August 29, 2010 by Elaine AmDee Filed under Get Him Back
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HI MY NAME IS PATRICIA CARNEY I AM 24 COMMITTED AND IN A RELATIONSHIP I HAD BEEN WITH THIS GUY MY CHILDHHOD SWEETHEART AND FRIEND JONATHAN KILPATRICK I HAD KNOWN HIM SINCE WE ARE BABIES WE HAD BEEN TOGETHER FOR TWENTYRIGHT MONTHS AND WE HAD BEEN A TWENTY EIGHT MONTH RELATIONSHIP WE HAD BEEN VERY YOUNG IN LOVE AGED SIXTEEN AND SEVENTEEN HE HAD INTRODUCED ME TO ALL OF HIS FRIENDS AT HIS RECENT BIRTHDAY PARTIES AND I HAD INTRODUCED HIM TO MY FRIENDS TOO SINCE WE HAD STARTED GETTING EXCLUSIVE AND PUBLIC AS A COUPLE DATING FLIRTING HOLDING HANDS AND KISSING A FEW TIMES I CANNOT COUNT WE HAD BEEN ON TEN DATES IN A ROW WHICH IS REALLY AMAZING WE HAD A LOT IN COMMEN SUDDENLY WE HAD BEEN GOING OVER EACH OTHERS HOUSES LOADS OF TIMES BUT I REMEMBER BEING UPSTAIRS IN HIS BEDROOM IN HIS HOUSE AND SOMEHOW HE HAD MUSIC ON HIS STEREO IN THE BACKGROUND TO BE ROMANTIC SETTING HE HAD THIS RUBBER BAND IN HIS HAND AND HE SANG TO ME WITH A PENCIL SO I HAD BEEN A LITTLE BIT NERVOUS WHEN HE GOT DOWN ON ONE KNEE AND HE DID TAKE MY HAND I HAD BEEN REALLY SCARED BIG TIME I HAD BEEN TOTALY TERRIFIED WHEN HE HAD POPPED THE QUESTION HE HAD ASKED MY HAND IN MARRIAGE BUT I DIDNT FEEL I HAD BEEN READY TO CONSIDER THAT WE HAD BEEN WAY TOO YOUNG TO GET MARRIED AND I SHOULD HAVE SAID NO BUT I DIDNT WANT TO BREAK HIS HEART OR HURT HIS FEELINGS SAYING NO TO MARRY HIM I SAID YES BY A MISTAKE WE HAD BEEN GIRLFRIEND AND BOYFRIEND FOR A WHILE NOW HE HAD BEEN TOTALY COMMITTED TO ME IN OUR RELATIONSHIP AND SO DID I TO HIM BUT I PULLED AWAY FROM HIM BECAUSE OF THAT HAND IN MARRIAGE IT DIDNT FEEL RIGHT FOR ME OK SO AFTER A FEW WEEKS WE BROKE UP AS A RESULT OF HIM ASKING MY HAND IN MARRIAGE AND HE HAD A SECOND GIRLFRIEND SO I HAD BEEN TOTALY DEVSTATED BY IT I DO REMEMBER HIM GIVING ME LOVELY SWEET THOUGHTFULL GIFTS CARDS AND FLOWERS EVERY SINGLE OCASSION WE DIDNT AGREE ON SEEING OTHER PEOPLE OR EVEN TALKED ABOUT IT THE HAND IN MARRIAGE THING SO WHILE I HAD BEEN FULLY RECOVERING AT HOME DURING MY AND HIS BREAKUP AFTER HAVING MY FIRST BROKEN HEART I HAD SURVIVED THROUGH IT SO I HAD BEEN WITH THIS LOVELY CHARMING GUY MY EX ANDREW THOMPSON THE RUGBY PLAYER FOR SHANNON FROM LIMERICK HE HAD TREATED ME RESPECTIVELY NICELY KINDLY HONESTLY REALLY GOOD BRILLIANT AMAZING PERFECT TERRIFIC FANTASTIC WONDERFUL SPECIALLY ROMANTIC PASSIONETE GENEROSITY TRUSTWORTYNESS FAITHFULLNESS LOYALYNESS AND FRIENDYLESS HE IS SUCH A SWEETHEART HE HAD BEEN GIVING ME A LOT OF SPACE TO CLEAR MY HEAD TO THINK THINGS THROUGH WHAT HAPPENED WITH ME AND HIM IN THE PAST THATS WHEN I HAD MY HEART BROKEN THE SECOND TIME HE DIDNT TREAT ME SEVERALY BADELY OR UNFAIRLY AT ALL NOT DURING OUR FOUR SHORT YEAR RELATIONSHIP HE NEVER