If you are struggling with making your man marry you, you are not alone. Many women express concerns about men and commitment and for a great number of women men are beyond understanding. This article explains some very critical things a woman must learn to understand why some women can make men marry them without much effort, while others struggle with making a man commit.
When you want to make a man marry you it is your natural desire. And yet, when you concentrate your effort on making him marry you or make some sort of formal commitment to you, you are unwittingly killing the romance. The more you struggle with making him commit and marry you, the more mundane your relationship becomes. There is no spark, no romance. To a man it feels like he is being pressured into commitment.
If you really want him to marry you, you must relax and let the relationship unfold naturally.
Men want to feel that they are the ones who are making the decision to marry you. They can’t stand being pressured, coerced, or convinced. If a man marries you because he has finally given up to your begging and pleading, convincing and coercing, this marriage won’t last.
Another thing to understand about men and marriage is that not all men are made for it. Some men prefer to stay unmarried forever. This is where you need to identify whether your man is the marrying type.
But the most important thing you must realize is that there are two kinds of women; one kind is the kind of women men marry, and the other kind is the women who seem to stay single forever. It’s not about the looks or money, but the women who seem to make men desperately fall in love possess certain personality traits that turn men into hopeless romantics and motivated warriors.