Strange Reasons Why Sometimes That Perfect Man Won’t Date You

November 1, 2010 by  
Filed under Dating Tips For Women

Sometimes we meet what appears to be the perfect man but for some reason he just won’t ask you out, won’t call you back after a first date, and won’t date you, period. But the thing is you are so sure he is attracted to you; you had a good time together on a first date but he isn’t calling you to ask you out again. Or you may have asked him if he would join you at a sporting event but he declined your invitation saying that he has something else going on that day. What’s wrong?

You know he is perfect and you just want him to ask you out, to date you and to ultimately have a relationship with you, but he isn’t making the first move, and when you do he seems reluctant.

The thing that really gets to you is that you just know that he likes you; you can just feel it. You could feel that spark between the two of you, and you knew he’d ask you out again, so why didn’t he?

He isn’t taken; you know that for sure.

He is looking for the same things you are looking for in a relationship. You seemed to have hit it off, and you know he is into you. You can just tell by his body language, his expressions, and by the way he looked at you that he is into you.

Sometimes a man just doesn’t seem to see what he is missing out on. He may be so caught up in his work, responsibilities and chores that he doesn’t see the good thing right in front of him, and if you are sure that he is the man for you, potentially your soul mate it is your responsibility to show him and to encourage him to make the move.

As a woman you don’t want to make the first move. The key here is to encourage the man to make the first move thinking that it was his idea!

This is the key – you should always make a man think that asking you out on a date, asking you to be his girlfriend, and asking you to be his wife should always be his idea.

This doesn’t mean that you should passively wait. There is a saying, the man is the head, the woman is the neck; the head will turn whichever way the neck wants to.

I should add, a wise woman is that switch that turns a man in any direction she wants to.

But how do you make a man want to make that move? You can’t just come out and say it – you have to show him. In other words you have to implant the idea into his head so that it will become HIS idea.

When that happens, a man will feel like a winner when he asks you out and you say YES. He will, in his mind, think that he has earned you, not that he gave up to your reasoning.

I am sure you’ve heard that men value what they have to work for. So if you make the first move he may give in but he will never value you.

But that doesn’t mean that the man always has his choice. In fact, it is the woman who chooses, and the man is the chosen. If you only allow men who chose you, you are selling yourself short. You should have the right to chose who is the man for you.

Women who are successful in love always chose the best man for themselves.

If you want to stop settling for men who are short of your expectations and get the man you want, you must learn how to encourage the man of your choice to make the first move.

Once you learn how to do so, you will get any man you want.

The wrong thing is to assume that you should use words in order to attract a man and make him ask you out.

The true art is to implant the idea into his mind so that he will do whatever you want him to do without you saying a word.

I will teach you how you can become the woman who speaks to a man’s heart and mind without words.

Learn how to be that kind of a woman – go to == > Become Irresistible!

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