How To Tell If He Is My Soulmate 5 Sure-Fire Signs He Is Your Soul Mate

September 26, 2010 by  
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Are you wondering how to tell if a guy is your soul mate? Fortunately there are sure-fire signs you can check for to tell if he really is your soul mate.

Let’s first look at a definition of a soul mate.

Wikipedia defines soul mate as “A soulmate or soul mate is a person with whom one has a feeling of deep and natural affinity, love, intimacy, sexuality, spirituality, and/or compatibility. A related concept is that of the twin flame or twin soul – which is thought to be the ultimate soulmate, the one and only other half of one’s soul, for which all souls are driven to find and join.[citation needed] However, not everyone who uses these terms intends them to carry such mystical connotations.”

Ideally, we all want to find out soul mate. From the spiritual perspective we define our soul mate as a person who completes us, makes us whole, our other half in other words.

So, how can you tell early on if the man you’ve met or are dating right now, or the man who is your boyfriend is your true one soul mate?

According to Wikipedia again, the person you feel deep and natural affinity and love could be defined as your soul mate. If you truly want to know whether he is your soul mate on a spiritual level, ask yourself, Do I feel deeply in love with this person?

The second question you should ask yourself, Do we have deep intimacy? What intimacy comes down to is the ability to communicate with the other person on a deep level. If you simply chit-chat about nothing, this is not the type of communication that soulmates have. Soulmates communicate on a level deeper than that they communicate with most people.

The ability to share secrets is the trait that separates our soul mates from all others.

The third question you want to ask yourself when determining whether the guy is your soul mate is, when we are sexually intimate, does it feel like making love or does it feel like having sex?

When you are your true soul mate are sexually intimate it is different for both of you than it was with all the previous partners. It truly feels that sexual closeness is more than just sex – it is a bonding experience that brings you closer together on all levels, and is an emotional experience rather than physical.

Question number four concerns spirituality. You may or may not be a spiritual or deeply religious person, but both you and your soul mate will have similar spiritual beliefs, or no spiritual beliefs at all which is ok too as long as you are not completely two different people when it comes to spirituality and religious beliefs.

The final question you want to ask yourself is, are we compatible? Long term compatibility is an integral component of a relationship. Sure you may be physically attracted to each other and have great fun in bed, but if you argue all the time it will get old fast. Frequent arguments are not healthy in a relationship and may be an indication of bigger problems and significant differences.

If you feel that you have answered all five questions truthfully and it looks like your answers show that the guy in question may very well be your soul mate, it is critical that he sees you as his soul mate as well.

Sometimes, we get blindsided and don’t see the good thing when it’s in front of us. So, how can you show him that you are his soul mate?

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5 Responses to “How To Tell If He Is My Soulmate 5 Sure-Fire Signs He Is Your Soul Mate”
  1. t says:

    I agree completely, its no wonder people just dont get it. In this day and age its imperative.

    • Luckyjoyce says:

      I guess it depends on what you class as a soul mate. The idea that there is just one pesron on the planet who you are destined to be with, and once you found them you will be forever in love, sounds a bit crazy to me.The is 6,000,000,000 other people on the planet and you will be more compatable with some than others, so logically speaking there will be a handful of them that would be perfect matches. If that is what a soul mate is then, sure I believe in soul mates. Aren’t I just Mr Romantic?

  2. belinda says:

    How can you tell this guy that he is your soul mate without spooking him out.

    • Shaffiq says:

      Oh, quite the opposite, Felicia.Maybe I wasn’t clear. It’s not about preiectfon in another person. It’s about tuning (or retuning) your internal radar to be on the lookout for people more in your ballpark than leaving it all to dumb luck, chance and the potential fallout in discovering the next random person isn’t right for you.The process is also very open to modification I know I added, deducted and modified when traits didn’t make sense or I realised they were unimportant. We’re certainly not constructing a person from preferred DNA here. Fear not, you’ll definitely get an imperfect human being just one that’s better suited, with a better than average chance of making you both happy.TheGeek recently posted..

  3. Juan says:

    lol i’ve read all about it. i just think its such a trip when people idalmimteey forget what its all about and get sucked into what they win. maybe that’s just me though. i think i’m livin in the wrong world. and it wasn’t me who won you. i bid on my pal px as a kindness to him and to battered women everywhere which he lives clear across the world from me in which you live actually closer. but i didnt do it for him to take me out (my boyfriend would shit a brick) i did it because i know what it feels like to be hit by a man. boy i’ll tell ya, if it wasn’t for organizations like this, i’d still have bruises.

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