How To Tell a Guy Is Serious About You | 3 Signs He Is Serious About Your Relationship
Ever wonder if a guy is serious about you or is just killing time with you? Not knowing how to determine if a man is serious about you and what your relationship means to him can bring much confusion into your life. Not only that, you don’t want to waste time with a guy who is only out to have a good time, but you don’t want to confront him and he doesn’t tell you straight up. Fortunately there are sure-fire signs to tell if he is serious about you or is wasting your time. Read this article to find out what they are!
Sign # 1 – He tells you he wants a future with you
When a man is serious about you he will tell you that he sees you as a future partner, and not just a passing dating interest. He will tell you things like “I want to have a family with you someday”, or “I want to take this relationship to the next level”.
When he tells you these things you should never assume that these words mean the same to you as they mean to him. You should always clarify if there is something ambiguous and not exactly clear. Don’t make up words for blanks in his sentences. This is because a man can often say these things in relation to himself and whomever else will come along down the line, and not in relation to you at all. This is where a lot of women get confused.
So, let me clarify; If a man says “I want to have a family and children someday” and is looking at you at the same time, this should not be misinterpreted as if he was nearly proposing to you. This really only means that he is thinking out loud and that he is thinking about HIMSELF while he says that. If, on the other hand, he says to YOU: “I want to have a family and children with YOU one day” this means that he is thinking of you and he as a couple with a future potential.
Sign # 2 – Your guy does not keep secrets from you
He wants you to know his whereabouts. If he doesn’t call you a day or two he will text you or email you to let you know what’s going on so that you wouldn’t worry about why he is not calling. When a man is serious about you and treats you as his girlfriend, usually a day won’t go by without him calling you.
When he goes away on business trips he lets you know in advance and will call you when he is away. If he is spending an evening playing poker with his friends he will also make it known to you in advance. He assumes that unless both of you have serious prior commitments you spend most of your free time together; and when he is doing things he likes to do he always extends an invitation to you, so that you have an open invitation to wherever he is going.
He wants to introduce you to his life and the things that he likes hoping that one day you will be together and you will be well adjusted to his life style and his interests.
Sign # 3 – Your guy has made it clear to the world that you are his girlfriend
He introduces you to his friends, his neighbors, his family, his co-workers, etc. as his girlfriend. He wants everyone to know it’s official and he claims you in public. He does that to ensure that no one will encroach on his territory so he lets everyone know freely that you are his.
If you have found that these three signs describe your relationship – congratulations! You are on the right track!
If, on the other hand you are falling short of these signs, perhaps you need a little re-adjustment. Read This Page to learn what it takes for a man to commit to your relationship and to take it to the next level of commitment.