Will I Ever Find True Love?

January 20, 2010 by  
Filed under Finding Your Soulmate

Most women, even the most hardened and skeptical of us, want to settle down at some stage with the man of our dreams. With Brad Pitt and George Clooney not currently available, it’ll have to be a regular guy. With years of bad dating experiences and being let down by the men in your life, you can be forgiven for thinking true, long lasting love only exists in the movies. In actuality though, there is such a man out there. You just haven’t found him yet. Why haven’t you found him? Either because you haven’t been looking in the right places or you haven’t made the best of what you have to offer. The former is something that is easy to fix, the latter slightly more difficult. With enough determination, anything is possible though.

Where Should I Be Looking?

This is dependent on a number of factors, most notably your lifestyle. If you go out to bars on a regular basis, you’ll probably meet lots of guys, but meeting ‘the one’ can be often difficult in that kind of environment. You might work long hours, limiting the amount of time you can allocate to your social life. You might spend lots of time on your hobbies and interests, if these hobbies and interests are solitary in nature then you aren’t going to meet Mr. Right whilst enjoying them. On the other hand, if it is a hobby/interest where like minded guys also hang out, you could be missing a great opportunity each and every time you go there. My advice would be to expand your social reach – if you always go to the same places, mix it up some. If your hobbies and interests don’t allow you to mix with other people(especially those of the opposite sex), maybe look into some that do. There are so many options available to you – make sure you aren’t limiting yourself. Try a free dating site just to see who is out there and what kind of competition you may encounter from other women.

How Can I Make The Best Of What I Have To Offer?

This is a lot simpler than you might think. There are only two areas you need to look at – the outside and the inside. Yes, people say ‘it’s what’s on the inside that counts’ but let’s be honest, when it comes to dating and men in particular – how you look plays a part too. This doesn’t mean you need to look like a supermodel, so please don’t get into that way of thinking. By spending some more time on your appearance, you not only make yourself more appealing to the opposite sex, you will feel better about yourself too. Let’s look at some practical things you can work on:-

Healthy Diet – you are what you eat, a healthier body = a healthier mind.

Exercise – just a few minutes of exercise a few times a week can make a world of difference to your body and your overall mood.

Accentuate Your Features – a few minutes every day simply applying some makeup can make a big difference.

Take Care of Your Skin – a dedicated face wash and moisturizer is all you need for smooth, healthy looking skin.

Cut Out Bad Habits – cutting down on alcohol, and cutting out smoking completely might be a positive step in the right direction.

In terms of the you on the inside, simply make an effort to be friendly, polite, confident and assertive. Of course, this can be easier said than done, but if you keep working at it on a daily basis, there’s no reason why you can’t have guys falling at your feet and hanging off your every word. If you are really serious about improving your demeanor and self confidence, there are many books available, both online and offline.


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One Response to “Will I Ever Find True Love?”
  1. Emma says:

    Congratulations on a nice article. A person can have rebound relationships the rest of their life-time, or they can work what went wide in a romantic relationship – whether it was their fault or their spouses that ended the relationship – and do things to modify those things. A individual might get into a relationship that lasts for classes but if there is still a ghostwriter from the prior relationship, the present one will either not work or will be painful for one or both. A rising divorcee takes to ask questions of themselves and find the answers, and depending upon the resolutions, may well never have a rebound relationship but rather one that works.

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