The Words Men Say to You When They Want an Official Relationship with You
If you are like most single women, you may be thinking that men are not interested in a relationship, are just interested in a fling, just try to bed as many women as possible into bed and disappear right after they achieve this goal or stick around only for a casual relationship that leads nowhere, you are mistaking.
The reality is that men, just like women, want to find The One. Moreover, it is just as difficult for a man to find the woman who he feels on a deep emotional and psychological level could be the one as it is for women.
Often men will settle for a woman who isn’t exactly what they want, while simultaneously looking for The Right One.
It is unfortunate, but men do that in order to protect themselves from the loneliness we all as human beings experience when we don’t have a life partner.
It is unfair to us, women to be somebody’s time filler, but unfortunately it happens more often than you think.
This is one of the reasons men stop calling you after dating for weeks and even months. Sometimes a man you used to date will give you an explanation and let you know that he just doesn’t feel the level of chemistry required in order to continue the relationship or take it to the next level. Sometimes he’ll find another woman first and then tell you he is getting serious with someone else and no longer wishes to continue seeing you.
But often a man will just drop the ball and stop calling you hoping that his silence will let you know he is no longer interested in continuing a relationship with you.
So, how do you know if the guy is interested in a serious relationship with you or is just killing time?
Fortunately, there are ways to know early on in a relationship what he really wants from you.
The key to knowing where your relationship is headed to is in establishing the foundation of trust where your man is not afraid to be open and honest with you about how he really feels about you and your relationship with him.
Read this page to learn how to get a man to tell you the truth on this very sensitive subject.
Once you know how to make a man open up, he will want to be honest with you about his feelings.
And when a man truly wants a serious relationship with you, here are the words he will use when talking to you about the future of your relationship:
Future – your man will use this word as much as possible when talking about your relationship. He may ask you what you think and envision about the future of your relationship. He may ask you how you want your future to be, and will try to fit himself into the picture of your future.
Either way, you will know he is talking about spending time with you in the future.
Relationship – he will use this word often when referring to the two of you. If he uses the word relationship when describing what you have, you know he is serious about it. If he avoids this word like plague, you may consider this as a warning sign that your relationship isn’t as serious to him as you think it is.
Forever – some men will use this word when telling you they want a serious relationship. In a man’s vocabulary it means he is looking for a long term, life lasting commitment with you, whether it’d be moving in together or getting married.
If your man isn’t using these words when talking about your relationship, look for other signs that may indicate how serious he is about you. It could just mean that your relationship is pretty new. Most men, however, know very soon if they see a serious relationship potential with a woman or not. And they definitely know even sooner if they don’t.
All you have to do in order to know the truth is to get your man to open up and talk honestly about what he feels about the future of your relationship.
You can learn more on how to get a man to talk about your future, how to make a man open up, and how to communicate with your man in a way that opens the door to a loving and committed relationship, on this page!