Why He Doesn’t Want To Commit

April 26, 2012 by  
Filed under Commitment Issues

Perhaps you’ve been seeing the guy you really like for a while. Your dates are very romantic and exciting. He is everything you want in a guy, but you can’t help but wonder, will he ever commit to a relationship?

And there comes a time when you just can’t handle the uncertainty anymore. You need to ask him where this relationship is going and whether he is sizing you up for a serious relationship and marriage potential.

At some point you decide to bring up the serious talk and to find out whether you two are truly meant to be together. You sit him down at a dinner table after you spent the day cooking a delicious five course meal, and once you start enjoying the meal you begin the serious talk.

It may go something like this; “So, we’ve been dating for a while. I am really looking for something serious. I want to be married in a year or two and to start a family. Are you looking for the same things?”

You know how hard it is to start a conversation like that. And you really wish he was the one that started it. But that didn’t happen, and you almost feel like you have to pressure him into committing to you.

And what’s worse is that he suddenly looks at you like deer in the headlights and says – “I thought we were just dating.”

He looks at you puzzled and goes on to say that he is not ready for commitment at this point in his life. He may say that his priority is finishing grad school and getting a job, or getting a promotion at work, or traveling to explore the world, or whatever, and for one reason or another he is just not looking to settle down at this time in his life.

And you start wondering, why doesn’t want to commit to a relationship? Am I not good enough? Does it mean that he doesn’t love me? Is there anything I can do that can make him change his mind about commitment and make him want to get serious?

If you want to understand why men don’t commit, and especially why they don’t even always want to commit to the women they love, you’ve come to the right place.

In order to answer the question, why doesn’t he want to commit, you must understand commitment issues that men have.

And in this article I want to outline the reasons he doesn’t want to commit to a serious relationship. Read This Page Now >>>

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