Why You Keep Attracting The Wrong Men
Do you ever wonder why in the world with all these available single guys you keep attracting the wrong ones?
It’s not that you can’t attract a man, it’s just that every time it is the WRONG MAN
Have you ever thought of that?
You keep attracting the wrong type of guys, and can’t seem to meet the man to settle down with.
I know this for a fact that many times women settle for less than they deserve.
Are you settling for less than you deserve because A man, ANY man is better than being single?
And when a man is not up to par you keep making excuses for him.
Perhaps he did not offer to help you move the furniture when you were moving into a new apartment. All your friends came to help, but he told you he would be busy that day, which was Sunday. Yeah, right.
And you make excuse after excuse. Oh yeah, he is just tired; he is just busy; he just doesn’t have time for me; he is just lazy, etc.
Have you ever done this?
Or perhaps you met a guy who you weren’t particularly attracted to but you went out with him anyway, and after a number of dates you still feel that there is no attraction on your part; but you think that dating SOME GUY is better than being alone because at least you have the status of ‘having someone to date’. Ever experienced that?
If you are like most women you will say YES to at least one of these questions.
Even the best quality women fall into the trap of the wrong guy.
Liz was an attractive outgoing woman in her forties. She had a great job working for a major law firm in San Francisco. She had a house in an affluent area. She had everything.
She met her boyfriend Paul several years ago. Paul had a Master’s Degree because his parents put him through school but he never used it. He couldn’t keep a job, was running from child support for his two kids from his ex girlfriend he never took any interest in, and was ultimately staying with his wealthy parents.
Liz dated Paul for several years, in the course of which he also cheated on her when he had an opportunity. She gave him a job at the firm she was working at but he didn’t like the boss or what the boss said and quit.
Finally after years Liz woke up, broke it off and found a new guy. And last thing I heard was that she is now engaged.
If you keep dating the wrong men, perhaps it’s not the men. When you realize that a faulty guy will not turn into a prince no matter how much you invest in him, you will move on and find THE RIGHT GUY.
If you want to know how to identify the Right Man, read This Page!
If you have ever found yourself settling for less than you deserve and want to share your story, leave a comment down below.