for is there – he didn’t call you because he didn’t feel like it.
If you give a man shit about disappearing on you; scold him for not inviting you with him; tell him you thought you were a couple, and other things like that… it may TEMPORARILY get his compliance because he doesn’t want to interrupt a continuous stream of sex he is getting from you…
…but it will piss him off eventually…
The only really thing that works here to make him CHANGE HIS WAYS – is to MAKE SURE HE FALLS FOR YOU! And I have outlined a plan that’s based on scientifically proven facts to make any man fall in love with you right on THIS PAGE!
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