Why Men Fall Out Of Love
Men are weird, said one woman to me. One day they are in love, and the next they act as if they don’t know you. Apparently, men can fall in love very fast, sometimes a lot faster than us, women. Men, however, can fall out of love just as fast, so if you want to keep your man in love, you must know what makes men fall in love and what makes them fall out of love!
There are natural instincts which make a man fall in love, and which you can unintentionally or purposely trigger which will determine whether you will keep your man in love or drive him away with the speed of light!
Now, I decided to ask men how they feel about falling in love, and what I discovered might be of interest to you.
Hopefully, some of their answers can shine the light on the issue with men losing interest too fast.
Paul, 54 recalls a time when he fell in love with a woman very fast.
I met a woman at a social event, got her number, and we finally had our first date.
I drove to her town and we went out to dinner.
After dinner she invited me over to her place. She said she’d bake an apple pie for me.
When we got there she lit candles, and we sat down to have the apple pie. It was a small pie and it was very sweet.
After we had the pie she literally attacked me on the couch. You know me, I am a meek person. I was just sitting there with my hands folded when she made the first move.
The night went great and when I drove home I felt like I didn’t want to see any other woman and was ready to pull down my dating site profile.
I called her the next morning.
She didn’t answer the phone and I couldn’t leave a message because her mail box was full.
I took my dog to the dog park nearby and waited for her to call me back hoping that she’d see my number of her caller ID and get back with me.
I came home an hour later, ran some errands, cleaned my house, and still there was no call from her.
That afternoon I called her again. I still couldn’t leave a message so I decided to just keep calling. However, a friend of mine who stopped by suggested that I stop calling her and wait for her to call me back. He said she’d think I was a stalker had I kept calling her.
She lives about eighty miles away and I was considering going over to her house despite my friend’s suggestion to leave her alone.
I really felt that I was in love, and that it was love at first sight.
I wanted to ask her to see me exclusively. She had told me she was looking for a relationship and so was I. I just didn’t want to stop dating on match until I knew that she wanted the same with me.
I finally got a call back from her several days later! (I had to leave a note at her house to get her attention).
She said that she did not return my calls because she felt bad that she invited me over on the first date. We agreed that I would call her again on Wednesday.
I had no idea what I was going to say to her on Wednesday. I was very nervous and talked to a couple of friends who suggested that I should just tell her what I wanted, and that I wanted to see her and no one else, and to gauge her interest in a relationship with me.
I didn’t want to scare her away though.
Since I didn’t know how she felt I continued to meet women on match.
That weekend I met another woman and our date went great. She came over, brought a bottle of wine and dinner to celebrate her promotion.
Our date went great, and I was sure she could have stayed the night but I didn’t want her to as I’d had a bad experience with the first woman. I thought if I’d had this new woman spend the night she could have freaked out just like the first one and wouldn’t want to see me again.
I am now over the first one. After thinking about how much trouble it was, how much drama it involved, I wanted to have a relationship that wouldn’t require as much effort in trying to get a woman to have a relationship with me.
The new gal is a lot of fun and there hasn’t been any drama with her, so I will continue seeing her.
After I heard this story I was shocked. Wow! He thought he was in love at first sight with the first woman, and suddenly he changed his tune.
It is apparent that when a woman brings drama into a relationship, acts insecure and unsure about how she feels about a relationship, the guy won’t stick around.
Have you ever lost a guy because of this?
Did you know that men have natural instincts that dictate whom they date, whom they fall in love with, and whom they commit to?
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