What You Should NEVER Do When He Is Withdrawing
When a man is withdrawing it is natural for you to become confused and upset.
Why isn’t he calling me as much as he used to?
Why isn’t he spending any more time with me?
Why is he pulling back after our relationship became so intense?
These are just some of the questions that are going through your mind.
And your first instinct is to say the things you FEEL when he is withdrawing!
But what you are feeling right now if your man is withdrawing is pain and fear that he is going to drift away forever!
This situation isn’t pleasant for anyone to experience.
When your man is withdrawing from the relationship your first instinct is to call him, get a hold of him and confront him!
Is he losing interest? Has he found someone else? Is he cheating on you?
You want to know the truth no matter how harsh the things you’ll hear will be.
And you start asking questions that you absolutely should not ask a man in this situation.
You ask him why he hasn’t called. You ask him, what’s wrong? You ask him, are you seeing anyone? You may even ask him, where is this relationship going?
You are simply trying to get an explanation from him. You are hoping that he is going to give you straightforward answers.
But this isn’t the case, and asking these questions will never work to your benefit.
When a man is withdrawing, don’t fool yourself. The first steps is to admit that the attraction is wearing off, and that you must TAKE ACTION in order to bring back the man who is pulling away.
If you make the mistake of asking him the wrong questions at the time when he is already sitting on a fence about continuing this relationship, you will push him even further away and confirm his initial doubts about your relationship.
Thus, you are making him come to the decision to break up with you completely.
Don’t make this mistake and don’t ask sensitive questions at this time. These questions are wrong, and when they come at the wrong time, they are likely to tip the scale of his doubts to make him decide to stop seeing you forever!
This decision is much harder to reverse once it is made.
It is, however, a lot easier to prevent a break up from happening, instead of fixing it after it happens.
The good news is, you still have the power to prevent the break up and bring your man very close to you even if he is already withdrawing!