BROKE MY HEART ONCE AND I LOVED HIM FOR THAT OR GAVE ME A COLD SHOULDER HE HAD DONE NOTHING TO UPSET ME OR HURT ME I AM REALLY GRATEFULL FOR WHAT HE DID BEING WITH HIM IS NOT A BIG MISTAKE BUT BREAKING UP WITH HIM IS CLEARLY A MISTAKE AND SO IS LEAVING HIM BROKEN HEARTED BECAUSE OF WHAT HAPPENED WITH HIM AND THE WIFE AFTER SHE HAD BEEN HIS FIRST GIRLFRIEND THIS HAD BEEN GOING ON FOR A FEW WEEKS NOW ME AND HIM BEING TOGETHER PRIVATELY EXCLUSIVE AS A SECRET COUPLE NOT JUST THAT WE HAD KEPT TEN SECRETS FROM HER IN MY AND HIS RELATIONSHIP HAD SPIRALLED OUT OF CONTROL IN MY AND HER FRIENDSHIP SINCE WE HAD BEEN VERY CLOSE FRIENDS AGED NINE AND TEN EIGHTEEN AND TWENTY WHEN WE HAD MET TWICE IN SPAIN THE TRUTH IS SHE DIDNT KNOW ANYTHING ABOUT MY AND HIS FOUR SHORT YEAR RELATIONSHIP I SHOULD HAVE TOLD HER EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENED WITH HIM BUT I DIDNT HAVE THE GUTS TO TELL HER WHAT REALLY HAPPENED BEHIND HER BACK ME AND ANDREW HAD BEEN VERY LOVE IN LOVE AGED FOURTTEN OR FIFTHEEN TWENTYFIVE AND TWENTYEIGHT BUT WE HAD BEEN HAVING THESE CRUSHES ON EACH OTHER SO THAT IME IN OUR RELATIONSHIP WE DIDNT SAY ANYTHING TO HER SINCE WE HAD BEEN TEENAGE SWEETHEARTS IN MALAGA OK SO ME AND HIM DIDNT TELL HER WHAT HAPPENED WITH US SO WE HAD LIED TO HER WHICH I KONW IT IS NOT RIGHT IT NEARLY DESTROED MY AND HER EARLY FRIENDSHIP AND WITH THOSE LETTERS I HAD WRITTEN TO HER HOW I FEEL WHAT HAPPENED WITH HER AND HIM HAD MADE JEALOUS BIG TIME AND BROKENHEARTED SO I HAD BEEN TOTALY DEVESTATED BUT I DIDNT MEAN TO SAY ANYTHING TO UPSET HER OR HURT HER IN THEM I JUST HAD TO MAKE MYSELF CRYSTAL CLEAR HOW I FELT SO I THREW THE LETTERS OUT RIPPED THEM UP AND PUT THEM IN THE BIN ITS BAD ENOUGH THAT I HAD BEEN SEEING HER HUSBAND BEHIND HER BACK BREAKING HER HEART AND HURTING HER FEELINGS THE NEXT HE HAD KEPT FOUR SECRETS FROM ME THE ENGAGEMENT PROPOSAL THE WEDDING THE HONEYMOON AND MOVING IN TOGETHER BUT I DIDNT REALLY CARE ABOUT THOSE SECRETS AS IT DIDNT CAUSE ME TO BREAK UP WITH HIM I HAD ENOUGH TO DEAL WITH AS IT IS SO THATS WHAT REALLY HAPPENED WHY IS THIS SO DIFFUCULT AND HARD FOR ME TO ACCEPT IT IS OVER WITH MY EX WHEN I STILL LOVE HIM AND IT HURTS SO MUCH I CANNOT STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM OR MISSING HIM WHEN I AM ASLEEP IN MY BED AT NIGHT I HAD THESE THOUGHTS OF HIM IN MY MIND FOR A COUPLE OF WEEKS I CANNOT GET THEM OUT OF MY HEAD WHAT WILL I DO TO MEND HIS BROKEN HEART DO YOU THINK I SHOULD TAKE HIM BACK PLEASE HELP ME MATTHEW I AM REALLY DESPRATE TO GET YOUR ADVICE HERE
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The video was helpful if you need advice on how to get over your ex (although not all of us can afford an exotic vacation, unfortunately), but it strikes me as a Get My Man Back ad. (No offense.)
