What To Do When The Man You Love Breaks Your Heart

March 17, 2016 by  
Filed under Get Him Back

I have been where you are standing at this very moment; broken, confused, and scared. You don’t know where to go or even how you got here. Well, I am here to promise you that it won’t be this way forever. Your wounds will heal and you’ll start to see the light in the world again. It may not seem like it now, but take it from someone who has had her heart shattered.

No matter how rough the break up was or the circumstances surrounding it, they all hurt. Every time that someone tells you that you are not their “one” it feels like someone has stabbed you in the chest. Even if you act as if everything is fine, somewhere inside of you you are hurting and that’s okay. What’s not okay is to let yourself be consumed by it.

You can’t dwell on the things that have hurt you, nothing good will come from it. Instead you have to dust yourself off and remind yourself that you’re going to be okay. You were fine before him and you will be just fine after him. So call up your girlfriends, grab your dancing shoes, or grab a bottle of wine. It doesn’t matter what you’re doing as long as you are getting out there.

Although I know it is tempting, but sitting on the couch all night with Ben & Jerry’s will not get you a date anytime soon. It is okay to be sad and hurt as long as you understand that the world doesn’t stop spinning just because you feel this way. Everyone else around you is still putting actual pants on in the morning and you should be too.

So now what do you do? You start the healing process whatever yours might be. Dress up and go out on the town with your girlfriends. The glances and flirtatious acts might be just the confidence booster that you were needing. Let all the other guys at the bar remind you exactly what it was that he lost when he left you. Don’t cheapen yourself by any means, but make sure that you get a chance to remember that you are beautiful. Don’t let him steal that from you.

Reach out to your friends. I know that you feel lame but a burning night might be exactly what you need. Old pictures and reminders laying around your apartment? Burn them. Let the flames that engulf your memories make it all final. There is no coming back from charred ashes.

No matter what it is that helps you heal just remember that you have to heal. You can never expect someone new to love you if you can’t even love yourself. I know that it is much easier said than done, believe me, but just remember to never give up. There will be days that it seems pointless and like the pain will always be there, but I promise it won’t. There will come a day soon that you will find the perfect person who loves you for exactly who you are. But if you are convinced he is The One for you and you want to get him back , Read This Page


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