How to Make Him Realize He Loves You

September 11, 2011 by  
Filed under Finding Your Soulmate

If you are in love with a man who hasn’t said he loves you too, you may be wondering, does he realize that he is in love with you?

A man realizes he is in love with a woman when he:

– Can’t stop thinking about you day and night

– Thinks of you at any time even when you aren’t around

– Can’t wait to be with you

– Feels comfort and happiness every time he is with you, even if you are in different rooms of the house and are doing different things, for instance, you can be cooking in the kitchen and he is watching TV in the living room; the presence of the loved one under the same roof is all that matters

– Prefers to spend time with you rather than doing anything else

– Thinks that you can do no wrong

– Will defend you to his friends and family even if they are against you and don’t like you

– Will do anything for you, even gives his life for you if necessary

When a man starts doing all these things, he will realize he is in love with you.

In order for that to happen you need to make him feel on a deep subconscious level that he wants to do all these things for you.

Pressuring a man into doing these things for you will not work. If you try to force a man into thinking and doing these things for you, it will make him develop resentments against you.

The good news is though that you can make him fall in love with you without pressuring him, forcing him, or trying to convince him.

And it’s actually a lot easier, because when things unfold naturally, you don’t have to work too hard. When you let your relationship unfold on its terms, love will come naturally to him without being forced onto him.

On this page I teach you how to make him fall for you naturally and without pressure, so go ahead and read this page now!

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30 Responses to “How to Make Him Realize He Loves You”
  1. Monica says:

    I got most of these correct. One time my boyfriend had to defend me from some of his friends who said I wasn’t good enough for him. also, we spend most of our free time together, and he does lots of nice things for me. BTW, I’ve already bought & read your book on how to make your man fall in love and it’s great. It has really helped me with my boyfriend. Thank you

  2. tamy says:

    hi.i read before many books and all of them say they know the secret to get married,why i should belive your book is diffrent ,when i didnt get any results with all the other books?

    • elle says:

      hi Tamy,

      I’ve been subscribing to these articles for almost a year now and I have purchased a couple of books recommended here.

      I don’t know about your experience and what books you bought before, but my personal experience with these e-books has been good so far.

      When I first found this site I was looking for advice on what to do when you meet someone and you want to make sure you don’t screw up your relationship and don’t scare him away.

      These two books I bought have been very helpful and we are still together. We got engaged two months ago.

      I am still actively reading this blog and the emails I receive because I know that if I stop it will be easy for me to get off track and to start forgetting the advice I have learned on here.

      Maybe when we are married and live happinly ever after I will no need this advice anymore, but for now I want to make sure I keep it in check and re-read often, so I can remind myself how I was when no one seemed to be interested in me for more than a few dates.

      Right now I am very happy though. I just remember the sleepless nights I spent before I started learning good relationship skills.

      Learning doesn’t happen overnight. You just have to stick around and keep improving. And trust me, you will see the results if you keep working on it!

  3. nita says:

    My man asked me where are we heading. We work at the same place and he said it won’t work. It felt like someone threw ice on me. I collected myself and said the institution needs him more than the world needs another relationship and that its fine we can go our seperate ways. He then looked at me shocked. He was now holding and kissing me. When I wanted to leave he said I must go with him to fetch his daughter. He cooked lunch for me took me to his friends, showing off with me and we went for supper and dancing the evening. Next day told me how he missed me and is dreaming about me. I’m confused but keeping cool. When I asked him what he wanted he said everything. Regards nita

  4. XenaRoyalPrincess says:

    Hi Nita
    It’s clear that he wants to be with you cos of all the things he did when you told him about your decision. He doesn’t want to lose you and I think now that he knows where you stand in you relationship, he can’t imagine his life without you in it. I think it’s “Oh so Sweet”, just give him some time and I hope your love grows in leaps and bounds —- GoodLuck XenaRoyalPrincess

  5. XenaRoyalPrincess says:

    I wish at times that some of the advice I give to my friends can be applied to my life, but that’s what you call being biased…

