Why Men Resist Falling In Love
Love is the most amazing and intoxicating feeling on Earth. But if you are falling in love with a man who seems to be totally into you but is not entirely head over heels in love with you yet, you may be wondering if you are doing something wrong that pushes him away.
Truth is, it’s not something that you are doing wrong – in fact, it’s not your fault at all. It’s just that some men (and people in general) resist falling in love on purpose.
They may have had bad experiences in the past. Your man may have been cheated on before. He may have been hurt before by someone he loved. And naturally, next time he feels this intoxicating emotion for you, he will want to withdraw and hide from it.
Fortunately, there are things you can do to help him overcome his fear of falling in love.
First and foremost, you need to make sure he feels safe with you. When a man feels safe around you, he won’t fear that he might get hurt and instead of being defensive he’ll become accepting of this newly found feeling of love.
He will feel safe to let his guard down and let this intoxicating emotion take over.
This is when you and he will mutually experience the feeling of falling in love.
On the other hand, when your man doesn’t feel safe around you, he might fear that if he lets down his guard he might get hurt again just like he did in his past.
Men always look for signs whether consciously or subconsciously which can reveal the things about you to give them the green light to trust you or the red flags to hold off on trust.
And until a man has complete trust in you he will be scarce with his emotions.
Granted, trust is something that’s gained as time passes. Sometimes it happens sooner, sometimes it takes a very long time, and sometimes trust is never earned!
The fast track to gaining trust with your man is through effective communication techniques.
When you know how to talk to your man the right way you will benefit from gaining trust in a record time. You can quickly overcome the hurdles which new relationships typically come with and enjoy a happy and fulfilling relationship you dream about!