Thank you so much for giving us the opportunity to write to you directly. I bought your book 101 reasons and also get your man back. To be honest though, the later one may suit more to my situation.
I had been w/ my ex on and off for about a year. He started pursuing me very intensely from last Apr, while at the same time there were lots of others chasing me as well. However, he was the one that was most intense and direct, and for this reason we got physically close very soon- maybe in a month- then he assumed that I was with him. At that time I felt that my heart was not settled yet, and I was still sort of looking.
My still hanging out with other guys (although I insisted to him that I wasn’t interested in them) and not wanting to be his gf officially frustrated him and also hurt him. He said he had never met any girl that ‘s do this to him before (of his past 7-8gf he only chased about 2).
We kept hanging out and being close and I finally decided to be with him officially in early July,2009. But then we ran into lots of problems. He had some emotion control issues so we had fight and break up and he’d come back to beg me back maybe 2 or 3 times ( or more). There has also been time that he suddenly felt he wasn’t ready yet because when he started pursuing me, he was just out of the last relationship for 2 months, and his ex still lived at his place during that time since she didn’t have a place to stay yet. Though very soon she moved to her friend’s place. He said he normally took at least a yr off before dating again, but he felt he couldn’t wait because I was too popular and he knew that many guys were interested so he felt he had to act fast.
We’d been on and off and sometimes it’s not clear whether it’s on or off, which also led to fights. There were times that I felt it was off, since we either said we’d broke up, or he said he needed to take a break, but then we got close again and started hanging out again. To me it was not official so I’d go out to friend’s party or go on trip with friends without asking him to join, and that hurts him too and led to fights.
Anyway the past month we had been steadier, and he’s also been improving on his emotion control issues. However, we got into fights again on May 9 and he tried to talk over stuff . On May 12 when talking over the phone we were both frustrated. And I felt that he was gonna say something to say we shouldn’t be together (which I had said during those several days, I said ” maybe we just don’t fit”), so when he blamed that I wasn’t considerate enough and wish I admit it, I said ” Just go find some other more considerate girls. I’m not the one for you and I’m tired of this”, then told him there’s no point of more talking since we never get any consensus, and we ended the call.
After that he called twice, I was too emotionally overwhelmed so decided not to pick up. He left a message and said that even though we were breaking up I didn’t have to say such words. And he said that he really enjoyed our time together and wishes me the best.
The next night he called after he took off from work. He told me that he had kept a coupon that I needed for me a week ago but hadn’t got any chance to give it to me over the past several days (either I was busy or we were fighting). He said he’d find sometime to give it to me or I can pick it up. The call last for only a minute.
Then we didn’t talk for a week. In the past when we broke up it’s usually bad and ugly and then he’d come back to me within several days and asked me to try again. But this time it was relatively calmer.
May 19 he called me to ask when would be the best time to give me the coupon because he’s gonna be out of town for work from May 21 for 2-3 weeks. He said I could also pick it up from his place ( I still have his house key with me). I told him I’d pick it up when he’s there and I went to get it last night.
When I saw him I kept the conversation really short and light. I thank him for his coupon and got it and said goodbye, I could feel that he didn’t want to say goodbye so soon but had nothing appropriate to say either. I was smiling all the time (I know he loved my smile) . I asked him whether he needs a ride to the airport he said it’s ok he’d take the bus.
I wish he’d rekindle the relationship and wants to be with me again. But I’m not sure if he’d do so. This time is a bit different. And I’m not sure what to do. I’m not desperate or anything and I’m not emotionally unstable. I only broke down once when I was reading Eat, Pray and Love for maybe 2 minutes after out break up and I feel fine. But I do miss him and wonder whether we’d work. I wish we have a chance to try again.
I’d really appreciate it if you’d give me some ideas. I am very looking forward to hearing your insights!
this is kinda crappy actually.. i remember’d how i got my ex back was hitting the hell out of his best friend till he could take it and beg me to come back to him.. well we got back together but i dump him a mth later for the girl that he dated before me.. 🙂
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