How To Win His Love Back

March 1, 2010 by  
Filed under Get Him Back

If you are serious about answering the question how to win his love back, you need to understand the various reasons why we fall out of love with our partners. More importantly you need to know the techniques you can employ to get your groove back. It is never too late to try to rediscover the passion and love you felt for your ex partner. You need to also learn how to communicate properly.

When you are trying to sort out a problem you should always use sentences starting with ‘I’ rather than you. For instance, “I feel hurt when you come home late from work” is a lot better than “you are always late home from work”.

The first is explaining how you feel and should lead to a discussion about whether the working late can be fixed and if not, how you can work around it.

But the second your voice sounds like an attack and if you deliver it just as the person walks through the door after a long day, it is easy to see how it can escalate into an argument.

Often we say things in the heat of the moment that either aren’t true or are an exaggeration of how we are really feeling. An example would be when you are fed up with your partner but you tell him you hate him. You don’t really hate him as a person but perhaps his behavior is a problem.

When you are in the middle of a relationship that isn’t working as well as it could, it is very easy to get caught up in a cycle of blame. You hold the other person responsible for everything that is going wrong. This isn’t fair nor is it likely to be true.

All too often, it is both parties that are causing the problems. Unfortunately one or other of you will have to be brave enough to take a stand and try and sort it out. Leaving it to fester will lead to the end of your partnership and often this is exactly what happens.

When you have already split up and are trying to win your lover back, you need to go back over the last few months or even year of your relationship and see what went wrong. Ask your ex to meet up with you and be honest about your reasons.

Don’t expect him to read your mind and know that you want to rekindle the love affair. Also don’t expect miracles either. You didn’t break up overnight so you are unlikely to be able to fix all your problems overnight either.

But given the right attitude and some good luck and great advice, you should soon know how to win love back and be happy again. What have you got to lose? A little bit of pride is a small price to pay to get your lover back now isn’t it?


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One Response to “How To Win His Love Back”
  1. Relationship Back on Track says:

    Greattotally agree with you. It is not very often you get a well thought out post on the net so I am happy to see this, thanks

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