He Likes You But Is Scared
If you have read my emails from last week, you probably remember the story Is He Afraid Of Getting Hurt in which I share an email from one of my readers.
I wanted to hear from other readers of my blog before posting my response I sent to this woman via email.
In this article I want to share my initial response to her.
If you haven’t read the last week’s article, you can read it here.
And here is my response:
It seems that he still is attracted to you, meaning that physical attraction is present.
However, as they say, once bitten twice shy. He asked you out and you rejected him. He doesn’t want to try again.
My advice would be to move on and find someone else. But this is probably not what YOU want.
You want THIS GUY back, and no one else, from what I am hearing in your email.
Getting back into guy’s good graces after rejecting him requires a lot of patience and sometimes a long time.
You’ve done your part by showing that you are still interested, but HIS issues are still there, and he won’t be too eager to jump right in with both feet once he’s been burned once.
Act friendly, and do not be pushy. I know you may want the straight answer whether it’s good or bad.
I don’t recommend putting him on the spot though. You both may end up in a very uncomfortable situation if you do.
But if you are prepared to handle the truth, even if it’s not pleasant, you can ask him in a casual conversation why he doesn’t ask you out and see what he says.
You can listen to his response and determine if he is being truthful or not.
Let me know if you have any follow-up questions.
I wish you all the best!
So, this was the email I sent to Jessica in response to her questions.
If anyone has something they want to add, or to share your experiences and advice, please leave a comment in the comment section down below!