Three Types Of Commitment a Man Can Give You Which One Are You Getting?
If you’ve ever wondered why a man is exclusive with you but won’t commit, read this article!
If you want to know why a man is your boyfriend but doesn’t want to marry you, read this article!
What you probably don’t realize is that men are capable of giving you different types of commitment. Each type of commitment provides certain benefits, and each has its own characteristics.
Truth is you and your boyfriend can have a totally different idea of a committed relationship. And if you don’t understand why a man who says he loves you doesn’t ask your hand in marriage, or why a man whom you are dating exclusively isn’t sure he wants a future with you, it’s critical that you read this article in its entirety because it will be the most eye-opening information you’ll ever read about men and commitment.
Let’s go ahead and get started with the first type of commitment – the least committed relationship out of them all.
This type of commitment is merely exclusivity. This means sexual exclusivity. This means that a man is not sleeping with anyone else, and you are the one he officially has intimate relationship with.
In this type of relationship you have both agreed that neither is having sex with others. A man can remain in this type of arrangement for years, and not want anything more serious. The reason a man will remain in this relationship is because he is getting his needs met without giving much back, and because this stability provides for continuing stream of sex without the need to go out, approach women, try to meet new women, take them out on dates blindsided from not knowing if any of them will eventually put out, etc.
If you are stuck in this kind of relationship hoping that it will change, you must understand that unfortunately unless you change your approach to a relationship with a man you won’t be able to change the situation. The reason he is not moving the relationship to the next level is because you are not showing him what he needs to feel on a deep subconscious level.
If you want to know what those things are I invite you to read How to Make a Man Commit.
The second type of commitment is a temporary commitment. What this means is that a man is your boyfriend – sexually and officially. In this type of relationship he will officially acknowledge you as his girlfriend. You could be spending weekends together and attending parties together. You could go away for a weekend or spend a vacation together. But he won’t marry you.
Again, in this type of commitment a man is comfortable with the companionship and the intimacy that this relationship provides him with. However he is not sure he wants to spend the rest of his life with you.
The third type of commitment is the forever commitment. This is when a man says till death do us part. This is when a man knows that the woman he is with is the life partner.
When a man meets this woman he knows without a shadow of the doubt that he wants to be with this woman forever.
if your man is officially your boyfriend but he doesn’t ask your hand in marriage this is because he isn’t feeling the death-do-us-part emotion toward you. And this is not because he doesn’t love you, or because he is looking for something better. While he isn’t looking, it could happen that once the woman who triggers that feeling crosses his path, he may just decide she is the one for him in the death-do-us-part sense.
If you want to learn what it takes for a man to commit to one woman, what one quality a woman must have in order for a man to see her as his soul mate, read How to Make Him Commit!