Tips For Deciding If You Click With Your Date

October 16, 2010 by  
Filed under Dating Tips For Women

There is a sad reality that is happening in our society today. We go on a date with someone. We think that things are going great. We have had a wonderful time. After the date is over, we never hear from the other person again. We are left with feelings of inadequacy, confusion, and frustration. We do not know why things did not work out or what the reasoning is, so this makes the situation even worse. We blame ourselves and wonder what we are doing wrong.

You can find out on a first date how things are going and if there is a future for the relationship. There are specific signs that you should watch for. If you are able to spot these signs on a first date you will know what the future is going to bring.

You should pay attention to the body language of your date. See how they are reacting to you during conversations. This includes things such as eye contact. If a person is interested in you, they will look into your eyes while you are talking. Eyes are the key to a person’s soul. If you watch the eyes, you will soon find out what the person is thinking and how they are feeling about things.

Mimicking your gestures is another part of body language that is very important. It will be done out of habit. It is not a conscious reaction, but occurs when you are doing something that your date finds attractive. The more your date is copying your actions and motions, the more interested they are in you.

If a person is mimicking your actions or leaning towards you during a conversation, these are signs that the date is going well and is a success. Head nodding or tilting while you are speaking are other signs to pay attention to. These signs mean that a person is interested in the conversation and what you are saying. If a person crosses their arms while you are talking, this is a negative sign and a warning flag. They are showing signs of resistance or anger towards you and the way that the date is going.

There are many differences between genuine flirting and faking a date. Knowing the difference between these can help you to know the future of the relationship and where things are headed. If the person is smiling, has eye contact for long periods of time, and can be seen biting or licking their lips while touching you, it is a good sign that they are into you.

People that spend time touching or fixing their clothes or hair shows that they are focused on their appearance. Oftentimes women will cross and then uncross their legs. Men will throw their shoulders back as a sign of flirting.

The ending of the date is also very important. You need to focus on how the other person acts when they are leaving you after the date. If a person walks you to the door instead of dropping you off at the curb, this is a very good sign. This is a sign of respect and is also a way of the other person showing you that they want to spend time with you and want to see you again. They are showing that they care about your security and your safety. This is shown through their willingness to walk you to the door and make sure that you get there safely.

Let’s face it guys and gals making sure you click with your date, can mean the difference between having a meaningful relationship are getting the “bums rush.”


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