Get Him Back With The Help Of Your Memories
If you’ve broken up with your ex you may be thinking that pushing the memories of your ex away from you is the way to lessen the pain of the break up. This is a common mistake people make when they break up!
Trying to think of your ex less frequently only aggravates the pain when it comes back because the more you try to suppress your feelings and emotions the harder it is to stay in control of your emotions when they eventually overpower you!
But what most people who are going through a breakup don’t know is that your positive memories associated with your ex can actually help you bring your ex back!
Let me explain;
You and your ex were together for some time. During that time, both you are your ex did some things that left memories some of which are positive and some of which are negative. The trouble is that if it was your ex who initiated the break up, chances are that your ex at this point remembers more negative things about your relationship than positive.
The key to getting your ex back is in bringing back the positive memories and diminishing the negative ones in your ex’s mind.
Think of three of the best and most memorable moments you and your ex had together.
If your relationship lasted for more than a couple of dates, you will come up with at least a few memories that are very special to you.
Now, I want you to think of the three memories that you think are the most special to your ex.
Write those memories down, both for yourself and your ex. Make two columns – one for your ex and one for yourself.
After you have finished writing down those things down, carefully look at them. Are your best memories the same as ones for your ex?
With some couples you may find that your ex’s best memories of your relationship are different of the ones you have identified as the best ones. That’s ok. If you think that your most memorable moments are the same as the ones that your ex would consider his best memories, even better!
All you need to do is to bring back the memories that made your ex feel in love with you, and you are two steps closer to getting him back even if you feel that it’s over.
Even if you think that it’s all over, I get great news for you – most relationships can be saved! Many couples reunite after a break up. The key is in doing the right thing, and avoid doing the wrong thing.
Unfortunately, many people are clueless what is the right thing and what is the wrong thing to do when you want to get your ex back.
For detailed information on what to do to bring back lost love of your life, read this page