How To Make a Guy Uncomfortable On a First Date

August 10, 2010 by  
Filed under Dating Tips For Women

I don’t know why this story came to mind; perhaps because I get a lot of questions concerning a first date from my subscribers, but I thought I’d share this story and see what you guys think. Feel free to leave a comment down below.

When it comes to a first date, there are no strict rules to follow. Of course there are things you can do on a first date to ensure a second date, and I get more in depth on that in my book Find Your Future Husband, but in this article I wanted to address what you should not do on a first date, and in particular – you should avoid making your date uncomfortable.

Here is how a woman made this guy feel very super uncomfortable on their first date.

A cute guy was sitting at a bar next to me and my friend. He was jittery and for some reason he started a conversation with us (myself and my male friend). It turned out that the guy was waiting for his Internet date to show up. He told us he was nervous as it often is with first dates.

His date showed up. She was attractive in my opinion, but I could tell by the expression on the guy’s face she wasn’t what he had expected. And by the way, here is how to tell if the guy is attracted to you or not – is he smiling? What does his body language say? What do his eyes say? These are all signs you can’t miss if you know what to look for.

In any case, with this guy – he didn’t smile when he saw his date; in fact there was this expression of a surprise that quickly came on his face and went away. I could tell that he tried to not show his slight disappointment.

When his date showed up she approached to kiss him on a cheek as a friendly gesture. He leaned back and away from her as the first impulse but realized he shouldn’t have shown his slight disappointment.

Not only did his date fail to recognize his body language, she appeared rather pleased with the first impression he had made on her to the degree that she handed me her iPhone and asked me to take a picture of the two of them.

I could see the nervous jerking smile that came across his face. His date literally climbed onto his lap, embraced him with both arms and prepared to pose for the picture.

I took a snap shot and was ready to hand back her iPhone when she said, “take some more” and went onto posing and making all kinds of facial expressions – happy, smiley, sexy.

“You should upload them on your FaceBook” I said jokingly.

“That’s exactly what I am going to do” she said.

Sure enough, the next thing she did was upload those pictures on her FaceBook!

When she went to the bathroom the guy said “whew!” Other than that he was out of words.

So, my male friend cheered him up “well, at least you can tell for sure you are getting laid tonight”.

“Yeah” the guy said.

Ok, the moral of the story – hmmmm….. what do you think of this?

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2 Responses to “How To Make a Guy Uncomfortable On a First Date”
  1. tom says:

    The poor thing was just over enthusiastic. Maybe she has not had lots of dating experience.

  2. Relationship Back on Track says:

    Nicetotally agree with this. It is not very often you get a well thought out post on here so I am happy to see this, thanks

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