How To Get Through To Him When He Is Hurting You
Do you ever say to yourself, My boyfriend isn’t treating me the way I want to be treated? Do you ever wonder why your man isn’t stepping up to the plate to give you what you truly want and deserve in a relationship?
If so, this article is for you, because I am going to give you a sneak peak preview of how you can start changing your relationship today to make it everything you’ve ever wanted in a relationship and in a partner.
The first step to improving your relationship is to evaluate your own expectations of your partner.
Do you know exactly what you want from him?
If you think you do, make a list of what you want your partner do to and write it down.
Once you are done writing these things down, look at every one of them and ask yourself, what was it in the very beginning of the relationship that made me think that my partner would meet this particular expectation?
Was it something you and your partner discussed? Was it something he told you he wanted to have with you? Was it something he said that made you assume he would be able to meet this particular set of expectations? Or was it simply something you’ve always wanted in a relationship and never discussed with your partner?
If this was something you and he have discussed, it is a reasonable expectation on your part, and you can point out in your next conversation that you expect your partner to follow through.
If, on the other hand, this is something you and he have never talked about before, it may be worth looking deeper into the reasons of the problem.
Were his expectations different from yours? Did he deceive you in any way or was he up-front from the start?
This may require taking a deeper look into the problem, and a little more investigation.
Once you identify clearly the reasons of your resentments toward your partner, discuss the issue in a constructive manner. Stay away from accusations and blaming. Focus on how YOU feel, rather than attacking your partner.
Ask for what you want, and you will most likely receive a candid answer. Unless you ask for what you want, you may never get what you want.
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