What Makes a Man Lose Interest In a Woman

October 1, 2010 by  
Filed under Commitment

Have you ever wondered what makes a man lose interest in a woman?

If so, read on, because I am about to draw the curtains to the truth about why men who pursue you in the beginning seem to lose interest very quickly and go from being excited about seeing you, calling you, and talking to you to unsure about your relationship and what he wants with you.

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The truth is that in order for a man to pursue a woman he only needs one thing – the initial physical attraction. And if you are like most women, you can rarely feel this attraction toward a man. Like most women, you meet many guys but it’s always The One you are interested in the most who can strike that intense level of attraction, and incredible chemistry and passion.

You may meet a lot of great guys, but when chemistry isn’t there, it just won’t work, and you know it.

But then how come when you are lucky to meet the one who actually triggers this intense level of chemistry and attraction he doesn’t seem to want a serious relationship with you?

And how come even when he seems so interested in the beginning his interest melts away like yesterday’s snow after a few initial dates?

The reason being is that if you want to keep a man interested, you must trigger not only the physical attraction in a man, but also to build a deeper level of attraction and deep emotional connection with a man. Read more about this interesting phenomenon on this page == > Click Here To Read!

For most single women this seems to be one of the most difficult things to understand about men. And the reason is that as a woman you can’t experience physical attraction to most men.

We are biologically pre-programmed to seek one partner with whom we want to mate and start a family. Thus, the nature created us to be very selective when it comes to choosing a partner.

As a woman, you know that you are looking for one partner. This is because biologically a woman can only get pregnant by one male at a time.

This phenomenon is rooted in our bio-programming which ensures the survival of species.

So, when you feel chemistry with a man, this is how the nature is telling you that he is The One.

On the other hand, a man’s biological and survival role is in impregnating as many women as possible. Thus, a man feels basic physical chemistry toward any woman.

If you’ve ever people-watched at a bar or a club, you’ve noticed that a man will go from one woman to the next, and the next until one is open to his advances and lets him talk to her.

Ultimately what this means is that he doesn’t care that much which woman will talk to him. This is because as long as there are many attractive women he is attracted to them all.

So, when one allows him to talk to her and ask her out on a date, this does not mean that he wants a relationship with her.

This merely means that he is lucky enough to get a date in the hopes that he will become intimate with her sooner rather than later. That’s it! So when you assume that he is your boyfriend just because you have been seeing each other for a while you push him away from you! You start acting based on your expectations which he never expressed to you, but you’ve assumed!

And when you start acting on your emotions because you feel hurt, he doesn’t understand why you all of a sudden have turned from fun and sweet into a nervous wreck. Now it’s no longer fun for him, and your emotional outbursts make him lose interest!

So, when you erroneously think that he has asked you out because he thinks you are special and wants a relationship with you, you are shooting yourself in the foot.

For a man to want a relationship with a woman he has to feel more than pure physical chemistry toward her. And this is when a man who was initially looking to perform his biological ‘duties’ of spreading his genes will look at you and say WOW! What’s going on here? I feel differently around her and I can’t put a finger on it!

And this is when he subconsciously comes to the point where he wants to not only spread his genes and move on to the next one, but to actually settle down with one woman because she just makes him feel such an intense level of emotional attraction and deep emotional connection that he will drop his defenses and want to pronounce her his wife!

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6 Responses to “What Makes a Man Lose Interest In a Woman”
  1. nick says:

    At me a similar situation. It is possible to discuss.

  2. alest says:

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    • Takuro says:

      My father was the potser boy for unavailable men. He totally ignored us kids as we were growing up, that is when he wasn’t telling us that we totally annoyed him and he couldn’t wait till we were all over 18 so he could leave. I know that I keep heading for these guys so I can fix this, but it’s never worked. I’ve been with guys who are able to commit, but I didn’t have the drama and chaos that THEY needed in the relationship, so those didn’t work out, either. I think that the likelihood of me finding a guy who is not a commitmentphobe and the guy who does not need to create and fix chaos in a relationship is very very slim. Especially considering the fact that I’m now past 60! However, I’m not giving up. I have a full life and am generally happy not lonely due to close family including wonderful grandchildren. I’d like to add a good man to the mix, but not sure that’s ever going to happen.

  5. Celine says:

    interesting and informative post thanks a lot for posting it

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