a) this guy is ONLY after sex. period. Do NOT go there. NEXT NEXT NEXT.

He is flat out saying NO COMMITTMENT. He will not and will never change, if you go into this thinking ok we’ll it’s just casual and getting to ‘know each other’ BULLSHIT. So not going to happen that way…and you know you want more. not with this type of guy. You can see he won’t get close to girls, he won’t. You can’t “save” him or get him to love you either. He won’t love anyone the way you want love, so don’t feel worried about losing him you won’t, no one will really “get him”. He will constantly be searching the streets never fully satisfied always looking for ‘the next adventure’ in his life both emotionally career wise and sexually, where he isn’t tied down or responsible to anyone. Can’t you see that, the reason he tells you this is so he has ABSOLUTELY no responsibilty to you, and you can’t pull the “but you said” trick and make him feel bad – cos what he is offering IS bad, boring, isecure male bullshit.

It is how he would be with ALL girls, and cos some girls give it to him he will continue to do his over and over. He is just not cut to be a boyfriend, not until he find him self alone and with all girls saying, hell no. He is for fucking and fucking only. And even then it probably wouldn’t be any good cos intimacy, REAL intimacy while making love is what makes hard hot sex fun for girls, feeling special and like he LOVES you and only you.. and that you rock his world and only you, is what does it orgasmically. It’s mental not just physical, and this guy is saying ummm nope I suck in bed cos I don’t want to committ even an idea to committing… he just gave her the biggest turn off of all. B.O.R.I.N.G. Have some balls, maybe TRY get to know a girl intimately, stop be a pussy with committment and you might be surprised at how hot the sex can REALLY be. Crumbs is what you’re getting even if you’re ‘getting off’ on this “just for sex, no strings”. LOL. Men just don’t even realize what they’re missing and how girls get turned on….. that would make any girl blow his mind beyond his wildest dreams if he ever actually got close to her, and made it known he chose just her.

You will get emotionally involved beyond what you are now. He will just keep it going at the status quo where you get zero, feel like shit and he continues to do what he wants when he wants with absolutely no consideration for your feelings.

This is like being on the forever merry-go-round, and honey… simply don’t get on the ride, when there are rollercosters out there with FAR more mind blowing men not afraid of just being with a girlfriend and really getting to know someone, beyond just a booty bang while he scopes out the rest of his life and flitters about in the breeze ‘discovering his freedom’ in the mean time and you sit on your shelf waiting and waiting for when he might actually pick you up again to play with you. MORE OUT THERE, oh god, so MUCH more, even not just being with a man, but there are real men out there that can really show you what love feels like physically and emotionally..they’re the men that will show you what it really feels like to be with a sexy, committed alpha male man, that make all these tadpole males that never change or grow seem like second best, than you feeling that way.

good luck, NC with that guy, puh-lease. No more. cut him out.. don’t let him suck you in to his boring old pond of scummy sex when there are so much more experiences out there for you than this boring old scenario with a guy. These types of guys are boring, they have no zest or want to BE with a girl and really EXPLORE a woman.. they just want some play thing and you know what you have to offer is pretty damn fine, know that about yourself and go get it elsewhere cos there’s a bit wide world out there just waiting for you !