Why Men Pull Away During Early Stages Of a Relationship

July 3, 2012 by  
Filed under Commitment Issues

Early stages of a relationship are probably the most fragile time when both women and men alike are the most sensitive to each other’s little quirks and nuances. If you have gone out with a guy and have a weird feeling after a few dates that he is starting to pull away from you, and perhaps even lose attraction early on, pay close attention to the early signs that indicate that your man’s interest in a relationship is waning, because if you are still interested in keeping your guy’s interest, there are ways to gain it back fast. The key here is to understand why he is withdrawing and what is causing it, so you can adjust your behavior accordingly to what suits your relationship better.

First and foremost, you need to ask yourself whether you are sure your guy has a great potential to fulfill your desires in a relationship, and why you want to keep this man rather than finding someone who won’t require so much work to maintain a relationship with. If you decide after much consideration and looking at pros and cons that your guy is a keeper, and you are willing to put in a little work to set the stage for a good promising relationship early on, keep reading! And if you shall decide, after a careful consideration, that you would rather look elsewhere and start dating other men, trying to attract a guy who is on the same page with you, read This Page>>> instead!

Now, assuming that you still want to keep the guy who is starting to pull away from you, but isn’t completely out of your life at this stage, I have some great news for you. In order to determine what made him have a change of heart on you so suddenly, I recommend that you ask yourself the following questions:

- Was there anything that I said or did that may have caused him to pull away?

Perhaps you had a little disagreement, but the reason for such disagreement was that you couldn’t see eye to eye on some bigger and important issue. An example would be a disagreement about personal values, family, spending time, lifestyle, etc.

Men know early on if the women they date have a potential for something serious or are just good for a fling. If your personal values are far too different, that could be the reason he started to pull away from you. If a man doesn’t see a potential future with you, he is less likely to lead you on. He would rather show you through his action that he isn’t planning on having a serious relationship with you than face the dreaded serious talk leading nowhere later on.

- When was his last relationship and how did it end?

One of multiple reasons men pull away in early stages of a relationship is that they aren’t over their previous relationships. They start dating again after a painful breakup thinking that a new relationship will fix the giant hole in their lives left after the break up, but they don’t realize that they are nowhere near being ready for a new relationship.

It’s best in that case to let the guy alone and to allow him to straighten up his past and the wreckage of the past relationship. In this case, the reason he pulled away has nothing to do with you. You could have been the best date and a girlfriend for your guy, but not being ready for a new relationship, as well as not being emotionally available for a new start has put an end to your relationship.

- Did he voice his strong opinions about something that you do or did that made him uncomfortable?

If so, it is important to recognize these issues early on in a relationship. Often, we are so caught up in the new and exciting feeling we get when we start falling in love that we completely overlook the early warning signs present in a relationship.

This doesn’t mean that there is something wrong with you. This could be completely your man’s personal issues, and somehow you may have done something unwittingly to trigger and push his hot buttons that ultimately made him pull away.

Whether you can identify with any of these early signs on an impending breakup, know that if you are sure that your man is the one you want to keep, there are ways to bring him back and overcome the obstacles standing on your way to a great relationship.

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2 Responses to “Why Men Pull Away During Early Stages Of a Relationship”
  1. Lara says:

    We went out 3 times and on our third date we finally had sex. Before we had sex he was calling me every day. After sex his phone calls stopped and he only texted me twice since to check in. What happened?

  2. Pedro says:

    Why do men pull away soon after everything seemed to been looking so amazing between the two of you? Did he loose interest in you or did you annoy him but don’t know what you did?

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