How men TEST women and how to pass their tests

July 19, 2010 by  
Filed under Finding Your Soulmate

Did you know that men subconsciously TEST women? They may not admit that they test you; they may not even realize that they test you; but it is important to know what kind of a test he’ll put you through next so that you pass his test with flying colors.

One of the tests men put women through is a ‘date test’. What this means, a man will determine what kind of a date you are. He will look for things such as – how fun it is to be around you; how easy it is to be with you; how high or low maintenance you are; and many other things.

The easiest way to pass a man’s tests is to be yourself. Or course, this takes an enormous amount of skill and confidence to be the kind of woman who mesmerizes a man. But the key to passing his test to impress is in NOT trying to impress a man.

When you have confidence from knowing that you are a valuable woman, you don’t need to try to impress anybody. You can do whatever you want without having to follow artificial ‘rules’, and the man will still be impressed by you.

This is because you are being comfortable in your own skin. This is because you are not trying to pretend to be something you are not.

I can’t tell you how many times the most confident women lose it with the men they start to REALLY like.

I know what it feels like. I’ve been there myself. When I was in college I met the most gorgeous man on Earth. We went to the same college, that’s how we met.  I have never seen anyone remotely as good looking as he was. It would take a whole book just describing his looks, so let’s just say that Brad Pitt couldn’t hold a candle to this guy (sorry Brad). Anyways, this guy (for some weird reason) started coming off to me. He took me out on multiple dates and… I dumped him after a month because I was insecure and could not understand why would someone like this guy (the whole entire campus was literally drooling over him) want to date me… so I dumped him first because I was afraid that he would dump ME and break my heart!

Ok, long story short, but now I don’t question why the best out of the best guys are always after me…

I have learned to trust that I am desirable. So, when you know that you are valuable and desirable, you do not need to pretend to be someone you are not, because as authentic  as YOU are, you are already irresistibly attractive to men!

And if you truly want to know the secrets to develop mind-blowing, earth-shattering irresistibility and confidence with men, and be able to attract practically any man (no joke!) read This Page!

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2 Responses to “How men TEST women and how to pass their tests”
  1. maria kupsch says:


  2. laura says:

    I just want to say that is true..but I would like to share my ”how men TEST woman and How to pass their tests”..Well it is true as to be yourself is one of the things are very important in relation..In my case, I met the guy who seems to be the perfect match for I realy liked him and felt so he just drived me crazy (as no one before)For one and harf year I worked as Health Care Assistant with my client in the big was isolated place as I had just two hours brake a day and all this time I spent with my client who has dementia..As I had to leave and came back to civilisation (London)..I met him..and he was the quitest guy I ever talk to and I felt so much connected..but the point is that I forgot about communication with people..I had a mission to work,help my family, my son as I had from ex relation (a very painful and the experience I had made me be so law estime person as I could not believed my self that is realy me..who forget be myself and try to protect myself for being hurt) It is not I felt he wants me to heart and I am not over my ex..but the fact..he was so me..I felt he wants me and I did…but I wanted to know him to him..never stop..wanted to feel secured and I did not know how to do it..He thought I plaid maybe the ”kids”games..trying to be cleaver or understood that I better let him go..I event tried to think that I can sense him around me…I can not believe that he was serious about my feelings and event I more time spent thinking of him then I slept need for me dramas..I am trying to forget I believe,everybody has samewhere the second metter how much is sameone trys to ruin your life..make you fell a small and invisable person as my ex did..I still can not anser in my quastion ”how sameone can make you so happy in few dates as I newer had experienced that..And I really hope he will be happy with samebody else…and he probably will newer know that…and can enjoy it of testing all I know my velue and at least I am sure about what I am looking for…sameone who take me the way who I am…Thanks

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