Why Men Dump Women

Do you know a sure-fire way to get dumped by a guy?

There is one certain way to drive your man further away – a woman who will never shut up!

Sure, we all love the attention…

We want to feel heard…

We love to talk about our feelings… and relationships….

And if you talk endlessly about your relationship, he will be certain to leave you very soon….

In fact, this is one of the biggest complains I hear from men ….

‘She just never shuts up…. she wants to talk about our relationship all the time…. that’s all she talks about…. ‘

And if you bring up the subject of where this relationship is going, want to ‘work’ on the relationship, or want to discuss your relationship in the hopes to make it better….’ this will magnify tenfold…. and as far as men can see, this is ALL you talk about ALL THE TIME….

And it may not feel like it to you, but he will think that all of your conversations end up turning onto the path of discussing your relationship!

Men don’t want to ‘work’ on the relationship…

They want to feel like the relationship is unfolding naturally, without pressure and ‘talking’, or ‘working’ on the relationship. If it feels like work, he will not get HIS needs met in this relationship.

He already has a job…. and he doesn’t need to feel like he has to work at home!

He wants to feel your femininity. He wants to feel comfort and safety at home.

If you become emotionally unstable around your man… if you are happy one day and upset with him the next… he will be sure to leave the relationship in which he feels like he has to walk on eggshells…

A man will NEVER commit to a woman with whom he constantly feels PRESSURE… and if you are making him walk on egg shells, ask yourself, have I noticed that he became withdrawn? And if the answer is YES… even if you are in denial… the TRUTH is that he may be on his way out!

If you go through emotional mood swings every time he is around you, he will be sure to NEVER commit to you.

And when I talk to men who are happily married, they all tell me that their current wifes had never brought up the subject of ‘where this relationship is going’….

It came naturally… and he must be the one to decide that he wants to marry you… even if you have decided that a long time ago!

As long as you understand the process of commitment, and how it grows and becomes a REAL commitment….

… and if you have already read my Guide To Commitment, you already know the biggest complaint that men have about women…. what kind of a woman men want to commit to, and how to trigger the hidden psychological triggers to make him WANT commitment naturally, without pressure and ultimatums, and how to get him lifetime commitment by simply understanding how the path to commitment works!

As long as your relationship is developing toward spending more time together, making plans and keeping them, establishing a solid foundation to lasting love and connection…. you are right on the path to commitment.

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How Early Age Development Could Cripple His Ability To Commit

Attempting to define the period of middle age is similar to attempting to place a specific time table on a period of history.

There are many opinions, and many disagree on when it begins or ends. Some theorists believe that lower-class people experience mid-life event at an earlier age than do middle-class people; thus, it may be wise not to tie the stages of adult development to a specific timetable (Farrell and Rosenberg, 1981).

Parental considerations are a must when dealing with the single, middle aged male. If the parents are more dependent and have aged poorly, or if they are in need of physical attention, the male may begin to see himself as becoming middle aged. This may be particularly true of the single male because of focal issues.

A single man may tend to have a greater focus of attention on his parents than a married man with children; however, a man with children may enter mid-life awareness as a result of an occurrence related to his family of choice (wife or children). As earlier noted, these transitions may occur as a result of life-cycle change or as a result of crisis.