Why and How You CAN Get Your Ex Back No Matter How Bad the Breakup Was
Have you split up with your boyfriend and you’re heartbroken? You CAN get him back – here’s how.
If you have just broken up with your partner you are probably feeling pretty devastated right now. Perhaps you are in total despair because you really want him back.
Don’t worry, with the right strategy it is totally possible to be reunited with the person you love.
To get your ex back, though, you’re going to have to do a few things. Some of these may be the opposite of what your instincts tell you to do. Give them a try though – suspend your judgment until you test them.
1. Accept responsibility. Maybe you feel it was not your fault that the two of you have broken up. It probably wasn’t your idea. Nevertheless, you must be willing to acknowledge that you had a significant role to play in the ending of the relationship. Don’t play the blame game. Instead, acknowledge to yourself and to others that you take responsibility for the situation. In doing this you send a very powerful message that portrays you as someone of strength and integrity. These are qualities that your ex will find very attractive. This step alone may be enough to bring him back to you. However, a word of warning: you must be sincere about this. Be willing to “eat some humble pie” and refuse to point the finger at your ex partner.
2. Change your focus. Instead of dwelling on the past and reliving the pain of the breakup, you must focus on the only two places that can help you. They are the PRESENT and the FUTURE. Tale stock of your current situation and find things to be grateful for that you DO have in your life right now. Be optimistic for the future. By developing a positive mental attitude you also send a message to your ex that is both powerful and attractive.
3. Know that you can and WILL have him back as long as you follow the step-by-step plan outlined on this page. This goes beyond wishful thinking or hope. It is a deep, unshakeable faith that you know you will be together again after you have followed these steps. You must know in your heart without a shadow of a doubt that the two of you are meant to be together, that you are right for each other and that your partner (as well as you) is a better person from the two of you being in a relationship.
When you have this attitude and the right strategy for getting your ex back you have a power that is unstoppable.
It need not be the end of the road for your relationship. Many thousands of couples who split up end up getting back together. Often they thought that it was ‘all over’ and there was no hope. But they did! And you can too. By developing the attitudes and qualities described on this page you can not only get your ex back, but you will become a better (and happier) person too.
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