Signs He Is Afraid To Fall For You – He Pulls Away After Getting Close
If you really want to understand men and their actions you are not alone! Truth is, men aren’t that complicated, but the problem is that women and men operate differently. Unfortunately, most women don’t understand men, and thus men’s behavior in relationships can be hard to decode for single women. But don’t worry, because this article will solve much of your confusion about men, so read on to find out the secrets about men most women will never know, and be sure to visit more articles on this site you will find links to on the bottom of this page!
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One of the most frequently asked questions women have in regards with men when it comes to dating and relationships is why do men pull away after getting close? This article will help you understand why men do that and how to overcome men’s fear of intimacy.
If you have been dating a man who often seems to pull away after the most intimate moments, you need to understand that men just like women want to be known and understood in depth. However men often resist full self-disclosure due to their fear of loss.
Fear of loss is a real driving force that makes men back off, cut down contact and sometimes even seize contact until they feel they are back in their comfort zone again. For a single man who is caught unexpectedly falling in love with a woman, his developing feelings are foreign and unusual. When a man is falling in love he will often feel as if he is losing control of his emotions. A loss of control may appear a threat to a man’s self-sufficiency. He starts to feel lonely when you are not around. He starts missing you when you aren’t with him. Naturally a man isn’t used to these new feelings, thus it is natural for him to want to go back into his comfort zone in which he feels in control of his emotions.
Men want to be the strong silent type. They aren’t in touch with their emotional world as much as women are, and deep emotional intimacy often scares them. This fear of intimacy can be a real problem because it does not allow a relationship and true intimacy to develop.
When men pull away and try to distance themselves from the women they have strong feelings for, they do so because they want to avoid their potential future pain and a breakup by not allowing themselves to get deeply emotionally involved. They may start asking themselves, What if my beloved one walks away? How can I possibly survive this loss? The loss won’t be so great and won’t hurt nearly as much if I don’t care so much.
Unless you make your man comfortable to open up for you and to trust his feelings, you may be facing a real obstacle in making him surrender to his developing feelings. Discover how to make a man open up to you – Read This Page!Share on Facebook