    I met this guy through a friend — I will call him Immi, (he happens to be my friends brother, whom I will call him Zed) Zed and I are super close buddies, and cos’ of my relationship with him, we all have become quite close.
    Whenever I’m sad Immi just wants to make me happy and will do anything for me…he’s just soo sweet. Last Friday, he BBM’d me and told me how much he missed speakin to me but we BBM’d earlier on in the day, and I was like “but we did msg each other”…his reply was “But I still missed you”
    I think he likes me, and I like him too cos he’s just so sweet but I’m older by five years and I’m just not sure about that…
    Immi once asked about my age, and I joked and told him that I’m too old for him…he was like don’t be mean so I eventually told him and he was like that’s not old at all. So I think he’s Ok with that notion, just not sure about myself…
    Right now we’re just friends but I know he misses me…reading between the lines he made his cousin message me really late last night cos I didnt speak to him all weekend, he was flying home and it was one of those hectic weekends for me — I know it was to see if I was awake!! — I was awake but wasn’t sure if I should reply so I waited until this morning to send a response…

    this is like a long distance friendship and I have this feeling that he will want to meet, and thinking about it just makes me all giddy, cute and cared for…

    Feel free to comment, need some thoughts on this…

  6. Elliott Katz says:

    The number one complaint I hear woman have about today’s men is that they don’t show leadership or make decisions.
    I am the author of Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants, which is being translated into 21 languauges in Europe, Asia and Latin America. I would like to contribute to your blog. Please see article below. If you’d like a review copy of the book and the media kit to consider for an interview on your show, please reply with mailing address.
    Elliott Katz

    Frustrated with men who can’t make decisions?
    by Elliott Katz, author of Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants

    He’s sensitive and tries hard to please you, but when there’s a problem to be dealt with, he’s oblivious. When you ask for his input on a decision, he says, “It’s up to you.” He wants to be nice and doesn’t understand why he’s frustrating you.

    Today’s men have received so many confusing messages on what a man should be, they’re bewildered. To avoid accusations of being controlling, many men have gone to the other extreme and avoid showing leadership and making decisions. They think being sensitive and non-controlling is pleasing you and can’t understand why they are not pleasing you at all.

    The biggest complaint I hear from women is that men today don’t show leadership, they don’t make decisions and they won’t take responsibility. My book, Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants, which is being translated into 21 languages in Asia, Europe and Latin America, was the result of my own journey seeking insight on what it really means to be a man. I found wise advice in the lessons that fathers and other older male role models taught younger men on how to be a strong man who shows leadership and makes decsions.

    Aside from getting him to read the book, how can a woman encourage a man to start taking the lead? Here are three tips:

    Let him decide
    If he asks you to make a decision, simply say: “You decide.” Then don’t say anything else. Let him decide. Avoid criticizing him — it will discourage him.

    “Would you please handle it”
    Ask him to take charge of handling a problem but don’t tell him what to do. If he asks, say: “You decide. If you’re not sure, do research. That’s what I do.” Avoid contradicting him unless what he wants to do is damaging.

    Encourage him
    Tell him he made a good decision and how much you appreciate when he takes charge and handles a problem. If he made a mistake, tell him what you learned from it. Keep doing this and you will soon have the strong man you want.

    Elliott Katz is the author of Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants which is available from and bookstores. He has been interviewed on more than 130 radio and TV shows.

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  9. Mia says:

    i dont know what to do anymore theres a guy we have been seeing each other for almost 2 years but we have been off and on.i just give up sometimes because i ran after hom all the time,he doesnt ever express hes feelings to me,i think hes so how taking advantage of my feelings cos he knows how i feel about him im madly inlove wit him but im not sure if the feelings mutual.Hes mother adores me and i think most of hes family but him.We fight alot and we hardly see each other due to a situation,buti always make time to see and be with him.I really truely love this guy and i think thats my downfall and hes aware of how i feel…

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  29. May Oglesby says:

    My friend has a girlfriend but his body language clearly shows he’s been in love with me for 2 years. I am in love with him 2, but we’ve never discussed it and I know we feel it. However he finally told me he assumed I wanted him but that he’s committed to his girlfriend and doesn’t want me to pursue him. I said sure and that I didn’t mean to interfere but that I feel like he’s almost my brother. So that’s why I speak comfortable to him. But the truth is he pursued me strong. Sending me songs photos poems and all kinds of signs that made me fall for him. But I have a boyfriend and didn’t want to cheat so when he asked me 18 months ago to hookup I ignored him. 10 months ago he started ignoring me. But since he told me he chose her. He didn’t say he loved her. Only that she was his responsibility. I have not reached out to him. But to my surprise a couple of days later he came to me in private. But he made small talk. But I know he went out of his way to see me. I wanted to touch his face and kiss him but I refrained. Did I do the right thing. What did he want from me when he came to me. What do I do if i notice he went out of his way to find me again?

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