How Can I Get Him To Commit
If you have been with a man for months or even years but the marriage proposal isn’t on the horizon, you are probably asking a question, how can I get him to commit? You know your man is everything you’ve ever wanted in a husband, but for some unknown reason he is dragging his feet, and you want to know if there is anything you can do to get your man to commit to you.
Whether it’s committing to seeing only you, committing to the relationship, getting serious, or popping the question, you know you aren’t getting any younger, and your biological clock is ticking making you anxious to know whether there is a way you can gently push or even encourage your man to commit to you.
If the above describes your situation with your man you are in luck because in this article I want to answer your most burning questions about commitment, and how men view commitment. The most exciting news is that you can get a man to commit without nagging, without the serious talk, and without trickery by just learning the things about commitment that men don’t want you to know.
In this article I want to not only answer your question How do I get him to commit? in simple terms, but I will give you an overview of how men view commitment in a relationship.
First of all, men and women view commitment differently. It means different things to women than what it means to men.
Most often, women are looking for marriage commitment since the young age. Men, unlike women, are dedicated to achieving their primary purpose, which has nothing to do with marriage commitment.
A primary purpose for a man is the goal in life that he wants to achieve before anything else will take precedence.
If you understand what drives a man in life, he is much more likely to commit to you, because you are the kind of a woman who will help him in achieving his primary purpose.
Thus, in answering your question, how do I get him to commit? the first and foremost way to get a man to commit to you for a long term is to show him that you can be a supporter in his journey to achieving his purpose.
On the other hand, if you are the kind of person who in his opinion stands on his way of achieving his greater purpose, you are very likely to stay in a relationship that’s stalled forever. So, if you want to get your man to commit to you, the only thing you need to be most worried about is whether you are supporting your man’s goals in life or are standing on his way to achieving them.
No one but you will be able to answer this question. Men want different things in their partner, but they all want one thing – is the woman who stands by her man.
There is a saying, behind every great man there is a greater woman. If you can be that woman for your man, he will commit to you without ultimatums and serious talks.
He will be the one committed to you in his heart and in his mind.
What is your man’s greater purpose?
How can you support his greater purpose?
Do you know what he needs in order to achieve his primary purpose?
Feel free to leave your question about your man who is not committing in the comment section below and I will try to answer all of them!