How Men Respond To Distance

June 1, 2012 by  
Filed under Get Him Back

I have been getting a lot of e-mails from my subscribers lately with many of the women asking me very similar questions. They all boil down to How Do Men Respond To Distance in a Relationship? We are NOT talking about a Long Distance Relationship which is a completely separate topic, and if you want to know more about it, you can visit This Page. Here, in this article, we are going to talk about a different kind of distance – emotional.

And since I can’t answer each individual email I decided to write a post to answer everyone at once.

And if you are like the women who asked me this question, pay close attention, because chances are, you have experienced a situation such as theirs at least once in your dating life, and if not, you sure will encounter such situation in the future, so it’s always good to know how to handle this situation with grace and dignity.

When the man you have been dating starts to pull away after a few dates, few weeks or months of dating, the natural instinct is to close that gap and to bring your relationship back to normal, or back to the way it was.

And in an attempt to bring your guy back, you may start making mistakes that are dangerous to your relationship.

If you feel compelled to fill the communication gaps by calling him, asking him out, and offering to see him or to stop by his house, his natural reaction will be to pull even further away.

To you these actions may seem like a natural way to bridge the gap between the two of you, and to strengthen the connection. To a man, however, this feels like smothering.

What should you do?

Give him some time, and he’ll start reaching out to you again. A healthy relationship is not based on running away and chasing. In a healthy relationship no one is running and no one is chasing.

In a healthy relationship, both people are emotionally healthy individuals who are happy to be together, and aren’t playing head games.

When, on the other hand, one person pulls away, and the other one chases this relationship is based on games and deceit.

And if you want to ensure that your relationship is lasting and healthy, you need to recognize that distance can be healthy when moderated.

If you require that a man calls you several times a day, he may fulfill that need for a while. But there will be times when he will only call you once a day. And that’s ok. He may need that distance here and there.

But if you have noticed that his calls have become less and less regular, that he wants to see you less and less frequently, or starts making excuses to not see you at all, this simply means that he is paving his way to end the relationship with you eventually.

This has nothing to do with pulling away from you temporarily. This is an indication that he is having second thoughts about your relationship, or that he’s met somebody else who he wants to start seeing.

There are ways, however, to return a man who is slipping away from you, and to even get him back from another woman.

If you are on the brink of a break up, and your man is slipping away, or if you have already been dumped, there is a way to get his love back! If you are convinced that what you want is to get your man back, if you are convinced that he is the one for you, then I encourage you to check out This Page >>>Click Here To Read because only you know that he is the one for you, and your relationship is worth saving because you had something special!


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11 Responses to “How Men Respond To Distance”
  1. Jess says:

    What if we are already married? How do you regain someones interest if they are gone?We are pleasant as can be to eachother and I know he is still attracted to me. He seems to purposefully back away when it seems we’re getting close.

  2. Carmen says:

    i just found this blog and have high hopes for it to continue. keep up the great work, its hard to find good ones. i have added to my favourites. thank you.

  3. Edney says:

    that was nice to know

    • Midou says:

      I think this is just a rumor, but you may as well try since you are definitely far engouh along that you don’t have anything to worry about. I wouldn’t eat more than a serving or so every few hours. Personally, I think walking is more likely to help than anything else

  4. Enilda says:

    post has been excellent and i have referred it to many of my friends. my honour for the work that you have done. thank you once again

  5. Bartira says:

    interesting article. i will share it on facebook. thx

  6. Almerinda says:

    i like this article

  7. Ester says:

    thank you very much for this advice. i needed it for my relationship

  8. Daisy says:

    what about a boyfriend who broke up with me six months ago and who is now single but says to me that he just wants to be friends with me?

  9. Eliane says:

    i came to your blog searching through google, and i’m glad i found it because it’s helping me a lot

  10. Dalila says:

    my boyfriend became distant after we had an argument. he now only comes around for sex

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