Should I Get Back Together With My Ex
If you are thinking about when to get back together with somebody you have broken up with and wondering if you should get back together with your ex, then this article is for you.
There is a reason why someone should get back together with their ex, and that is if you think your relationship can end up working out in the end. Have you ever seen those couples who are always on and off, back together and break up time and time again, and then keep getting back together and breaking up, and getting back together, and the emotional roller coaster goes on and on? It is very draining and exhausting, and it’s very painful, but it leads to nothing productive. That is not a healthy relationship. With that said, I would suggest that unless something changes when the two of you are actually able to work on your issues together, go on and work on yourself separately first in order to get back together.
But if both of you are fairly emotionally whole and healthy individuals, then a healthy relationship is possible. A healthy relationship means that two people themselves welcome themselves as individuals and then together as a couple and if both parties are able to do that then great! In order to have a healthy loving long-term intimate relationship it needs to feel safe and secure.
Jealousy and insecurity which leads to jealousy is never found in a healthy relationship, so if you continue to feel jealous or if your partner feels jealous, one of you needs to work on their issues and insecurities. Unless something is changed, getting together will lead to yet another breakup, so work on whatever issues lead to your breakup in the first place.
Perhaps you are not recognizing or ignoring the signs that lead to your breakup. Examine the reasons that lead to your breakup carefully, and see if you need to take responsibility somewhere.
When you are ready to make the first step to getting back together, Read How to Get Back Your Ex >>>