Why Men Don’t Always Marry Women They Love

August 27, 2014 by  
Filed under Commitment

If you are with a man who says he loves you and yet still hasn’t popped the question, you may be wondering whether he really does love you as he says. All kinds of doubt can crawl into your mind, and you may start feeling very insecure in your relationship. Does he really love me? you ask yourself. How can I tell if he really loves me? And wouldn’t he want to spend the rest of his life with me if he really did love me and thought I am the one he wants to be with?

The reality is that love and marriage commitment are two different things. A man can love a woman very much and yet not see the future with her. And if a man doesn’t see his future with a specific woman by his side, he will never marry her unless the picture of his future changes, the woman changes, their relationship changes, or some other changes take place that make your man see his future differently or see you in his future, whereas he didn’t feel that way before.

If you want your man to commit to you, you need to convey to him by your actions that the future with you will be exactly what he wants for himself in his future, but even better. In short, men opinions do matter.

As women, we often paint a picture of our future the way we see it, and often without consideration of what the man wants in his future. We see him, of course, as a part of our lives, a part of our future. And we are convinced that this is what he wants also; we wouldn’t wish him unhappiness, of course. We assume that we both want the same thing in the future, when in reality, if that was the truth, then why would any man in his right mind refuse to accept this gift?

If you want a man to commit to you, talk to him about your future together, and make sure you are both on the same page. Some men are reluctant to talk about the future, and some are afraid to tell you with complete honesty what it is they really want in the future. At times, this topic is difficult to discuss, and some men may try to avoid it altogether. Learn how to communicate with your man in an open and honest way so that he will open up to you about his future – Read This Page >>>

 


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