Is He Ready To Commit?
If you’ve been with a man for some time but he doesn’t seem to want to move the relationship to the next level of commitment, let alone pop the question, you may start experiencing all kind of anxiety and even fears.
You’ve probably been there before with a guy or two, if not more, and you know from first-hand experience how frustrating it could be to waste months, even years on a relationship that’s never going to go anywhere. At least, not to the place you want it to go.
If you are experiencing anxiety from not knowing if your guy is seeing you as the one for him, the one he wants to marry some day, you are not alone. Women across the globe get frustrated with men seemingly not wanting to settle down and commit to a serious relationship.
At this point, you will start to wonder, is he ever going to commit? Is he serious about me or is he just using me?
Am I the one for him, or am I one of many?
These are all legitimate questions, and it’s fair for you to know the answers to them so you can make an informative decision as to how you want to proceed, whether you will stick around and wait until he is ready to commit or move on and find somebody else.
Before you take the plunge to do something completely irrational, let me tell you one little secret about men and commitment. But first, I want to tell you a brief story and see if you can recall a story from your own experience that you can relate to.
When I was 10 years old, I was terrified of diving into a pool. You could have told me that if I got up on that diving board and successfully dove in that I would get my very own pony and I still wouldn’t have done it. My swim teacher pleaded, my brother threatened to throw me in, I was told over and over how much fun it was, but I refused to budge.
That all changed the following year and for the life of me I can’t tell you why I was suddenly ready. It’s like I woke up one day and knew that I wouldn’t be happy until I tried to dive all on my own. I just hauled myself up there and dove head first in short order. After that first day, you couldn’t keep me off the board. I was a diving diva.
Can you remember a time when you just felt you weren’t ready for something and no amount of convincing or threatening, or even bribing made you change your mind? But then you were suddenly ready and off you went on your new journey to something totally new and exciting.
Can you remember how happy you were when you finally crossed that threshold of fear and un-readiness, and how much you enjoyed your newfound experience?
This is how men are too when it comes to commitment and marriage. One minute they are not ready, and then suddenly they are all into that as if they never resisted it in the first place.
You may have seen it happen. You may have even experienced being a relationship with a guy who you thought was a confirmed bachelor only to walk away and to witness him get married six months later to someone he’d just met.
If you wonder why this happens, you are in for a shocking discovery!
It may be incredibly trite but it is almost a universally accepted fact that men are afraid of commitment. But something that is not usually talked about is that if your particular man is at the stage in his life where he is not comfortable with where he is at in his life, he is not comfortable making commitment to anyone, and no amount of begging, threats, or ultimatums will make him change his mind… unless… YOU CAN HELP HIM BECOME READY to COMMIT TO YOU if you know how to do it right!
What you can do, as a woman who is determined to help him overcome his resistance to commit, is to encourage him and support him in his aspirations which make him ready to commit.
So before you start in with discussing the C word, make sure that take the right steps to prepare your guy to making a commitment to you.
When your guy is ready, he will commit to you without you saying a word!
In my Guide to Commitment I am going to show you exactly how to help your man ready to commit to you and only you!
When you know step by step exactly what to do and say to make your man ready to commit, you won’t have to ask him, because you will enjoy the certainty from knowing that your man is truly committed and devoted to you!
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