Why I Didn’t Marry My Boyfriend – This Could Be Why Yours Doesn’t Want To Marry You
If your boyfriend is reluctant to marriage, there could be multiple reasons why he won’t marry you, including the ones that you could change. But sometimes there is really nothing wrong with you personally, but he still won’t marry you. When it comes to marriage and the reason he doesn’t want to marry you, men and women think the same. The easiest way for you to figure out why he won’t marry you is to put yourself in his shoes and ask yourself, would I want to marry me if I were in his shoes? You may just come up with the answer to your own question.
But if you want to know why I didn’t marry my wonderful boyfriend, read this article and ask yourself, perhaps this is the reason or at least one of the reasons your boyfriend doesn’t want to marry you.
One of the fears men carry about marriage and commitment is DIVORCE. Yes, men fear divorce worse than the fire. Divorce will, just like a forest fire take away your house, your car, and your savings account, along with your IRA, stocks, bonds and your social security.
If you have children, it will most likely take them away as well, or at least hamper a man’s time with them and easy access to them.
Why in the world would a man want to surrender everything he’s worked for and saved in his life. Parting with your life savings, your house and nice cars is certainly not on everybody’s to-do list.
Being a debt-free with no outstanding liabilities and no mortgage to pay is a breeze especially when you are financially secure. Marrying someone who has more debt than they make automatically puts you in the position where you might and certainly will end up throwing your own good money after somebody else’s before marriage incurred debt. That’s just that!
If you are broke, with bad credit, lots of liabilities and horrible spending habits; if you spend more than you make and ‘rob Peter to pay Paul’, and your boyfriend is making good money and has a savings account, ask yourself, why is the world would he marry me? It is especially true if he is already getting the ‘free milk’, you are living together as a husband and wife, you do his laundry, cook for him and sleep with him. What is he missing out?
But if you don’t think that this situation is applicable to you; if you have your life in order and your act together, consider reading about Commitment!
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